
英文美文摘抄1
I take myself on dates. I go to the movies alone. I wander museums alone. I eat meals alone (and yes, that means I resist all temptation to scroll through Ins while waiting for my meal). I sit in coffee shops and journal alone. I take the train and go to new towns and walk around alone.
我跟自己去约会:我独自看电影,独自在博物馆闲逛,独自吃饭(是的,这是说在等待饭菜上来时,我抵制住所有刷Ins的诱惑)。我坐在咖啡馆里,独自写着日志。我一个人乘火车,前往新的城镇,然后独自在那里四处走走玩玩。
I realize this may sound super dorky. You're probably thinking that I must be pretty weird and very lonely. Interestingly enough, I was way more lonely before I started spending time alone. The feeling like I needed to be around people all the time to take a deep breath -- that was loneliness. The feeling of complete anxiety and fear when a boyfriend broke up with me -- that was loneliness. But this? This is peace. This is fun. This is what self-esteem is built of. Here's how I learned to spend time alone.
我意识到也许这听起来超级蠢。你很可能会想,我肯定十分怪异、非常寂寞。有趣的是,我在开始独自生活前是更加孤单的。那种就像我需要一直跟别人待在一起才能做深呼吸的感觉,是孤单。男朋友跟我分手,那种极为焦虑恐慌的感受,是寂寞。但现在这种场景呢?这是平静,是趣味,是构建自信心的基础。以下是我学会独处的方法。
I just did it. And let go of trying to look .我只是一个人独处,并不去想怎么尽量看起来酷。
2. Make a list of your favorite things. And don't wait for anyone. 列出你最爱的事物,不要等任何人跟你一起去践行。
3. Schedule It. And don't cancel on yourself. 计划时间,不要取消与自己的约会。
英文美文摘抄2
For the past year, I've been single by choice. Not by circumstance. Not because no one will ask me out or I can't find anyone eligible. It's hard for some people to believe that I am choosing not to date, and I often get weird looks and confused grunts from my old aunt and college friends alike. Why would someone voluntarily choose to stay single? To spend time alone? Aren't I missing out on life by not going on Tinder dates? What if The One is out there but I don't catch him because I'm too busy staying single?
过去一年中,我选择保持单身。这不是因为环境因素,不是因为没人约我出去或是我不能找到合适人选。有些人很难相信我选择不去约会。大姨和大学同学们老是对我投以怪异的'眼神和不解地咕哝。为什么会有人愿意保持单身?愿意独自一人消磨时光?没有继续在Tinder上相亲的我,难道不是错过了生活(的乐趣)吗?要是我命中注定的另一半就在Tinder上,但我因为忙着保持单身而错过了他,那怎么办?
I'm not the slightest bit embarrassed to say out loud that I've been dating myself and it's been the most nurturing, sustainable, and non-anxiety inducing relationship I've ever had. There's no waiting to be texted back (or obsessing about if my text is too flirty, too needy, too wordy), and there's no feeling like another person just doesn't understand me.
大声说出我正和自己相约,一点也不让我尴尬,而且它是我所有的关系中最滋养人、最持久也最不会引发焦虑的。我不需要等待他人的回复(或是费神考虑我的短信是否太过轻浮、有求于人或是冗长啰嗦),另外我也不会再有那种就是有人无法明白我的感觉了。
That doesn't mean I don't plan on dating other people in future -- I definitely do. But I know now that the relationship I've built with myself is a model for the relationship I want to be in. I'm kind and patient and gentle and loving and forgiving of myself. I laugh at my mistakes and I let go of my errors. I am strong and courageous. That's the kind of person I want to be with and the type of relationship I hope to be in.
这不意味着我将来不打算谈恋爱(我当然会谈啦)。可我如今明白,与自己建立的这种关系是我想要与另一半相处的模式。我友善、耐心、温柔、友爱又宽容。我对自己犯的错误一笑了之。我强大而勇敢。这便是我想要的对象,也是我希望同他建立起的恋爱关系。
I know now that I'm not going into the relationship as a half, I'm going in as a whole. So whether it works out or doesn't work out, deep down, I haven't lost anything. I'm still me. I'm still complete. I still have the friendship I've built with the me that I've grown to know and love over the past 23 years. That's the greatest relief I've ever known.
