
When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: "If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you'll most certainly be right." It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: "If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?" And whenever the answer has been "No" for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.
17岁的时候,我读到了一句格言,好像是:“如果你把每一天都当作生命中最后一天去生活的话,肯定有一天你会是正确的。”这句话给我留下了深刻的印象。自那以后,在过去的33年中我每天早晨都会对着镜子问自己:“如果今天是我生命中的最后一天,我会去做今天打算做的那些事吗?”每当答案连续多日都是“不会”的时候,我知道我该做些改变了。
Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything -- all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure -- these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.
提醒自己我即将死去,是帮我做出人生中许多重大抉择的'最重要的工具。因为几乎所有的一切——所有他人的期望、荣耀、面子问题和对失败的恐惧——这些在死亡面前都会消失殆尽,留下的是真正重要的东西。提醒自己我将要死去,我认为是避免患得患失的最好办法。你本来就一无所有,没有理由不顺心而为。
About a year ago I was diagnosed with cancer. I had a scan at 7∶30 in the morning, and it clearly showed a tumor on my pancreas. I didn't even know what a pancreas was. The doctors told me this was almost certainly a type of cancer that is incurable, and that I should expect to live no longer than three to six months. My doctor advised me to go home and get my affairs in order, which is doctor's code for prepare to die. It means to try to tell your kids everything you thought you'd have the next 10 years to tell them in just a few months. It means to make sure everything is buttoned up so that it will be as easy as possible for your family. It means to say your goodbyes.
大约一年前, 我被诊断出得了癌症。我在早晨7点半做了扫描, 扫描结果清楚地显示我的胰腺上长了一个肿瘤。我当时甚至都不知道胰腺是什么东西。医生告诉我,这基本上是一种无法治愈的癌症, 我活在世上的时间不会超过3~6个月。医生劝我回家,安排后事,这是医生让病人等死的婉言。这意味着你要尽量把本来想在未来10年内对孩子们说的话在几个月里说完;意味着你要把一切安排妥当,让你的家人尽可能地轻松一点;意味着你要说“再见”了。
I lived with that diagnosis all day. Later that evening I had a biopsy, where they stuck an endoscope down my throat, through my stomach and into my intestines, put a needle into my pancreas and got a few cells from the tumor. I was sedated, but my wife, who was there, told me that when they viewed the cells under a microscope the doctors started crying because it turned out to be a very rare form of pancreatic cancer that is curable with surgery. I had the surgery and I'm fine now.
诊断结果让我想了一整天。那天晚上晚些时候,我做了活组织切片检查。医生将一个内窥镜从我的喉咙伸进去,通过我的胃, 进入我的肠子, 然后用一根针刺进我的胰腺,在肿瘤上提取了一些细胞。我当时注射了镇定剂,但在场的妻子后来告诉我,医生在显微镜下观察这些细胞的时候,忽然叫了起来, 因为我患的竟然是一种非常罕见的、可以用手术治愈的胰腺癌。我做了手术,现在痊愈了。
This was the closest I've been to facing death, and I hope it's the closest I get for a few more decades. Having lived through it, I can now say this to you with a bit more certainty than when death was a useful but purely intellectual concept:
那是我与死神擦肩而过的一次, 我希望这也是以后几十年最接近死神的一次。以前死亡对于我只是一个有用但抽象的概念,有了这次经历后,我现在可以更加确信地对你们说:
No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don't want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life's change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.
没有人愿意死, 即使人们想上天堂, 也不会为了去那里而死。但是死亡是我们每个人共同的归宿,无人幸免。也应该如此,因为死亡很可能是生命惟一最好的发明。它是生命变化更替的推动力。它破旧立新。你们现在是新人,但是不久的将来,你们会慢慢变老,然后被清除掉。我很抱歉这很戏剧性,但事实就是这样。
Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma -- which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.
