
导语:朋友,莫让常识禁锢你的头脑,抹杀你的创造力,我们应该不断去怀疑,去开拓,寻找属于我们的未来。
Depression is like a plague that hits every one of us at some point in life. Everyone copes with it in their own way, but oftentimes it's hard to understand what exactly you feel and why you feel like that. Feeling depressed for a few minutes and hours is a healthy reaction to a hard situation or event. However, when you let this feeling stay with you for longer, you risk losing yourself and ruining your life. Even though you probably need to see your doctor, these depression quotes may help you understand your true and deep feelings to know how to get rid of this plague.
抑郁就像瘟神,每个人一生中都有遇上的时候。每个人有自己对抗抑郁的方式,但通常别人很难理解那究竟是什么感觉,也不理解你为什么会有那样的感觉。抑郁几分钟或几小时都是面对糟糕处境和事情的健康反应。然而,你要是让这种情绪持续更久,你就会有迷失自己、毁掉生活的风险。即使你可能需要去看看医生,但这些关于抑郁的引文会有助于你理解自己真实的深切的感受,以便知道如何摆脱掉这个瘟神。
1. Mood swings
1. 情绪波动
“I'll never forget how the depression and loneliness felt good and bad at the same time. Still does.” It's Henry Rollins' quote that often relates to me. One minute I feel the happiest person in the world and the next minute I feel awfully sad. I feel happy because I'm alone, but feel depressed because I'm lonely. It's actually confused feeling.
“我永远不会忘记抑郁和孤独是如何使我同时感觉又好又坏的,现在依然如此。”这是亨利罗林斯的话,我常有这种感受,前一分钟还感觉自己是世界上最幸福的人,下一分钟就特别伤心。我快乐是因为我独自一人,但抑郁是因为我感觉孤独,这感觉真令人迷惑。
2. Daytime nightmare
2. 白天是恶梦
“I didn't want to wake up. I was having a much better time asleep. And that's really sad. It was almost like a reverse nightmare, like when you wake up from a nightmare you're so relieved. I woke up into a nightmare.” – Ned Vizzini
“我不想醒来,睡觉时更开心。多悲哀呀,就像恶梦颠倒了。正如你从恶梦中醒来时感觉很轻松一样,我醒来反而是恶梦的开始。”——内德威兹尼。
If you are prone to depression, this feeling probably sounds familiar to you. Depressed and sad people have a tendency to sleep in but it's not the solution. Exercise is a better option.
如果你容易郁闷,这种感觉,你听起来可能感觉很熟悉。抑郁和伤心的人愿意睡觉,但睡觉不能解决问题,锻炼才是更好的选择。
3. Serious disease
3. 重病
Chronic depression isn't just bad feeling. It's a sign that you need a professional help. If you see someone feeling depressed all the time, don't ignore them. It's crucial that people start treating depression as a serious disease and consult doctor when they can't find the way out.
Barbara Kingsolver said it better than me, “There is no point treating a depressed person as though she were just feeling sad, saying, ‘There now, hang on, you'll get over it.’ Sadness is more or less like a head cold- with patience, it passes. Depression is like cancer.”
长期抑郁不仅仅是感觉不好,这表明你需要专业的帮助。如果你看见某个人总是很郁闷,不要不当回事。人们要开始把抑郁当成重病来对待,这很重要,自己解决不了时要咨询医生。
4. A cage without a key
芭芭拉金索佛说得比我好:“把抑郁当悲伤来对待,就只是跟他说‘没事,坚持住,你能挺过去的’,这样没有任何意义。伤心有点像头痛,只要有耐心你就能挺过去,而抑郁却像癌症。”
As Elizabeth Wurtzel profoundly said, “That's the thing about depression: A human being can survive almost anything, as long as she sees the end in sight. But depression is so insidious, and it compounds daily, that it's impossible to ever see the end. The fog is like a cage without a key.” The only thing I can add is to stay strong and don't feel ashamed to seek help… Like she said we are strong enough to survive anything, depression is no exception.
4. 没有钥匙的牢笼
5. There’s always hope
伊丽莎白沃泽尔意味深长地说道:“抑郁就是这样的:一个人能捱过任何事,只要她能见到曙光。但抑郁很狡猾,它每天都在加剧,根本看不到尽头。这团迷雾就像是没有钥匙的'牢笼。”我唯一需要补充的是要坚强,不要羞于向别人求助……如她所说,我们很坚强能捱过任何事,抑郁也不例外。
Unfortunately, most depressed people refuse to ask for help. Whether they don't recognize their problem or they wish to get rid of it, they believe telling someone about their feelings is a shame. It's not, actually. Many celebrities and ordinary people consult doctors when they feel depressed and they don't feel ashamed. It's life.
