Seeing that Morrie received him so warmly, Mitch suddenly came to realize that he had lost something very precious. “Death and sickness, and getting fat and going bald happened.” He thought. “I traded lots of dreams for a bigger paycheck, and I never even realize I was doing it.”
It’s very though on the journey of pursuing our dreams and therefore many people fail. So did Mitch. He gave up his dream of becoming a musician and started to earn as much money as he could. By doing this, he was gradually getting older. Hadn’t him seen Morrie, he would know what he was really doing. He abandoned his dream and something else.
Money is not so important. If the money we have is able to support our living, it’s enough. Wanting much more money than you need usually makes one confused and likely to lose something more meaningful, such as family, friend, your beloved ones and a satisfied life.
Only by understanding those above will a male or a female resists the temptation of money or status and turns to those things, as I say, deserves to cherish. It can be really pathetic when one desires to cherish something that used to be ignored but the time leaving for he or she is limited. Never make it too late to cherish things deep into your heart. Time will never flash back and you won’t have the chance to live for a second time.
However, there are still some great people who don’t cherish their own precious things. Instead, they work for other people’s happiness. Take Chairman Mao and Zhou Enlai for example, they nearly gave up everything to fight for China’s independence and make China stronger. Gandhi fight for his own nation’s independence. Martin Luther King sacrificed his life to help gain the black’s civil rights in America. They gave out many and received little. Somebody may be unwilling to do like that. That’s really too much, they would say. We cannot tell whether they are wrong or not. It’s just two ways of living
相约星期二英文读后感1
Hey, Dear Morrie, would you allow me the honor to dance with you On closing my eyes, I can see an elderly angel dancing in darkness, lost himself in a crystal clear world. And he teaches me how to lead the life I want to lead and how to be the person I want to be by all these warm and encouraging words which leave me a touched heart and a stream of tears.
Morrie is always laughing and talking as he will never be tired out. He licks the ice-cream on the street, eats tongues, and takes a deep breath to count how many seconds it can last. At the beginning of the movie, I can’t even imagine the childish-lovely Morrie is a 77-year-old man with ALS, a rare disease that makes the dancing stop forever and is taking the angel’s life away.
Mitch, Morrie’s favorite student, usually does everything just to meet the deadline. He has to live on the phone and do six things at the same time, as busy as a bee without thinking much about the meaning of his life until he saw the news of his coach—Morrie is dying. Then he hesitated whether to visit his dear coach or not owing to the 700-mile journey and his tight schedule or, frankly, his guilt.
However, his girlfriend, Janine said,” You’re on the road on your life. Why can’t you make time for one trip to Boston Think of him. Think of how much it would mean to him.” So the trip began.
Upon seeing Mitch, Morrie showed an expression of joyfulness mixed with surprise. “Here’s my buddy! I don’t get a hug after 16 years ”, said Morrie excitedly, without complaining about Mitch’s failing to keep his promise. And what impresses me most is the tough hand of old Morrie when he clings to Mitch’s shoulder.
相约星期二英文读后感2
Seeing that Morrie received him so warmly, Mitch suddenly came to realize that he had lost something very precious. “Death and sickness, and getting fat and going bald happened.” He thought. “I traded lots of dreams for a bigger paycheck, and I never even realize I was doing it.”
It’s very though on the journey of pursuing our dreams and therefore many people fail. So did Mitch. He gave up his dream of becoming a musician and started to earn as much money as he could. By doing this, he was gradually getting older. Hadn’t him seen Morrie, he would know what he was really doing. He abandoned his dream and something else.
Money is not so important. If the money we have is able to support our living, it’s enough. Wanting much more money than you need usually makes one confused and likely to lose something more meaningful, such as family, friend, your beloved ones and a satisfied life.
Only by understanding those above will a male or a female resists the temptation of money or status and turns to those things, as I say, deserves to cherish. It can be really pathetic when one desires to cherish something that used to be ignored but the time leaving for he or she is limited. Never make it too late to cherish things deep into your heart. Time will never flash back and you won’t have the chance to live for a second time.
However, there are still some great people who don’t cherish their own precious things. Instead, they work for other people’s happiness. Take Chairman Mao and Zhou Enlai for example, they nearly gave up everything to fight for China’s independence and make China stronger. Gandhi fight for his own nation’s independence. Martin Luther King sacrificed his life to help gain the black’s civil rights in America. They gave out many and received little. Somebody may be unwilling to do like that. That’s really too much, they would say. We cannot tell whether they are wrong or not. It’s just two ways of living.
