Eliminate Internal Negative Chatter
The first step is one of awareness. It will be hard to make a change to positive thinking without being acutely intimate with the thoughts that run through your mind. Recently, I was amazed to discover deep buried emotions from negative thoughts that I had for fewer than 10 minutes. Without awareness, I would have carried the hurt and anger inside. Awareness helped me to bring them out to the open for me to deal with.
Undoubtedly it will not be easy to make a switch if you have a long history or negative self talk. Your talk became negative over the years due to various factors. For instance, if your first grade teacher repeatedly told you that you were "stupid", you might believe it to be truly the case. You would find that your inner chatter would often be filled with talk of "I am so slow" and "it is so hard to learn". If you constantly tell yourself such negative stories, your actions are going to reflect your low self esteem. It will be difficult to get very far if you are always putting yourself down.
A common negative talk involves telling yourself "I can’t". When you say to yourself "I can’t" or "it is too difficult", you are creating a resistance. Having such a mental block will prevent you from achieving a task you could otherwise succeed at.
Anytime you catch yourself saying "I can’t…", turn around and challenge your own claim with, "Why can’t I?" Research shows that most geniuses became the people they are also because of the hard work they put in. So if you would like to be successful, you need to start saying "I can" a lot more.
A great method that I have also found useful is to say "Cancel Cancel" each time I find myself saying something negative, whether in the mind or verbally. The method works if you sincerely have the intent of becoming a positive thinker.
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positive Affirmations
Affirmations are positive statements of a desired outcome or goal. They are usually short, believable and focused. By repeating them over and over again, you build inroads into your subconscious mind, opening up the possibility of a new state of thoughts.
An important step when repeating affirmations is that you need to read your affirmations aloud with feeling. The mere reading of the words bears no consequence unless you put some emotions behind them. Of significant fact is that your subconscious mind takes any orders given in complete faith and after repeated self talk. So the daily practice of repeating affirmations is important.
Initially you may be skepticism toward the statement of your positive affirmation. However, if you follow this simple set of instructions your skepticism will soon give way to a new set of beliefs and then crystallized into absolute faith.
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positive Scripts
One thing that you may observe is on how easy it is for your mind to build negative thought upon negative thought. The chatter not only does not stop but it spins a drama that traps and limits you.
From now on, regularly do this exercise instead. Spin an uplifting story that runs like a movie script. Some visualization will be helpful. You build on a story with a positive outline. The longer you can tell this story to yourself the better. It is also best if you can make this story one about having all your goals achieved. When you do this, you start to internalize your goals and dreams, as if they are something that you have already achieved.
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Replace Negative Influences with positive Ones
It is important that you identify external negative factors in your life which may be holding your thoughts hostage. For instance, your mental state can become toxic by being around friends who are negative. If you are not vigilant enough, you will start to adopt their thoughts as your own. Hence, be alert to what your negative influences are. If they come from certain friends, limit your exposure to them as much as you can. Refrain from discussing your plans with people who will be unsupportive of your dreams and goals.
Instead surround yourself with thoughts and actions from people who will empower you.
From being uninspired and de-motivated, you will begin to feel uplifted and driven to greater self growth. The positive energy that they vibrate will start affecting the self talk that you engage in as well.
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Present Tense Messages
You may find yourself daunted by the many things you need to do in order to reach your goals. It just seems overwhelming to become the success that you secretly desire for. Your mind gets caught up in an endless stream of worry.
What may be helpful is to concentrate on steps you can take in the present. If you find yourself becoming stuck, stop and say, "What can I do right now?" Change your internal talk from a future anxiety ridden one to one that is about the more manageable present. You cannot control what will happen in the future but you can take the necessary steps now that will build a better tomorrow. Taking the necessary steps require you to focus your thoughts and inner talk on Now.
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Confront Fears
Fear is often what holds you back from your success. You are scared of taking chances because you fear losing the security that you enjoy now. You try to convince yourself that you are happy in your current state when in fact, you are not. Your self talk may sound positive in your attempt to lie to yourself. But somehow, there is an inner knowing that you are short changing yourself.
Ask yourself what you are afraid of. What can be the worst that can happen? Take a step-by-step approach in breaking down your fears and see if there is any way round to looking at things more positively. When you confront your fears, you will often realize that the worst case scenario is not as bad as you think. In fact, the benefits of change are worth the risk. Your inner talk begins to change at this point.
