有人说这个世界最傻的事，就是跑到不喜欢的人那里去问为什么。不喜欢就是不喜欢了，没有为什么。就像一阵风刮过，你要做的是，拍拍身上的灰尘，一转身沉静走开。然后，把这个不喜欢自己的人寂然忘掉。生活中有了不喜欢就学会改变，工作中有了不喜欢请先调整心态，拒绝就去拒绝，切记不可虚情假意。
这个世界，总有你不喜欢的人，也总有人不喜欢你。这都很正常。而且，无论你有多好，也无论对方有多好，都苛求彼此不得。因为，好不好是一回事，喜欢不喜欢是另一回事。
刻意去讨人喜欢，折损的，只能是自我的尊严。
不要用无数次的折腰，去换得一个漠然的低眉。纡尊降贵换来的，只会是对方愈发地居高临下和颐指气使。没有平视，就永无对等。
也不要在喜欢不喜欢上，分出好人和坏人来。带着情绪倾向的眼光，难免会陷入褊狭。咬人的，你不能说它是坏狗。狗总是要咬人的，这是狗的天性和使命。也就是说，在盯着别人的同时，还要看到自我的缺陷和不足。
当然了，极致的喜欢，更像是一个自己与另一个自己在光阴里的隔世重逢。
愿为对方毫无道理地盛开，会为对方无可救药地投入，这都是极致的喜欢。这时候，若只说是脾气、情趣和品性相投或相通，那不过是浅喜;最深的喜欢，就是爱，就是生命内里的粘附和吸引，就是灵魂深处的执着相守与深情对望。
这是一场诡秘而又盛大的私人化进程。私人化的意思就是，即使无比错误，也无限正确。有时候，你的无数个回眸，未必能看到一个擦肩而过。有时候，你拿出天使的心，并不一定换来天使的礼遇。如果对方不喜欢，都懒得为你装一次天使。谁也不需要逢场作戏。尽管，一时的虚情假意，也能抚慰人陶醉人，但终会留下搪塞的痛，敷衍的伤。
所以，这个世界最冒傻气的事，就是跑到不喜欢的人那里去问为什么。不喜欢就是不喜欢了，没有为什么。就像一阵风刮过，你要做的是，拍拍身上的灰尘，一转身沉静走开。然后，把这个不喜欢自己的人寂然忘掉。
一个人，风尘仆仆地活在这个世界上，要为喜欢自己的人而活着。这才是最好的态度。不要在不喜欢你的'人那里丢掉了快乐，然后又在喜欢自己的人这里忘记了快乐。
勉强不来的事情，不去追逐。
你为此而累的时候，或许对方也最累。你停下来了，你放下了，终会发现，天不会塌，世界始终为所有人祥云缭绕。
谁都在世俗的泥淖里扑腾着。有的人天生是来爱你的，有的人注定要来给你上课的。你苦心经营的，是对方不以为意的;你刻骨憎恨的，却是对方习以为常的。喜欢与不喜欢之间，不是死磕，便是死拧。然而，这就是生活，有贴心的温暖，也有刺骨的寒冷，不过是想让你的人生，变得更加丰富，更加完整。
在辽阔的生命里，总会有一朵或几朵祥云为你缭绕。与其在你不喜欢或不喜欢你的人那里苦苦挣扎，不如在这几朵祥云下面快乐散步。天底下赏心快事不要那么多，只一朵，就足够足够。
1、就把你深深藏在我心中。
You hide in my heart deeply.
2、幸福！只存在你我相聚时刻…
Happiness! There is only you and I together time...
3、和你在一起只是我不想给任何人机会。
With you just I don't want to give anyone the chance.
4、亲爱的，你能嫁给我吗我嫁给你也行！
Honey, can you marry me, I'll marry you!
5、不知道爱你算不算是一个贴心的理由？
Don't know love you count is a close reason?
6、能够遇见你，对我来说是最大的幸福。
To meet you, for me, is the greatest happiness.
7、曾经迷惘的心中，是你牵引我走出寂寞。
Ever lost in the heart, is you pull me out of loneliness.
8、给你一个心里的家，累了，我永远在等你
Give you a heart of the home, tired, I will always wait for you
9、生命里，最舍不得的那一页，总是藏得最深。
Life, the most reluctant to the one page, always hide the deepest.