5. 总会有希望
Hopefully, Howie Mandel's quote will inspire you to ask for help: “There isn't anybody out there who doesn't have a mental health issue, whether it's depression, anxiety, or how to cope with relationships. Having OCD is not an embarrassment anymore – for me. Just know that there is help and your life could be better if you go out and seek the help.”
不幸的是,很多抑郁的人不愿意寻求帮助。无论是没意识到自己问题的人,还是希望摆脱抑郁的人,都认为告诉别人自己的感受很丢脸。其实不然。很多名人和普通人抑郁时都会咨询医生,他们并不觉得丢人。这就是生活。
Depression is a harsh feeling. When you recognize all the symptoms and ask for help at once, though, you can feel better in a matter of a week. Love yourself. Don't let anyone hurt you. Surround yourself with positive people. Do what makes you happy. And nourish your positive attitude on a daily basis. These are tiny pieces of advice I can give you.
所幸,霍伊曼德尔的话能鼓励你去求助:“没有什么人没有精神方面的问题,无论遇到的是抑郁、焦虑或是如何处理人际关系的问题,对我而言,有强迫症也不再是尴尬的事,你只需知道如果你去求助,就有人会帮你,你的生活也会变得更好。”
抑郁是一种酷刑,你一发现自己有抑郁的症状就要马上寻求帮助,一周左右你就会恢复。要爱你自己,不要让任何人伤害你。要和积极的人在一起,做能让自己开心的事,每天培养积极态度。以上就是我能给你的几条小建议。
根本没有力气重新开始。
2、 On blue days you can become paranoid that everyone is out to get you.
在忧郁的日子里,你可能变成偏执狂,觉得每个人都想要吃定你。
3、Everything seems just out of reach.
每件事情似乎都够不着边。
4、 You can"t rise to the occasion.
你根本无法振作起来。
5、 These are miserable days when you feel lousy, grumpy, lonely, and utterly exhausted.
那些日子真是惨透了,你觉得心里乱糟糟的、怨气丛生、寂寞、整个人彻底地精疲力竭。
6、 You feel small and insignificant.
你感到自己很渺小和微不足道。
7、 On blue days you feel like you"re floating in an ocean of sadness.
在忧郁的日子里,你会觉得自己在悲伤的海里沉沉浮浮。
8、 You"re about to burst into tears at any moment and you don"t even know why.
不论在什么时候,你总有种想哭的冲动,却不知道为了什么。
9、 Ultimately, you feel like you"re wandering through life without purpose.
最后,你觉得自己犹如行尸走肉,失去生活目标。
10、 You"re not sure how much longer you can hang on.
你不知道自己还可以撑多久。
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远离家乡的时候,就会想起父母亲慈祥的神情。还在家里的时候,从来没有意识到原来父母亲的笑容是很珍贵的,把父母亲的付出当做理所当然的,也就谈不上珍惜,特别渴望离开父母亲的保护,独自闯荡出属于自己的天地。
等真的如愿离开了,面对一个人的孤单,才会怀恋起在父母亲身边生活的温馨时光。父亲虽然严肃,但是看着儿女的眼睛里却充满了期盼和自豪的笑意;母亲永远是那么的温柔而唠叨,嘴角总是挂着期待的笑意。
笑容的里温暖是每个游子最想要贴身收藏却又不得不放弃的珍宝,只能凭借着记忆重温那些暖人心脾的点点滴滴,安慰孤独难受的心。
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曾经你我坚信海誓山盟过后沉淀的必定是坚贞不移、此生不离;曾经你我坚信彼此的心圈在一个核里哪怕时光穿梭也毫无芥蒂;曾经你赠我沙漏与我互定永久告诉我亘古不变天荒地老的情谊。那些曾经在我最灿烂的年华里伴我左右。
然而,所有的事情,由平淡开始,终究归于平淡。如你,亦如我。那些曾经你我牵手一起走过的小巷如今留与我一人独步;那些曾经你我欢笑的地方如今留与我含泪目睹;那些曾经你我惦念的往昔如今在记忆里残存过渡。只是那些幻影,那么不小心掉进了我的回忆里。
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霎间清泪寂寥飘飞,点点涟漪生起,浅笑惨淡人生,遥指落花已尽,碾碎手中的温柔。旧的回忆,碎的情感,都有寥影随行。离歌声里愁肠殇魂,相逢陌路,谁在谁的梦里洒下哀愁?