你们的时间很有限, 所以不要把时间浪费在重复他人的生活上。不要受教条的束缚,因为那就意味着你依据别人的思想在生活。不要让他人喋喋不休的意见淹没掉你自己内心的声音。最重要的是, 要勇于听从你内心的直觉。可以说,内心的直觉早已知道你想要成为什么样的人,而其他一切都是次要的。
在一个天气晴朗的日子里,我和同学决定今天下午一起去离我们城市很近的山上野餐,中午我们便带上我们准备好的东西到了山上,先开始我们是一直在吃东西,后来我们就一直打打闹闹的在那个在那里玩,不一会儿,就到了该回家的时候了,我们便依依不舍的下了山。
下到半山腰的时候,我突然发现我的手机丢在山的上面了,于是,我就回去拿,到了山上,我拿着手机刚准备走,就在草丛后面传来的一段对话,我很好奇,于是就蹑手蹑脚在靠近草丛,只见一个叔叔对另一个叔叔说:“老大,我们抓完这只就收工吧!把它带到黑市上准能卖个好价钱!”另一个叔叔说:“嗯,这只小东西简直是太难抓了,抓了一天才刚要抓住它,一定要卖都贵一点。”这时,我才猛然发现,这几个叔叔好像是坏人,于是,我打了报警电话让警察叔叔马上赶到,山脚下等我,并关掉警铃,而我在这里,静观其变。
突然,我见一个叔叔拿着枪瞄准它准备开抢,就在这一瞬间,我的头脑里想了很多:我到底是救它还是不救呢?如果不救的话,那我为什么还要报警,它也是个孩子,如果被抓了肯定没有好下场,还有可能拨皮削骨,它的爸爸妈妈也会担心的,不行!我得去救它,就在那个叔叔开枪的那一瞬间,我迅速冲了过去,抱起它就跑,唉!
好险啊,还好我躲得快,那几位叔叔见了,就开枪射我,幸好我跑的快又躲过了那一枪,这时,我就竭尽全力的为警察叔叔争取过来的时间,于是,我对那几位叔叔说:“叔叔,贩卖稀有动物是犯法的,难道你们不怕被抓吗?”那几位叔叔却说:“我们抓这些小动物又不是一两天了,怕什么?更何况那些小动物要生存,我们也要,而且我们生存比它们更难,不如让它们牺牲一下来保全我们的性命。”我说:“但是,小动物生命也是命,你的生命也是命,为什么小动物要因为你们而送命”一位叔叔说:“别跟她再说了,抢吧!再浪费时间天就黑了。”
听完这句话,我立刻以兔子的速度向山下跑去,可是人的体力是会耗尽的,更何况他们有枪,就在我体力耗尽之时,一位叔叔是射过来了一枪,因为我体力耗尽了,所以躲得有些慢,子弹从我肩旁滑过,我倒在了地上,不过还好,警察叔叔也赶了过来,将那几个坏人叔叔给抓了。
当我醒来的.时候,我已经躺在了医院的病床上,我迷迷糊糊的看着妈妈和爸爸说:“它怎么样了?”妈妈说:“它还好,现在已被放回了森林,你呢,也够呛。”我说:“妈妈,我这不没事情么,不过,就受点皮外伤而已。”妈妈说:“皮外伤,这可是被子弹打了耶,以后再也不许做这样的事情了,听到了吗?呜呜呜呜……”我说:“好了,好了,不哭,不哭,以后我再也不会这样了。”
这件事情发生以后,我被妈妈禁足一个月,而且这一年也不会再有零花钱了。唉!好倒霉呀!但我从不后悔过我的决定,因为我知道:与死神擦肩而过的决定,是经过我的大脑过滤出来的“纯净水”我拯救了一个生命,我不会后悔。
今天是星期五的最后一节课,哇哈哈哈,上完这节课就happy了!哈哈!
“铃……”上课了。
哎?气氛不太对呀!空气中好像弥漫着一股火药味儿,难道……果然,老师拿着一大摞卷子来了,奥!天啊,该死,为什么这个时候
做卷子无可避免,唉——只能考了。我浏览了一遍试卷,天啊,这卷子好难啊!可是也只能硬着头皮做了,时间一分一秒的过去,我做啊做啊,大脑都要负荷过热了!窗外的蓝天白云,虽然漂亮,但在我眼里,蓝天白云都是痛啊……
啊!终于做完一半了,太好了!可是问题又来了,后面的大题超难啊!我只好先做会的,再慢慢的抠难的,仿佛抠了一个世纪后,终于看见了黎明的曙光——只剩最后一道题了!可是最后一道大题难度爆表!唉,就算爆表,也得做呀。于是,我的'大脑启动了每分钟十万转的程序,每分钟消耗脑细胞十的N次幂个,开始努力想题,终于,命运之神开始眷顾我了,这道大题被我做出来了!而此时我的脑细胞也差不多死光了!感觉这次考试考得太吃力了!
在回家的路上,天开始变阴,天啊,冷风直往脖子里钻。西北面起了乌云,难道这是暴风雨前的平静吗?好吧,我死后,棺材要欧式的,花圈要美式的,墓碑要国产的。
终于挪到家了!家里养的花一个个无精打采地看着我,仿佛在嘲笑我,去死吧!我向它们低吼!
第二天早晨,我拿起妈妈的手机,打开微信看看成绩,我知道老师批卷子的速度那可不是一般的快呀。周明达90分,什么……什么?哇哈哈哈!90分!耶!太棒啦!
天啊,这一次,真是与“死神”擦肩而过啊!