10、爱一个人，就要相信自己能给她最大的幸福！
To love a person, you must believe that you can give her the greatest happiness!
11、首先，我要感谢上帝，让我又在这里遇上了你。
First of all, I would like to thank God, let me in here to meet you.
12、你是我生命中所能经历的，最最深切的感觉！！
You are my life, the most profound feeling!!
13、我想对你爱恋的极短诗篇升华为漫长的生活散文。
I want to love you very short poems for the sublimation of life essays.
14、不是恋爱的感觉让我幸福而是爱上你的感觉让我幸福。
It's not being in love that makes me happy, but is being in love with you.
15、爱之火，在我俩的心中燃起，从此我俩将被熔在一块。
The fire of love, in the hearts of both of us, we will be fused in a.
16、我之所以活到现在的全部意义，就是为了此刻能与你相遇。
The reason I live now is to meet you at this moment.
17、我的前世也许是只鸟。—如果你是一只鸟，那我也是一只鸟。
Maybe I was a bird in a previous life. If you were a bird, I am a bird, too.
18、你可知我百年的孤寂只为你一人守候，千夜的恋歌只为你一人而唱。
You know my loneliness is only one person waiting for you, thousands of my sweet songs are only sung for you.
19、没有你，我的天空少了一片色彩；没有你，我的世界多了一种思念。
Without you, my sky is missing a color; without you, my world is a kind of missing.
20、给我一次机会，我会让你生活在阳光里，我会为你成为只属于你的太阳。
Give me a chance, I will let you live in the sun, I will for you to become only belong to your sun.
21、时间的巨轮无法抹去我对你的思念纵使海枯石烂，你的身影永存於我心中！
Time cannot erase my thoughts of you even if Haikudanlan, your shadow forever in my heart!
22、依据马斯洛需求理论看，你就是我的最基本的生存需求，没了你我没心情赚钱。
According to Maslow demand theory, you are my most basic survival needs, not you and I do not have the mood to make money.
23、我爱你，不是因为你是一个怎样的人，而是因为我喜欢与你你在一起时的感觉。
I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.
24、现在我的生和死，快乐和痛苦，完全操纵在你的手中，你能够赐予我圣洁的爱吗？
25、牵着我的手，闭着眼睛走你也不会迷路。
Take my hand, eyes closed go you won't get lost.
26、如果这一生我们爱不够，来世必能长久。
If this life our love is not enough, the world will last long.
27、我不要短暂的温存，只要你一世的陪伴。
I the short-time tenderness, as long as you life-long companion.
28、每一天都为你心跳，每一刻都被你感动。
Every day for your heart, moved by you every minute.
29、不管今世也来世也好。我所要的只有你。
No matter this life and the afterlife. I want only you.
30、原来等待也可以如此的美丽，因为爱你。
Waiting can be so beautiful because of love you.
31、我会一直喜欢你，直到我变成成绩优异的学生为止。
I'll always love you, until I become outstanding students.
32、因为知道不能没有你，所以我会更珍惜。
Because you know that we can not live without you, so I'll be more cherish it.
33、有一种感动叫分享，有一种幸福叫暗恋。
There is a kind of touched share is, there is a kind of happiness is called unrequited love.
34、你等着吧，总有一天你会是我儿子的妈妈！
You wait, one day you will be my son's mother!
35、我愿意爱你，照顾你、保护你，一生一世。
I am willing to love you, take care of you and protect you, whole life.
36、没有不可原谅的错误，只有无法挽回的人。
Not unforgivable mistake, only cannot be redeemed.
37、我在怎么欺骗自己，也掩饰不了我好想你。
I was how to cheat yourself, I do not hide the I miss you so much.
38、爱情使人忘记时间，时间也使人忘记爱情。
Love makes people forget time, time makes people forget love.
39、人总是会老的，希望到时，你仍在我身边。
People will always be old, I hope, you're still by my side.
40、爱是诱惑，也惟有爱能给你力量抗拒诱惑。
Love is the temptation, also but love can give you strength to resist the temptation.
41、有些人说不出哪里好，但就是谁都替代不了！
Some people say a where good, but is who all don't replace!
42、因为爱字，所以放任，因为放任，所以成全。
Because of love, so let, because indulge, so perfect.
