求有关拖延症的演讲稿!!!!!!
演讲稿拖延症 篇一延症与执演讲稿 拖延症与执行 开场:同学们好,老师好。
相信多数同学都听说过这样一个新名词——拖延症。
顾名思义,所谓拖延症,就是指事事都会无意识的拖延。
也许本来做好了详细的计划,一到实行的时候,就想着,再等一会,等一小会。
等着等着,这件事就那么过去了。
曾经有一位叫做钱鹤滩的学者写过这样一首脍炙人口的诗:“明日复明日,明日何其多。
我生待明日,万事成蹉跎。
”从某一方面来看,拖延症无疑压制了一个人的执行力。
本来无关紧要的事,日积月累下来就做不完了。
说到这里,我想做个小调查。
各位同学认为自己有拖延症的,请举一下手。
(——)那请问,这些举手的同学,你们是否认为拖延症阻碍了你们的计划,压制了你们的执行力。
(——) 其实,根据调查发现。
拖延症大多来自一定的时间限制。
假如一件不大不小的事,给你10天去完成,几乎绝大多数人都会无意识选择拖延,因为大家都认为,这件事既然无足轻重,一定很容易就办到,等期限快到的时候再去做也不迟。
结果到了第八天,第九天甚至第十天你才去做这件事,本来慢慢做可以非常漂亮并且轻松的完成任务,却因为拖沓导致任务完成仓促,虎头蛇尾。
甚至需要外力的帮助去草草解决。
要做一个五分钟左右关于拖延症的演讲。
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求演讲稿。
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看杜云生的演讲,十大癌症
课前演讲三分钟,想讲一下关于拖延症的危害和克服方法。
500字左右,高悬赏,谢谢
拖延症的危害危害一:怀疑自己当自己不能按时完成某项工作的时候,长期如此,你会觉得自己有身体方面的疾病,长期这样也会给内心造成影响,变得不自信,怀疑自己的人生。
危害二:精神萎靡没精神,怀疑自己是植物人,或者还有点心脏病的意思
都不是,你干不动活很多时候是因为你不去做,出现上面的情况你的身体95%的可能是健康的,一点病都没有,除了做事拖延外。
危害三:心理扭曲如果你的家人朋友说你太懒了,别不爱听,这是真的,这是一种心理上厌倦的情绪,不管是生气、嫉妒还是嫌恶等都可能引起拖延症的出现。
危害四:无法实现自己的想法因为你的拖延,会让自己的事情无法按照自己的意愿去完成,活动总是被拖延,好事总是不能成圆。
危害五:变得自我因为你不会对所有的事情都拖延,而是对自己不喜欢的事情拖延,不要认为自己只去做自己喜欢的事情是对的,实际上一个有担当有责任的人,还是应该做自己应该做的事情,只有做好了必要的事情,才能去做自己喜欢的事情。
危害六:出现焦虑因为他们工作和学习的不突出,拖延成了恐慌,他们开始否定自己,贬低自己,从而产生焦虑,甚至会厌世情绪。
贴近生活的演讲稿,3至5分钟就可以讲完的
明代的王心斋把学和乐视为一物,的确是极好的见解.当然,学习不仅仅限制于读书,不过读书也确是人生一大乐趣.正因如此,古往今来,有多少学者或是读书人嗜书成癖,我也是小小的一条“驻书虫”. 读 古人把读书者分为三类:苦读、痴读和闲读.比起点墨成冰而心目如磐的苦读,还有头悬梁锥刺股的痴读 ,我更多的时候是在闲读——茶余饭后,书摊站前,随手展卷,目走如行.不求甚解,只求一得. 当然,精读一些书也十分必要.“学而不思则罔,思而不学则殆”,只有学而思,才可免于迷惘和危殆.做些摘抄,或是开动脑筋细细回味一番,从而从先哲的著作中汲取智慧.事后思来,都是极有乐趣之举. 读书是一种乐趣,要享受这种乐趣也需讲究些意境 . 白天的紧张与劳累忘却了,处事的烦恼与愁绪也消失了.没有寒暄与打扰,独自神游于字里行间——刀光剑影,风雪飘飞,艺术的美妙,人生的感叹——都奔凑到眼前.待读得会心之处,击掌而笑,与古人交谈;或临窗而立,看星月移动,听树影婆娑之声,更是乐在其中. 温馨朦胧的春夜,烟云缭绕的夏夜,潇洒倜傥的秋夜,静谧严峻的冬夜,都赋予夜读丰富多彩的乐意,而风雨雷电又平添了无数的趣味. 书是传播思想的,能启发人的思维,也能成为束缚人的框框,所以读书既能入,又要能出.在看《庄子》时得一佳句:“筌者所以在鱼,得鱼而忘筌;言者所以在意,得意而忘言 .”我想,这里的“得意”,既指书中之意,又指自得其意,自得其乐.在读书中,我实在是得到了许多难以形容的乐趣,也得到了知识和智慧.这些只是我读书的一点点感受而已.