轻捻一指成殇暗香,挥手决绝的散场的画面,始终滞在脑海。雨幕后的你,寂然舞动,回眸浅笑,一丝馨香入住阑珊回忆中。锦瑟年华,埋葬羞涩爱恋,江水东引,韶韶年华尽。小轩窗外,满是落花,与那一袭红纱照相辉映,凄楚绝艳的红,是殇的写照,是离的写照,更是残爱的写照。
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你是暮夏天边划过的一颗流星,属于我,也不属于我。在我的青春中留下绚烂的一笔,便消失的无影无踪。你跨越时空从这里路过,我便将这记忆珍藏,在梦中千百次轮回。
我走过秋季的繁华落尽,来到这洁白无暇的世界,雪儿曼妙的舞姿是你的轻纱扬起,我试图将其抓住且留下,才发现一触即融。美丽的东西总会在你的生命中容易逝去,你我要做的并不是要强留些什么,而是认真的享受这美丽的过程,并让其伴之一生。
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怀恋过去其实无分好与坏,只是取决于能否及时从那些已经回不去的曾经当中抽身。如果一直只顾怀恋过去,抛弃现在的一切,那就是一种自我放弃。
过去是生命中最重要的部分之一,但是未来亦同样重要,两者并不是对立的,而是相互依存的。你我不能舍弃过去,也不能放弃未来。
没有过去就没有现在和未来,没有未来就只剩过去的生命是不完整的。过去已经回不来了,不需要过分执着,只需要适时怀恋。
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一个人会因生命的.坎坷而不快、不安,甚至不甘。但从未言弃,就好像划破天际的流星,为满载星辉的日子勇往直前,让孤独常伴。于是我喜欢上了独坐窗前看日出日落,把孤独拥在怀中,在近似冰封的夜空中舔舐着葬花时的别样风情,再不去管天空云卷云舒。
犹然记得,夕阳与孤鹜齐飞的场景,只待夕阳无限好,而秋水却难长天一色。
夜幕降临,夜色驰骋在朗朗夜空,月儿爬天际,繁星照无眠。此刻,冰封的繁华似乎也找到一丝慰藉。
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我的世界你来过,不曾停留;你的世界我去过,却未能进入。有时候想,认识你之前我是谁?认识你之后我又是谁?这在旁人看来似乎是一个可笑的问题,可是对于我而言却是难以逃避。我只想好好的看清现在的自己。
毕竟我明白,纵使我万千的哀怨与思念你也不会来到我的身边,毕竟你不是菩萨,不会普度众生;即使我有一万个舍不得和不情愿也必须离开。
失去你我只不过失去了过去,但如果失去了自己,我将失去未来。唯一可以做的,便是在天之涯静静的看着你,不喜不悲。
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回首似水流年,内心莫名的宁静,也许是你我的心慢慢变老渐渐远离年轻。曾经,你我会为某件事情伤心欲绝,也会为某件事情欢心跳跃,你我会爱某个人爱到死去活来,你我也会恨某个人恨到不能自己,你我可以爱,你我可以恨,但你我不可以漫不经心。
然而,年华像风里的白桦叶一般被风弄得沙沙作响,可你我现在的心平静得就像溪水般缓缓流淌,原来谁都可以不用顾忌着谁,原来谁都可以忘记离合悲欢,谁都可以简单地生活。
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你我习惯了用一张哭泣的脸去面对一天的开始,却忘记了还可以用笑脸迎接每一天的光临。就像向日葵一样,每天最期待的就是太阳出来的时刻,因为终于可以追逐阳光,摆脱黑暗,终于可以享受温暖,驱赶寒冷。
当你我能够期待明天,笑着面对一天的开始时,就已经战胜了那个想要逃避生活的自己了。
新的一天开始了,你我就要用最灿烂的笑容来面对;一天结束的时候,你我就要沉下心来反省总结这一天自己的表现,给自己订下目标和计划,然后闭上眼睛期待明天的到来。
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看不见凄美的凋零,嗅不到忧郁的暗香,虽然有些眷恋,但是身边的风景,却把思绪牵引至眼前。走吧,散吧,消失吧,重现吧。就让岁月的风主宰吧!
不是一切都可以丢在风里,不是所有的都能在梦中演绎,生活的船即便是迷失航行,也在不断地前进。叶落有枝,花谢孕子,水过留痕,更替中的景色,将生命的轨迹娓娓道来!渐渐地,我懂了。
岁月的风,所到之处都是有梦的地方!梦,不仅仅是美好的回忆,也不仅仅是虚幻的畅想,梦,是创造奇迹的摇篮,是引领生命繁衍前行的航标!