43、为什么暗恋那么好，因为暗恋从来不会失恋。
Why like so good, because like never brokenhearted.
44、什么时候，你会想我，有如，我这般的想你。
What time, you will want to me, like a, I miss you so.
45、只有你知我的情绪，也只有你能带给我情绪。
Only you know my mood, only you can also bring my mood.
46、当我想你的时候，你会不会也刚好正在想我。
When I miss you, you can also just are to me.
47、除了爱你。我想不出能使我继续活著的理由。
In addition to love you. I can't think of to make me a reason to continue to live.
48、我不能先你离开人世，留你一个人孤独终老！
Can't you die first, I leave you one person alone!
49、我们的认识是一场意外，但它是美丽的意外。
We meet is an accident, but it is a beautiful accident.
50、在每一个有你相伴的夜，不再过于寂寥冷清。
In every night have you accompany, no longer lonely too cold and cheerless.
51、冷冷的夜里北风吹，相思成灰，找不到人安慰。
Cold night the north wind blowing, long for into a grey, can not find comfort.
52、这一生我只牵你的手。因为今生有你早已足够。
This life I only hold your hand. Since life have you had enough.
53、如果我是蜡烛，希望你是火，我愿为你而燃烧。
If I were a candle, in the hope that you are the fire, I would like to burn for you.
54、地球仍然转着，世间依旧善变，而我永远爱你。
Still turn the earth, the world is still fickle, but I love you forever.
55、只要你笑着面对坏天气，阳光永远照进你心里。
As long as you smile in the face of the bad weather, the sun always shines into your heart.
1、树苗如果因为怕痛而拒绝修剪，那就永远不会成材。
Saplings if Patong and refused to trim, you will never grow.
2、命运掌握在自己手中。坐在家里等什么房子，车子，还不如睡一觉做个好梦。
Fate in their own hands. Sitting at home and so on what house, car, not as good as sleep to do a good dream.
3、要无条件自信，即使在做错的时候。
To unconditionally confident, even when you are wrong.
4、人生最大的喜悦是每个人都说你做不到，你却完成它了!
The greatest joy in life is that everyone says you can't do it, but you've done it!
5、自恋是源于对于生活的极端热爱，对于细节以及享乐主义的不断追求。
Narcissism is the extreme love for life, for the pursuit of details and hedonism.
6、我们一定不要当三等公民：等下班、等薪水、等退休。
We must not be three and other citizens: and other work, and other salaries, etc..
7、宁可被人笑一时，不可被人笑一辈子。
Would rather be people laugh at a time, can not be laughed for a lifetime.
8、自律可以帮助你做你不想做但又必须做的事情。
Self discipline can help you to do what you don't want to do but have to do.
9、没有清醒的头脑，再快的脚步也会走歪;没有谨慎的步伐，再平的道路也会跌倒。
Without a clear mind, and then the pace will go fast; there is no cautious pace, and then the road will fall flat.
10、骏马是跑出来的，强兵是打出来的。
The horse is running out, therefore is playing out.
11、我们经历挫折，是因为上天不允许我们停止努力。
We have a setback because God doesn't allow us to stop trying.
12、成功的秘诀在于坚持自已的目标和信念。
The secret of success is to stick to your goals and beliefs.
13、我们人这一辈子不是别人的楷模，就是别人的借鉴。
Our life is not the model of others, is the reference.
14、比我强大的人都在努力我还有什么理由不拼命。
Than I am strong people are trying to do I have any reason not to.
15、世上最累人的事，莫过于虚伪的过日子。
The most tiring thing in the world, falsely.
16、什么叫作失败?失败是到达较佳境地的第一步。
What is called failure? Failure is the first step to something better.
17、谁把持自己未来的经营权，谁就会成为强者，成为时俊。
Who controls the right to operate their own future, who will become the strong, when the handsome.
18、把气愤的心境转化为柔和，把柔和的心境转化为爱，如此，这个世间将更加完美。
The angry mood into soft, the soft state of mind into love, so that the world will be more perfect.
19、伟人与常人最大的差别就在于珍惜时间。
The biggest difference between a great man and an ordinary man is to cherish the time.
20、爱情就像俩个拉着橡皮筋的人，受伤的总是不愿意放手的那一个。
Love is like two pull the rubber band, the injured is always reluctant to let go of that one.