谁能帮我找一个演讲稿,幽默的用一个小故事表现了一个哲理
1、有一位表演大师上场前,他的弟子告诉他鞋带松了。
大师点头致谢,蹲下来仔细系好。
等到弟子转身后,又蹲下来将鞋带解松。
有个旁观者不解地问:大师,您为什么又要将鞋带解松呢
大师回答道:因为我饰演的是一位劳累的旅行者,长途跋涉让他的鞋带松开了。
那你为什么不直接告诉你的弟子呢
他能细心地发现我的鞋带松了,并且热心地告诉我,我一定要保护他这种热情的积极性,及时地给他鼓励。
至于为什么要将鞋带解开,将来会有更多的机会教他表演,可以下一次再说啊。
(说明:人一个时间只能做一件事,懂抓重点,才是真正的人才。
) 2、一个人去买鹦鹉,看到一只鹦鹉前标:此鹦鹉会两门语言,售价200元一只。
另一只鹦鹉前标道:此鹦鹉会四门语言,售价400元。
该买哪只呢
两只都毛色光鲜,非常灵活可爱。
这人转啊转,拿不定主意。
结果突然发现一只老掉了牙的鹦鹉,毛色暗淡散乱,标价800元。
这人赶紧将老板叫来:这只鹦鹉是不是会说八门语言
店主说:不。
这人奇怪了:那为什么又老又丑,又没有能力,会值这个数呢
店主回答:因为另外两只鹦鹉都叫这只鹦鹉老板。
(说明:真正的领导人,不一定自己能力有多强,只要懂信任,懂得放权,懂得珍惜,就能团结比自己更强的力量,从而提升自己的身价。
相反许多能力非常强的人却因为过于完美主义,事必躬亲,什么人都不如自己,最后只能做最好的业务员,销售代表,成不了优秀的领导人。
) 3、曾经有个人小国的人到中国来,进贡了三个一模一样的金人,把皇帝高兴坏了。
可是这小国的人同时出了一个题目:这三个金人哪个最有价值
皇帝请来了珠宝匠检查,称重量,看做工,都是一模一样的。
泱泱大国,不会被这点小问题难倒吧
最后,有位退休的老大臣说他有办法。
皇帝将使者请到大殿,老臣拿着三根稻草,插入第一个金人的耳朵里,这稻草从另一个耳朵出来了。
第二个金人的稻草从嘴里直接掉出来了,而第三个金人,稻草进去后掉进了肚子里,什么响动也没有了。
老臣说:第三个金人最有价值
使者默默无语,答案正确。
(说明:最有价值的人,不一定上最能说的人,老天给我们两只耳朵一个嘴巴,本来就是让我们多听少说的。
善于倾听,才是成熟的人最基本的素质。
) 4、a对b说:我要离开这个公司。
我恨这个公司
b建议道:我举双手赞成你报复
破公司一定要给他点颜色看看。
不过你现在离开,还不是最好的时机。
a问:为什么
b说:如果你现在走,公司的损失并不大,你应该趁着在公司的机会,拼命去为自己拉一些客户,成为公司独挡一面的人物,然后带着这些客户突然离开公司,公司才会受到重大损失,非常被动。
a觉得b说的非常在理,于是努力工作,事遂所愿,半年多的努力后,他有了许多的忠诚客户。
再见面时b问a:现在是时机恶劣,要跳赶快行动哦
a淡然笑道:老总跟我长谈过了,准备升我做总经理,我暂时没有离开的打算了。