英语美文摘抄（一）：
Always insisting。 Use iron scoop is too cold; Use porcelain scoop is too weak; A wood scoop， engraved veins safely， engraved sky’s wasteland and glebe’s old。 Just as happiness born in the years， not insolent， the every act and move blooms quietly
一向坚持着。用铁勺太冰冷；用瓷勺又太脆弱； 一只只木勺，刻出了纹理安然，刻出了天荒地老。 一如岁月中隐忍着的幸福，不张狂，举手投足间悄然绽放
英语美文摘抄（二）：
Then the wandering soul wild crane stands still the memory river Listen to whistle play tightly ring slowly， Water rises a ship to go medium long things of the past。 Wait for a ship’s person Wait for one and other， But hesitate always should ascend which ship Missed Had to consign the hope to next time， Finally what to wait for until has no boats and ships to e and go， Sunset west 。
再孤魂野鹤的伫立记忆河头， 听着哨子的紧奏慢响， 水涨船行中的'悠悠往事。 等船的人儿， 等了一班又一班， 却始终犹豫着该登哪一只。 错过的， 只好把期望寄托到了下一回， 终究等到的是没有船只的过往， 日落西头 。
英语美文摘抄（三）：
i sit at my window this morning where the world like a passer-by stops for a moment， nods to me and goes。 我今晨坐在窗前，世界如一个路人似的，停留了一会，向我点点头又走过去了。
英语美文摘抄（四）：
Dark light， just light each other。 The responsibility that you and my shoulders take together， the such as one dust covers up。 Afraid only afraid the light is suddenly put out in theendless dark night and Countless loneliness
暗黄的灯光，仅仅也只能照射过彼此。 你、我肩上共同担当的职责，犹如一片灰尘遮掩。 怕只怕灯丝的突然熄灭在这无尽的黑夜。数不尽的孤单
英语美文摘抄（五）：
don’t wait to be lonely， to recognize the value of a friend。不要等到寂寞了，才明白朋友的价值。
英语美文摘抄（六）：
all that is beautiful poems and passages of life things do not change;we change。sell your clothes and keep your thoughts。 万物不变，是我们在变。你的衣服能够卖掉，但要保留你的思想
英语美文摘抄（七）：
Life is full of confusing and disordering Particular time， a particular location， Do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain， Step by step ， the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness No enthusiasm forever， No unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing So， only silently ask myself in mind Next happiness， when will e?
人生的纷纷扰扰，杂杂乱乱， 在一个特定的时光，特定的地点， 做脑海中安排了千万遍的事， 一步一骤，人生难免精致，却也死板， 永远没有激情，没有意料之外的惊喜。 于是，也只有在心里默默地问： 下一班幸福，几点开？
1、那些年错过的爱情，好想拥抱你拥抱错过的勇气。
Those who missed the love, I want to hug you miss the courage to embrace.
2、江南风骨，天水成碧，天教心愿与身违。
Jiangnan style, The Tianshui Chengbi, days to teach aspiration and body violation.
3、当属于我们的向日葵死了，那么我们还会微笑么。
When the sunflower belongs to us, then we will smile.
4、在悠然的午后,享受会下午茶时光,耳边响起勾起回忆的旋律。
In a leisurely afternoon,The will enjoy the afternoon tea time, the ears recalls the melody.
5、你要找的不是一个完美的人，而是一个对你而言最合适的人。
You are not looking for a perfect person, but a person who is the most suitable for you.
6、随你走在天际，看繁花满地。
As you walk in the sky, see the flowers everywhere.
7、毕业了，话题不再是八卦，学习，换成了工作，前途与结婚。
Graduated, the topic is no longer gossip, study, change into the work, the future and the marriage.
8、万般故事，不过情伤；易水人去，明月如霜。
All story, but feeling hurt; Yishui people to go to the moon, such as frost.
9、只有天空没人抢得走，只要我能拾起天，它都一直陪着我！
The Only the sky no one take, as long as I can pick up the day, it has been with me!
10、爱是费尽心力的全身投入，然后在百转千回的抽身而出。
Love is devoting himself to the whole body into, and then withdraw back a hundred thousand turn out.
11、有谁能像他一样，嘘寒问暖，一日三餐的关心俄。
Can someone like him, being, three meals a day care for russia.
12、我可以不呼吸空气，但没有你我根本无法呼吸。
I can't breathe the air, but I can't breathe without you.
13、孤单，是你心里面没有人。寂寞，是你心里有人却不在身边。
Alone, there is no one in your heart. Lonely, you are not in the heart of the people are not around.
14、如花美眷也敌不过似水流年。
The Ruhuameijuan also enemy but Youth passes as a fleeting wave.
15、春深花浅笑，秋浓叶忧伤，夜月一帘梦，春风十里情。
The Spring flower autumn leaves deep smile, thick sadness, a curtain of night dream, ten in the spring.
16、想着过去的记忆，品着现在的心酸，念着未来的坎坷。
Thinking of the memory of the past, with the current sadness, read with future bumpy.
17、让我们随风自由奔跑，去追逐伟大、神圣的梦想吧！
Let us run with the wind, to the pursuit of a great, sacred dream!