21、势不可使尽，福不可享尽，便宜不可占尽，聪明不可用尽。
The potential is not to do, can not enjoy the blessing, cheap is not ideally, smart is not exhausted.
22、只要你想种下美好记忆的种子，便能找到你心灵中的处女地。开垦吧，现在就开始。
If you want a good memory of the seed, will be able to find you in the heart of virgin land. Reclaim it, and now it begins.
23、活着的目的不在于永远活着，而在于永远活出自己。
The purpose of life is not to live forever, but to live forever.
24、如果不会飞翔，理想的翅膀反倒成了生活的累赘。
If it does not fly, the ideal of the wings have become a burden of life.
25、成功者学习别人的经验，一般人学习自己的经验。
Successful people learn from other people's experience, the average person to learn their own experience.
26、浪花，从不伴随躲在避风港的小表演，而始终追赶着拼搏向前的巨轮。
Along with the waves, never hide in the refuge of small performances, and always catch up with the struggle to move the ship.
27、人生是一个永不停息的工厂，那里没有懒人的位置。工作吧!创造吧!
Life is a never-ending factory, where the location is not lazy. Work bar! Create bar!
28、我不去想是否能够成功，既然选择了远方，便只顾风雨兼程!
I don't think whether can succeed, since the choice of the distance, they only trials and hardships!
29、记住：你是你生命的船长，走自己的路，何必在乎其它。
Remember: you are the captain of your life, take your own way, why care about other.
30、失败也是我需要的，它和成功一样有价值。
Failure is what I need, as well as success.
31、让我们将事前的忧虑，换为事前的思考和计划吧!
Let us put forward the worry, for the thought and the plan beforehand!
32、拼命去争取成功，但不要期望一定会成功。
Try hard to win, but don't expect to be successful.
33、设立目标，然后把目标细化为每一步的实际行动。
Set goals and then refine the goals for every step of the action.
34、只要是辛勤的蜜蜂，在生活的广阔原野里，到处都可以找到蜜源。
As long as hard bees, in fields of life, can be found everywhere nectar.
35、宁愿辛苦一阵子，不要辛苦一辈子。
Would rather hard for a while, do not work hard for a lifetime.
36、人生最大的光荣，不在于永不失败，而在于能屡仆屡起。
Life's greatest glory consists not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.
37、成大事不在于力量多少，而在能坚持多久。
A big thing is not how much power, but how long it can persist.
38、对于攀登者来说，失掉往昔的足迹并不可惜，迷失了继续前时的方向却很危险。
For the climber, lose the footprints are unfortunately, lost to continue when the direction is very dangerous.
39、不要沉沦，在任何环境中你都可以选择奋起。
Don't sink, you can choose to rise in any environment.
40、亦余心之所善兮，虽九死其犹未悔。
I have the good heart of the Xi, although nine still not regret.
41、人生就象一个球，无论如何滚来滚去，总有在一个点上停止的时候。
Life is like a ball, in any case, to roll to roll, there is always a point to stop the time.
42、面对机会，你要勇敢，输也罢、赢也罢，都是一种经历，是一笔花钱买不来的财富。
In the face of opportunities, you have to be brave, lose or win worth mentioning, is a kind of experience, is a money can not buy the wealth.
43、一时的忍耐是为了更广阔的自由，一时的纪律约束是为了更大的成功。
A moment of patience is for the broader freedom, a moment of discipline is to greater success.
44、当你握着两手沙子时，一定就拿不到地上那颗珍珠了。
When you hold your hands in the sand, you can't get the pearls on the ground.
45、我不喜欢戴手表，因为时间是个沉甸甸的东西。
I don't like to wear a watch, because time is a heavy thing.
46、经验不是发生在一个人身上的事件，而是一个人如何看待发生在他身上的事。
Experience is not an event in one's body, but one's view of what is happening to him.
47、自己选择的路，跪着也要把它走完。
Their choice of road, kneeling also want to finish it.
48、如果把才华比作剑，那么勤奋就是磨刀石。
If the talent to the sword, so hard is the grindstone.
49、从做需要做的事情开始，接着就做可能的事情，最后，你会突然做起不可能的事情。
Do what you need to do, and then do what is possible, and in the end, you will do the impossible.