其实这也是b的初衷。
(说明:工作中,只有付出大于得到,让老板真正看到你的能力大于位置,才会给你更多机会) 5、有三个人要被关进监狱3年,监狱长满足他们每人一个要求,美国人爱抽雪茄,要了三箱雪茄,法国人最浪漫,要一个美丽的女子相伴,而犹太人说,他要一部与外界沟通的电话。
3年后,第一个冲出来的是美国人,嘴里鼻孔里塞满了雪茄,大喊:给我火,给我火
原来他忘了要火。
接着出来的是法国人,已经孩子成群。
最后出来的是犹太人,他紧紧握住监狱长的手说:这3年来我每天与外界联系,我的生意不但没有停顿,反而增长了200%,为表感谢,我送你一辆劳斯来斯
(说明:什么样的选择决定什么样的生活,今天的生活是由3年前我们的选择决定的,而今天我们的抉择将决定我们3年后的生活。
我们要选择接触最新的信息,了解最新的趋势,从而更好地创造自己的将来。
) 6、两个人在森林里遇到了一只大老虎,a就赶紧从背后取下一双运动鞋换上。
b急死了,骂道:你干嘛呢,再换上鞋也跑不过老虎啊
a说:我只要跑得比你快就好了。
(说明:21世纪,没有危机感是最大的危机,电信,银行,甚至是公务员这些我们以为非常稳定和有保障的行业,也会面临许多的变数。
当老虎来临时,我们有没有准备好自己的跑鞋
) 7、有个秀才第三次进京赶考,住在一个常住的店里,考试前两天他做了3个梦,第一个梦到自己在墙上种白菜,第二个梦是下雨天,他戴了斗笠还打伞,第三个梦是梦到跟心爱的表妹脱光了衣服躺在一起,但是背靠着背。
这3个梦似乎有些深意,秀才第二天找算命的解梦。
算命的一听,连拍大腿说:你还是回家把。
你想想,高墙上种白菜不是白费劲吗
戴斗笠还打雨伞不是多此一举吗
跟表妹都脱光了躺在一起,却背靠背,不是没戏吗
秀才一听,心灰意冷,回店收拾包袱准备回家。
店主觉得奇怪,询问之下秀才道知原委,店老板一听乐了:我也会解梦啊,我倒觉得,你这次一定要留下,你想想,墙上种菜不是高种(中)吗
戴斗笠打伞不是说明你这次有备无患吗
跟你表妹脱光了背靠背躺在床上,说明你翻身的时候就要到了 。
秀才一听,更有道理,于是地参加了考试,居然中了个探花。
(说明:积极的人,象太阳,照到哪里那里亮;消极的人,象月亮,初一十五不一样。
想法决定我们的生活,有什么样的想法,就有什么样的未来。
) 8、动物园里的问妈妈:妈妈,为什么我们的睫毛那么长
骆驼妈妈说:长长的睫毛可以遮挡风沙,让我们在风暴中都能够看得到方向。
又问:为什么我们的背那么驼,丑死了
骆驼妈妈说:这个叫驼峰,可以储存大量的水和养分,让我们能在沙漠里耐受十几天的无水无食。
又问:为什么我们的脚掌那么厚
骆驼妈妈说:那可以让我们的身子不至于陷在沙子里,便于长途跋涉啊。
小骆驼高兴坏了:哗,原来我们这么有用啊
可是妈妈,为什么我们还在动物园里,不去沙漠远足呢
(说明:天生我才必有用,可惜现在没人用。