当认真看完一部作品后，大家一定收获不少吧，为此就要认真思考
《相约星期二》观后感1
看完这部电影对我是有影响的，让我从一个无知的心理和虚拟的心理，变得现实起来了！
在莫里老师的心中付出爱更加的珍贵！他一直在后悔为什么他父亲死的时候，他却一滴眼泪都没有留下来。他父亲是一个害怕付出爱的人，每天只知道独自一人在树下看报，一直看到死的时候！米奇是莫里很看重的学生，米奇也是一个害怕付出爱的人和接受爱的人，在米奇有了女朋友，他还是跟以前一样。
在一天，米奇从来不会想她表白的却给她写了表白信和求婚让她觉得非常惊讶。到底是谁改变了米奇这么多所以，跟她一起来到莫里这里。她为莫里演唱了自己的美丽的歌曲，莫里觉得太好听了。而为什么她从来没有让米奇听过她自己的歌呢？因为，她想说什么米奇总是不让她说完直接插嘴或不听了。所以，这让她很反感，不想说话了！她也
当我在看这部电影时我根本不知道什么意思，又告诉了我什么又有什么意义，这么做会怎么样呢？让我很疑惑不解，后来，我才发现它告诉了我们，做人要有勇敢面对和付出爱、接受爱！才能得到真正的爱！我是一个害怕死的人，家里的人也一样，从来不允许说不吉利的话。在以前如果有一天我要死了，我一定每天担心、害怕。但是，现在我不会怕我知道了我会死了，我一定会向我付出过的人道别，最后几天也想以前一样的美好、快乐的生活！
但在我看完这部电影时，我非常的郁闷，老师为什么会叫我们去看这种电影呢？可能是因为，能让我们变得勇敢付出，正确的去面对现实生活中的事情。要学会付出爱、接受爱！一定要记住向死而生！
《相约星期二》观后感2
这是一部哲学性质的电影。生活的意义是什么?死亡，每个人都逃脱不了，我们该怎样对待呢呢?你内心富足吗?什么是内心的富足?你会生活吗?你活着的意义是什么?你该怎样对待死亡，怎样对待生活，对于亲人的缺点，我们该怎样对待?一位智慧的老人和一位上进的青年为我们演绎了一部温暖，感动内心的电影，看完电影，我内心明朗了很多。
莫里，一位77岁的老头，是一位老师。他身患绝症，将不久于人世。但他更是一位慈祥乐观，智慧，坚强的老人，更能给人带来一股力量;他喜欢美食，跳舞，探戈，他是一位热爱生活的人。
米奇， 一位忙碌，迷茫，追求上进的青年，为了工作疯狂着，忙碌着，以至于没有时间和女友相处，没有时间和朋友老师联系。当他的女友詹宁向他提出分手时，他才意识到他的问题。他忙的像一个陀螺，在高速运转。他的工作给他不能带来愉快，在工作中无意看到电视新闻里传出令他敬重他的老师-- --莫里身患绝症，将不久人世。他打算抽出一点宝贵的时间无看望这位老师以来慰藉他对老师的尊敬之情。
‘死亡是一件不幸的事情，活得不开心也是不幸事件之一。’
‘你的工作开心吗，你对你所在的社区有奉献吗?你独处时内心平静吗，快乐吗?
‘你富足吗?还记得你的梦想吗?你结婚，生子拥有家庭吗?
这是莫里教授和米奇聊天时，老师的话语。 这些正中了米奇内心的痛点。米奇忙碌着，正是他在逃避生活中他不愿思考和面对的问题。他不会交际，面对和女友的感情问题，他也显得焦头烂额。他算是单位里的‘白骨精’了，他的收入不菲，但他似乎不能真正明白赚钱的意义。金钱如何用可以使生活变得更美好。
莫里老师的病情一天天加重，他躺在床上，但他说，他自己还是很幸运的，他依然有时间看书，读报纸，有时间学习。看到这里我也很有感触，我们很多人生病躺在病床上，不是愁眉不展，就是抱怨，充满消极负面情绪， 莫里老师，在白天，从未从他的表情里读到痛苦和诅丧。他把痛苦默默地留给了黑夜，独自承受。
米奇和老师的交流中，老师对生活充满了爱，‘没人能单独存在着，人们必须相爱’，这促使米奇向他的女友詹宁写了一封信，以来挽救他们的爱情。
‘ 怕老，是因为一生太无聊，怕死，是因为一生没学会生活。爱是一生最理性的行为，让爱住进我们的内心，我们会变得温柔。’莫里老师的话，犹如格言一般让人谨记内心。
莫里老师有一件让他自己悔恨的事情。父亲想控制的人生方向，这让他怨恨父亲，直到父亲死亡他都不能原谅父亲。他对父亲的态度是骄傲的，虚弱的，铁石心肠。当他意识到他该原谅父亲时，他泪流满面。‘原谅他人，原谅所有的事’他把这个功课传授给了米奇。看这一段时，我很有感触。我们的父母不是也曾控制着我们，要求我们按照他们的意愿活成他们所希望的样子， 我们在内心真正的原谅过父母吗?