我现在知道了,我不会在恋爱关系中有所保留,而将会是全身心投入。因此无论这段关系是否有好的结果,在内心深处我都没有任何损失。我仍然是我自己,我仍然完好无损,我同自己建立起的友谊依旧存在,那是我在过去23年中渐渐了解并爱上的。这便是我所知的最大欣慰。
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英语电影经典语句 我认为纸上谈兵没什么作用
Your destiny can be your doom.命运也许会成为厄运。
You can’t change the past.过去的事是不可以改变的。
Yes, the past can hurt. But I think you can either run from it or learn from it. 对,过去是痛楚的,但我认为你要么可以逃避,要么可以向它学习。
Whatever comes, I’ll love you, just as I do now. Until I die.无论发生什么事,我都会像现在一样爱你,直到永远。
Tomorrow is another day.明天又是新的一天。
To make each day count.要让每一天都有所值。
英语电影经典语句 我认为纸上谈兵没什么作用(2)
This is my kingdom. If I don’t fight for it, who will这是我的国土,我不为她而战斗,谁为呢?
The end ,is only the beginning.结束,只是另一个开始。
Success is a relative term. It brings so many relatives.成功是一个相关名词, 他会给你带来很多不相关的亲戚 。
Stupid is as stupid does.蠢人做蠢事。
People who truly loved once are far more likely to love again.真爱过的人很难再恋爱。
英语电影经典语句 我认为纸上谈兵没什么作用
Miracles happen every day.奇迹每天都在发生。
Love is photogenic. It needs darkness to develop.爱情就象照片, 需要大量的暗房时间来培养。
Life was like a box of chocolates, you never know what you’re gonna get.生命就像一盒巧克力,结果往往出人意料。
It’s not the men in your life that counts, it’s the life in your men.并不是你生活中的'男人有价值,而是你与男人在一起的生活。
I think it’s hard winning a war with words. 我认为纸上谈兵没什么作用。
I don’t know if we each have a destiny, or if we’re all just floating around accidentally―like on a breeze.我不懂我们是否有着各自的命运,还是只是到处随风飘荡。
Destiny takes a hand.命中注定。 Death is just a part of life, something we’re all destined to do.死亡是生命的一部分,是我们注定要做的一件事。 All life is a game of luck. 生活本来就全靠运气。
1.To celebrate her birth,the King and Queen launched a flying lantern into the sky.
2.So I'll read a book, or maybe two or three. I’ll add a few new paintings to my gallery.
3.Just wonder when will my life, begin.
4.I'm sure there's room somewhere. And then I'll brush, and brush, and brush, and brush my hair. Stuck in the same place I've always been.
5.Wait, wait. Hey, wait! Can't you picture me in a castle of my own?
6.Oh, Rapunzel. How you manage to do that every single day, without fail, it looks absolutely exhausting, darling.
7.I'm just teasing, stop taking everything so seriously.
8.I need see them, mother. And not just from my window.
9.Mother knows best, listen to your mother. It's a scary world out there.
10.I can't believe, that after all we've been through together, you don't trust me.
11.You think I'm not strong enough to handle myself out there.
12.I just thought it was a better idea than, uh, stars. You sure you'll be all right, on your own?I know I'm safe, as long as I'm here.
13.Look at me, here at last I just have to do it.
14.The way it's calling me.For like the first time ever, I'm completely free.
15.This is part of growing up.A little rebellion, a little adventure. That's good, healthy even.
16.You get back a mother daughter relationship based on mutual trust and viola!
17.See, I ain't as cruel and vicious as I seem.
18.Like all you lovely folks, I've got a dream. She's gotta dream, He's gotta dream.
19.Standing here. It's oh, so clear. I'm where I'm meant to be. And at last, I see the light.And it's like the fog has lifted. And at last, I see the light. And it's like the sky is new.And it's warm and real and bright.And the world has somehow shifted. All at once, everything looks different.
20.For every minute of the rest of my life I will fight. I will never stop trying to get away from you.But, if you let me save him...
21.Forever, just like you want.
22.Dreams came true all over the place.