一个好的心态+一本成功的教材+一个无限的舞台=成功。
每人的潜能是无限的,关键是要找到一个能充分发挥潜能的舞台。
) 9、有7个人住在一起,每天分一大桶粥,要命的是,粥每天都是不够的。
一开始,他们抓阄决定谁来分粥,每天轮一个,于是乎每周下来,他们只有一天是饱的,就是自己分粥的那一天。
后来他们推选出一个道德高尚的人分粥。
强权就会产生腐败,大家开始挖空心思去讨好他,贿赂他,搞的整个小团体乌烟瘴气。
然后大家开始组成三人的分粥委员会及四人的评选委员会,但他们常常互相攻击,扯皮下来,粥吃到嘴里全是凉的。
最后想出来一个方法:轮流分粥,但分粥的人要等其他人都挑完后剩下的最后一碗。
为了不让自己吃到最少的,每人都尽量分的平均。
此后大家快快乐乐,和和气气,日子越过越好了。
(说明:同样是7个人,不同的分配制度,就会有不同的风气。
所以一个单位如果有不好的工作习气,一定是没有完全公平公正公开,没有严格的奖勤罚懒。
如何制订这样一个制度,是每个领导需要考虑的问题。
)10,动物园里,大人指着笼子里的猴子,对小孩说:“你知道这种动物叫什么名字吗?”“不知道。
”小孩看着上蹿下跳的猴子回答。
“记住,孩子,”大人说,“这种动物叫猴,是专门供咱们人类开心的。
”“何以见得呢?”小孩问。
“不信你瞧——”大人说着,从提包中摸出一颗花生,朝笼子里的大猴背后扔去,只见大猴急转身,略一迟疑,却用嘴接住,然后再用爪子从嘴里取出来,剥开吃掉,显得很滑稽。
小孩笑起来,说:“真有意思
”大人也被大猴的举动逗得很开心,便来了兴致,又将另一颗花生扔进去,还是扔向大猴身后的地方,大猴,转身,跳起来用嘴接住,用爪子取出剥开,放进嘴里。
大人受了鼓舞,便不断地扔,大猴便不断地这样接,接住吃掉,或给身边的。
直到一大包花生全部扔完了,大人和小孩才恋恋不舍地离开。
路上,小孩问大人:“你为什么将花生扔到大猴的背后呢?”大人得意地笑了,说:“猴子翻来覆去地来回折腾才有意思啊?”小孩信服地说:“爸爸你真行!”大人又说:“猴子这种动物自以为挺聪明,其实被咱们耍了,它还不知道呢,真可悲!”动物园里,大猴指着笼子外的人,对说:“你知道这种动物叫什么名字吗
“不知道。
”望着指手画脚的人回答。
“记住,孩子,”大猴说,“这种动物叫人,是专门供咱们猴子开心的。
”“何以见得呢?”小猴问。
“不信你瞧——”这时,适逢有个大人往笼子里扔花生,扔向大猴背后,大猴急转身,略一思忖,用嘴去接住,然后再用爪子从嘴里取出,剥开吃掉,显得很滑稽。
终于,那大人的一大包花生全部扔给了猴子。
他们走后,小猴问大猴:“你为什么用嘴去接扔进来的花生?”大猴得意地笑了,说:“如果我用爪子去接,他们还会继续扔吗?”小猴信服地说:“妈妈你真行。
”大猴又说:“人这种动物自以为挺聪明,其实被咱耍了,他们还不知道呢,真可悲!”