50、海浪的品格，就是无数次被礁石击碎又无数闪地扑向礁石。
The character of the waves, is the countless shattered rock and lots of shining on the reef.
51、天下饿不死手艺人，也只是饿不死而已。
The world is hungry, and it's just not going to die.
52、人格的完善是本，财富的确立是末。
The perfection of personality is the present, the establishment of wealth is the end.
53、千万别说直到永远，因为你压根不知道永远有多远。
Never say never, because you don't know how far forever.
54、如烟往事俱忘却，心底无私天地宽。
Forget all the past smoke, selfless world wide.
55、永不放弃是你梦想实现的唯一秘诀。
Never give up is the only secret of your dream to come true.
56、做前，可以环视四周;做时，你只能或者最好沿着以脚为起点的射线向前。
Do, can look around; you can only do the best, or along the foot as the starting point of the forward ray.
57、随随便便浪费的时间，再也不能赢回来。
Casually waste time, never win back.
58、涓涓细流一旦停止了喧哗，浩浩大海也就终止了呼吸。
The trickle once stopped roaring, the vast sea stopped breathing.
59、善待他人，体谅他人，热爱生命，努力生活。
Be kind to others, understand others, love life, and work hard.
60、听说青蛙只吃动的东西，由此推断：天鹅不动的话青蛙是不会打她主意的。
I heard that the frog only eats something, and it is inferred that the frog will not make her mind.
61、你用什么优势赢得人生，就会用同样的原因输掉人生。
You use what advantage to win the life, you will lose the life with the same reason.
62、因为年轻我们一无所有，也正因为年轻我们将拥有一切。
Because young we have nothing, because we are young, we will have everything.
63、人生的胜者决不会在挫折面前失去勇气。
The winners of life will never lose their courage in the face of setbacks.
64、当你的能力还驾驭不了你的目标时，那你就应该沉下心来历练。
When your ability also can't control your goal, you should devote to experience.
65、人生亦可燃烧，亦可腐`，我愿燃烧，耗尽所有的光芒。
Life can burn, can also corrupt, I would like to burn, burn out all the light.
66、男人多情而不专一，女人专一而绝情。
A man without sentimental single-minded, single-minded and unfeeling woman.
67、对于强者，要关注他们的灵魂，对于弱者，他关注他们的生存。
For the strong, to pay attention to their soul, for the weak, he is concerned about their survival.
68、当困苦姗姗而来之时，超越它们会更有余味。
When hardship came when they will finish more than.
69、最好的改变方式，是我们跟内在力量沟通，然后它会改变我们。
The best way to change is to communicate with the inner power, and then it will change us.
70、若不给自己设限，则人生中就没有限制你发挥的藩篱。
If not to their limits, there is no restriction on the life of the fence you play.
71、青，取之于蓝而青于蓝;冰，水为之而寒于水。
The green, blue and green in blue; ice, water for cold water.
72、如果你向神求助，说明你相信神的能力;如果神没有帮助你，说明神相信你的能力。
If you ask for help, you believe in the power of God; if God does not help you, God that I believe in your ability.
73、奋斗者在汗水汇集的江河里，将事业之舟驶到了理想的彼岸。
Struggle in the sweat of the rivers, the cause of the boat to the ideal of the other side.
74、人在得意时需沉得住傲气，在失意时则要忍得住火气。
People need to sink up pride in prosperity, in adversity to resist fire.
75、除了自己，任何人都无法给你力量。
No one can give you strength except yourself.
76、纸上得来终觉浅，绝知此事要躬行。
The paper come Zhongjue shallow, and must know this to practice.
77、富人靠资本赚钱，穷人靠知识致富。
The rich rely on capital to make money, the poor rely on knowledge to get rich.
78、泉水，奋斗之路越曲折，心灵越纯洁。
Spring, the struggle of the road twists and turns, the more pure heart.
79、每件事情都必须有一个期限，否则，大多数人都会有多少时间就花掉多少时间。
Everything must have a deadline, otherwise, most people will have much time to spend how much time.
80、成功的条件在于勇气和自信，而勇气和自信乃是由健全的思想和健康的体魄而来。
The condition of success is courage and confidence, and courage and confidence are made up of a sound mind and a healthy body.