‘原谅所有人，原谅所有的事请。在原谅他人之前，首先理解自己，原谅自己。打开对他紧锁的心扉，停下来看看他在想什么，有没有关心他内心的需求是什么?’这是莫里老师的原话，在生活中我们对待父母，对待孩子，不也是该这样对待吗----停下来看看他在想什么，关心他的需要是什么。
被爱包围着，有朋友和家人 的关心，即使死亡又有何惧。
最后一个电影片段，如果给你一个健康的24小时，你将会做什么?
莫里老师的回答是‘吃东西，游泳，请朋友吃饭，散步，跳舞，跳到精疲力竭，然后美美的睡一觉。’莫里老师的回答我们健康人 ，人人可以做到，是如此的简单。活着就是如此的简单，享受生活，内心充满爱，爱周围的每一个人，好好的生活。
《相约星期二》观后感3
《相约星期二》是美国作家米奇·阿尔博姆创作的自传式长篇纪实小说。故事真实地讲述了作者的恩师莫里·施瓦茨教授在辞世前的14个星期的每个星期二给米奇所讲授的最后一门人生哲理课。年逾七旬的社会心理学莫里教授罹患肌萎缩性侧索硬化，已时日无多。作为莫里早年的.得意门生，米奇每周二都上门与教授相伴，聆听老人最后的教诲，并在他去世后将莫里教授的醒世箴言缀珠成链，冠名《相约星期二》。同名影片《相约星期二》也由此而来。
“死亡”作为影片的主题和线索，传递了作者和导演对于人生更深入、更透彻的思考，使《相约星期二》作品本身散发出浓郁的哲学意蕴。也是因为富有哲学意蕴，影片中很多醒世箴言需要细细品味和思考，才能领会一二，也不由地触发每个人的思考：如何更好地活着？从心理学的角度来看这个问题，我们可以看到一些比较浅显易懂的答案。
比如学会表达自己的内心。影片中，学生米奇是一位一直压抑自己情感的人，以忙碌的工作来回避与女友的感情问题和各种人际关系。莫里教授看到这一点，他每次与米奇见面的拥抱和谈心，都在一点点帮助米奇打开自己的情感大门，最终让米奇意识到自己真正在乎的人和事。米奇之所以害怕表露自己的情感，是因为受到成长中发生的重大事件的影响，受到过心理创伤，他不敢再面对“伤心”，“恐惧”和“痛苦”等等情绪，于是选择将自己的情感封闭起来。
生活中，我们某些行为背后的心理其实和米奇类似，比如说因为“自责”和“羞耻”而不敢承认自己做过的事情，因为“害怕失去或被人伤害”而不敢与人深交。这些行为都是有原因的，虽然它保护我们不会体验到“伤心”，“痛苦”等情绪，但同时，它也让我们体验不到“快乐”和“幸福”的感觉。而想要解决这个问题，我们可以尝试着去表达自己的内心，感到害怕就表达害怕，感到伤心就表达伤心，感到开心就表达开心。如果你有强烈改变自己的想法，可以尝试着从这里开始做起。
想要更好地活着，我们需要专注于当下。道理告诉我们，纠结过去的事情会烦恼，担心未来的事情会焦虑。过去与未来都是一种不现实的“幻象”，只有关注当下，才能让自己活得真实。就如《相约星期二》这部影片中，莫里教授很坦承地和米奇说，他在深夜里会为自己哭泣，在早晨起来时抱怨上天的不公。但是他不会让自己一整天沉浸在这种消极的情绪中。他说“我留给自己悲伤的时间就是只有这么多”。莫里教授就是一个很会生活在当下的人。
生活中，我们也会遇到各种各样的事情，不可避免地会有“愤怒”、“憋屈”、“无助”，“压抑”等等时刻。如果我们能够做到上面所讲的表达自己的内心，我们就可以做到这第二点，活在当下。很多争吵，常常就是因为关注不到当下的事情，比如一吵架时就翻旧账的行为，只会不断地激化矛盾，让人们觉得心累。
《相约星期二》中有很多场景和对白会触发人们对人生，对生死的思考。每个人都能从中得到不一样的体验和想法。这些体验和想法没有对错之分，只要我们感受到对自己有帮助的内容，那就可以了。