怎么克服演讲恐惧症
克服心理的恐慌,需要时间的积累和一定数量的练习。
或许你欠缺的就是这个锻炼的机会,不妨把这当做是一次对自己的突破,去比赛前多注意在人前演讲,一开始的紧张是难免的,几次之后你一定就不那么难受了,事情熟悉了就好。
还有就是准备工作一定要做足。
与其每天夜不能寐,不如把心思放在怎样去讲出精彩的内容上才是正道。
充实自己的同时,心态自然也就放平了。
对自己演讲的内容一定要非常熟悉,像背古诗一样,烂熟于心。
这样在你觉得紧张,大脑空白的时候,才不会因无话可说而变得尴尬。
如果内容满满的,你就不会觉得局促不安。
求英语大神检查一下下面这篇英文3分钟演讲稿有没有语法问题……
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我帮你改一下下啊。
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等会
如果有效监督孩子在家里上网课
孩子不肯听大人的。
严重的拖延症,我真怕她最后毁在这上面
孩子天生没有问题,最大的问题是父母,好好想想,你和你爱人之间的关系,还有你们在孩子面前究竟是什么样的状态,每个父母的心都是好的,但是方法总是最差的,最后的结果就是孩子永远和父母心灵沟通越来越远,养孩子像训虎,捆得越紧越挣扎,差的结果要么孩子孤僻自卑,要么反虐成性。
她现在所有得表现,你有从孩子得心里最深处感受,她为什么这样,她干嘛这样。
父母在她心里究竟是怎么样得。
压迫教育的确能使孩子快速成长,但是会落下思想病根的源泉,影响她的行为,思考,言行,举止。
我们都只是生活的一面镜子,却不能好好的看看自己。
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education 1Good morning,everyone.It’s my honour to stand here to share my opinion with everyone here.It goes without saying that education is very important for everyone. If you are educated and you have earned your degree in any of professional field you can expect to be a part of good organizations, institutions and companies. The most important thing is to have a legit degree from a recognized institution, therefore you always need to attest and verify about the association of an institution in which you are eager to take admission. If you are a busy person and you cannot take a step towards completing your studies then you can make the most of online education programs which are providing online courses to their students virtually by means of distance learning and there is no doubt that the number of good institution are offering such valuable online courses at affordable cost as you can get from any public institution.You just need to sign up first by adding your name, address and the names of course you are more interested in, and few of online websites may require a pre-test but mostly don't ask for any kind of pre-test. You don't need to take a test before joining their education program.You can surf on the internet to find many websites meet your educational needs. Thousands of the websites which are offering good online education programs will be switched open on a single click then you can select the one of program and website that suit you better. Always check the association and affiliation of website and institution before you begin to take a course from them as many institutions claim to provide a legit online diploma or degree courses but they are fraudulent organization, trading behind the scene.education 2Having a good education can really make a difference in someone's life, and in many different aspects. As you are a little boy or girl the only way to have a good life and be well off is if you go to school. Or at least that's what everyone tells you. Now don't get me wrong for the most part it is almost 100 percent true.Now notice I said ALMOST. The reason why I say that is because there are a couple of people that have become very wealthy and famous might I add that have dropped out of school. However if you are not one of these lucky people then dropping out of school might not be a good idea but the ultimate decision does lie within you and only you. However according to studies it is true that the longer that you stay in school the more money you will make. The reason for that is that because in this society education is regarded very highly because the is something that no one can take away from you.However school is not for everyone. There are some people that just feel like they just aren't school material. Now if you want to be successful you have to be in the mindset that you can achieve everything that you want and it will happen. You must always believe in yourself and others will believe in you as well. However no one can change your life except you. You have to make sure that you are willing to put in everything of you that there is to give.technology 1Nowadays, there is much that a PC owner is able to do to maintain the performance or or even effect a simple repair with suitable Internet tools and software. Most complaints about the performance of a PC centre around the slowing down of the machine. In my experience fragmentation of the C or D hard drive or both is often a major cause. This is because with continual deletion and overwriting of new files, the data ends up all over the drive in small segments. The PC operating system, i.e., XP or VISTA provides a built in defrag program to reduce the file fragmentation. Usually, the invoking of the defrag program will make your PC fast again.Other Internet Tools and Software are available to fix problems involving the Internet when your machine becomes saddled with Spyware and Adware. These unwelcome programs enable outside individuals and companies to spy on your web browsing activities and invade your privacy. 