18、如果现在召集原班人马让你再读一遍初中，你愿意么？
If you let the original now called read junior high school, will you?
19、一起老去的日子里，因为朋友的存在而泛着七彩的光。
Old together in the day, because of the presence of friends and the colorful light.
20、我曾给你最温暖的怀抱，你却给我最痛心的玩笑。
I gave you the most warm embrace, but you gave me the most painful joke.
21、桃花凋谢了，枝头残留着几片花瓣，仍像点点跳动的火苗。
Peach blossom withered branches, the remnants of several petals, still like a little beat the flames.
22、那是我日夜思念的人阿，也许永远都不会跟她说出那句话。
That is my day and night thinking of the people, may never say that sentence with her.
23、满天星花语是思念、清纯、梦境、真心喜欢。
Mantianxing flower is missing, pure, true love and dreams.
24、太多的话语在喉咙中梗咽，终究还是无言以对。
Too many words in the throat swallow, still speechless.
25、在我需要的时候，能不能，给我点看得见的在乎。
When I need it, I can not, give me a point of view of care.
26、一举一动，都是承诺，会被另一个人看在眼里，记在心上的。
Every move, is a promise, will be another person to see in the eyes, remember in the heart of the.
27、转身，一缕冷香远，逝雪深，笑意浅。来世你渡我，可愿？
Turn around, ray Leng Xiangyuan, evanescent snow depth, shallow smile. Will you cross me in the next life?
28、你又不是我的美瞳，干嘛要把你放在眼里去。
You are not my beautiful pupil, why should you put in your eyes.
29、我是做好了和你过一辈子的打算，也准备好了你随时说要走。
I'm ready to go with you for a lifetime, and ready for you to go.
30、不要做让自己后悔的'事，要做，就做让别人后悔的事。
Don't do what you regret, do it, and do what you regret.
31、一起走过的岁月里，因为有了感动才会变得更加迷人。
Together through the years, because of the move will become more charming.
32、也许你会战胜一切，但是你最终还是败在了时间的脚下。
Maybe you'll beat it all, but you're still at the foot of the time.
33、谁苍白了我的等待，讽刺了我的执着。
Who pale I wait, the irony of my dedication.
34、山高不识东南北，左也是西，右也是西；回首长安泪双滴。
I also left mountains of southeast North, West, West Changan is right back; double drops of tears.
35、汉霄苍茫，牵住繁华哀伤，弯眉间，命中注定，成为过往。
Han Xiao vast, hold the bustling sad, curved eyebrows, become the past decreed by fate.
36、在这布满硝烟与瓦砾的乱世之中，没有人能纤尘不染地活着。
In this full of smoke and debris in the troubled times, no one can be spotlessly clean.
37、爱自己爱的人本身就是一种幸福，你可以记住过去的美好。
To love the person you love is a kind of happiness, you can remember the past.
38、火柴如果躲避燃烧的痛苦，它的一生都将黯淡无光。
The Matches if the escape the burning pain, its life will be intense darkness without light.
39、用微笑装作不在意你的嘲笑，不关心你的离去。
Pretend not to care about your smile with a smile, do not care about your leaving.
40、无论你多么讨厌你的学校，当你离开久了，你还是会想念它。
The No matter how much you hate your school, when you leave for a long time, you still miss it.
41、遗憾是会呼吸的痛，它流在血液中来回滚动。
Regret is the pain that can breathe, it flows back and forth in the blood.
42、我只是怀念曾经，却忘记了我们都已不是曾经的自己。
I just miss once, but forget that we have not been their own.
43、素色如锦。待到时光静好，与你相忘于天涯。
The lain such as jin. Until the time of quiet, and you forget in the world.
44、我轻轻呼吸，呼吸没有你的空气。思念叫人窒息。
I breathe, breathe without you. Miss is choking.
45、来生我再来典当、来世我再来与你歃血为盟。
I will hock, I come with you in an old Chinese practice.
46、回忆着曾经，一切只是纠结与悲剧。
The Memories of the past, everything is just tangled and tragedy.
47、我在遗忘我所经历的过往，那些人事物最后只有我自己。
I have forgotten what I have experienced in the past, those people who are only my own things.
48、蓄起亘古的情丝，揉碎殷红的相思。
Storage on ancient love, from the Acacia red.
49、有时候，我想消失一下，然后看看是否会有人想念我。
The Sometimes, I want to disappear, and then see if there will be someone miss me.
50、是不是只要勾搭上了孟婆，就可以忘了所有悲伤。
Is not as long as hooked on Meng, you can forget all the sadness.
51、我决定不再流泪，就像你决定要离开我一般地坚定。
I decided not to shed tears, as you decide to leave me in general firm.
52、一生总会爱那么几个人，到最后陪在身边的只有一个。
The life will always love so few people, to the last to accompany in the side of only one.