'Scan your Computer for Free' programs are available to effectively eliminate these nasties. Also, most people are aware of virus infections in one's PC and there are good AntiVirus programs, which will keep your PC safe.Another problem which will challenge your PC is missing and invalid references in your Windows registry. Again, there are good programs to clean any invalid or obsolete entries.To summarise in this modern day of Computers and Technology, there are many Internet Tools and Software available for you to keep your PC running efficiently. These tools are easy to install and apply and are relatively inexpensive to buy representing good insurance for your PC investment.technology 2One of the most popular trends in technology is the social networking websites. There are over one hundred of these sites. Twitter, Facebook, and YouTube have become some of the most popular.Young people ignited the trend for social networking sites and may have the habit of adding information, videos, or photos on these sites that would compromise their desirability. Keep your comments on the same standard as your letter of inquiry. Expect the company will do a search on you that will make or break your success in being hired. Review your posts and ask yourself Would I show this to my Grandmother?After extensive research to package yourself as the best hire possible, why throw all your hard work down the drain with a picture of you doing something compromising? Remember, there is no such thing as privacy on the internet and your prospective employers are savvier than you think.Beyond the cautions of the social networking sites, you can and should use them to your advantage. Videos and photos add to your presentation. If you have a website that showcases your skills, by all means, publicize it. If you do not have a web site you can get a page at the more professional social networking site, LinkedIn. There you can add material that will market you for your next job.Finally, manage information about you that may be on other people's sites. Do a search of yourself and update anything that is not accurate or flattering.evironment 1When most people hear the term 'toxic waste,' they tend to think about large corporations and even construction sites where large amounts of it are being dumped every day. The truth is toxic waste is anything that could be dangerous for living creatures. This includes things around the average home from mouse traps to cosmetics and most cleaning supplies. If people aren't careful about how to dispose of them, they could cause severe harm to the environment as well as themselves.The biggest problem with most toxic waste, even the stuff that just sits around in the house, is that it can't be dealt with like other materials. Toxic materials should never be poured down the drain, flushed down a toilet, dumped outside, or thrown in the trash. Most things that contain these toxins will give specific instructions somewhere on the label on how to safely dispose of them. Local dumpsites will also have knowledgeable people who are able to inform people of how to get rid of the hazardous waste. Some landfills will also accept this waste for an extra charge.Recycling is another option for people who need to get rid of toxic materials. As an example, ash is actually a toxin if it is in extremely large quantities. It can harm the environment when it is just tossed outside. Instead of someone throwing their ashes out they can actually reuse them as an ingredient for making things like candles and soap. Other toxic materials can be reused in a similar fashion such as plastic bottles or tires. They can be used for art projects and even useful items such as flower pots or playground materials.People who share with their neighbors also have a handle on dealing with toxic waste. Many times people want to dispose of things because they won't use it anymore but rather than dump it there is the option of giving it away. Paint, cleaners, and other around the house items can be given away to other people who will use them. That means that there will be less of it to throw away. When people only need a product for a one time occasion, it would be better for them to ask a neighbor to borrow it than buy a whole container of something. Saving products for a later date is another way to reduce the amount of toxic waste that occurs.Of course the best way to manage toxic waste is to completely prevent it. Just about every household item that is toxic has a 'green' product that has little to no toxins in it. For cleaning drains, people can actually use vinegar and baking soda as a safe method for unclogging and cleaning dirty drains. Stores also sell non-toxic products and will label all of their products that do contain serious chemicals. The safe products will be in the same area as the chemical filled ones and will only be higher in price by a very small percentage. Online websites also offer alternatives to using hazardous materials.evironmen 2We are living in an industrial era. Industries are producing large quantities of productions every day and in return they are polluting the environment. Although many people pointed out in earlier years that we should consider industrial pollution, years have passed before the countries focused their attention on this issue.We are facing global warming issues now and the question is How can we manage to escape this issue?. Although many attempts are being made to prevent the pollution, there are still issues regarding the environmental threats. However, governments are trying their best to overcome the problem. It is widely believed that attention is being focused on other rechargeable sources neglecting the need to prevent the pollution, planting of trees and controlling the exhaust emissions.There is a recent development in the atmosphere that ozone layer is healing itself but on the other side, the greenhouse effect is growing worse as the time passes. Pollution can be handled by taking preventive measures. If we start using natural energy resources then pollution problem can be contained. Although some countries are taking measures to face this growing problem but there are still many countries that don't acknowledge these problems and taking no preventive steps. Our industries are emitting more and more pollution in the water and the air. This has to be stopped now.We should acknowledge that the waste material emitting from the industries is the largest source of pollution and we should try to minimize the waste or take preventive steps that ensure that these fuels don't damage our environment. Many small countries where the growth rate is not that much are usually neglecting this problem. As the machinery they use is very old and is very dangerous. The pollution problem cannot be faced by one man or one country; it would take joint effort to overcome this problem. We need to somehow provide developing countries with new technology.cultureI recently went to China; Beijing to be exact. I found that after exploring the city for a month, having tried all the local fare, taken in the famous sites, i.e. the Great Wall, the Temple of Heaven, etc., one of the most unique and beautiful aspects of Chinese society is its tea culture.All around Beijing there are little teahouses. Inside these teahouses are little rooms, which are not unlike those found on trains. They are very small, have two couches along the walls opposite each other, and a table in the middle. Also, there is a door to each little room. A friend took me to one of these houses, and I was surprised by how quiet they are inside. A woman took us to a room and seated us, then brought us tea on a special table. It was this little table that caught my attention. It was beautifully and ornately carved, and seemingly very old. I was caught off guard when she set the teacups in a row on top of the table and then proceeded to pour boiling hot tea down the line of cups, showing no regard for the exquisite craftsmanship underneath. However, I was soon informed that it was customary to pour the tea like that, in fact, that this special table was made just for this; it was called a gongfu table. They have a hidden tray below the lid, which catches the tea, and water that falls through. So, when you are done drinking you may just pour the remaining tea onto the table and then wipe it down with a tea towel, a special towel, similar to a washcloth, used to maintain gongfu tables.At this point I knew I just had to have an authentic tea set of my own, along with a gongfu table. I had never seen anything of the like in the United States. So after tea, I promptly made my way to the tea streets of Beijing. I don't know what you call them exactly, but I'm sure if you go there you can ask someone and they'll know what you're talking about. I couldn't believe there were so many buildings dedicated to nothing but tea paraphernalia. There are little family tea stores everywhere at the street level, and hundreds, if not thousands, of other tea stores in mall-type buildings, some of which are five stories high. I searched through most of them for hours, trying to find just the right tea set and table. The variations in design are astonishing. Some are huge, some are stone, some are small, and most are wooden. Ultimately, I found the perfect table for myself, as well as the perfect tea set. The table was small, stained a dark green, and had little leaves and berries carved along its sides. I found a white china tea set, which was a beautiful contrast against the dark table.So, if you like tea at all or are interested in Chinese culture, I encourage you to do some research and learn more about traditional Chinese tea culture. And if you want to get something uniquely Chinese, then go shopping for a gongfu table. These are incredible pieces of culture and history, but also practical, gorgeous works of art.