
心灵鸡汤美文1
她们是我的亲人。
第一个女人天生丽质。据说小时候她曾被抱上戏台,扮秦香莲的女儿。待化上妆,个个啧啧称叹:“这丫头,长大准是个美人!”果然,她越大越漂亮,柳叶眉杏核眼,樱桃小口一点点。
可惜父母早丧,哥嫂做主把她嫁给一个老实巴交的农民。她自叹命苦,常常蓬头坐在炕上,骂天骂地,骂猪骂鸡,骂丈夫儿女。
一切都让她心灰意懒,她的最大爱好就是算命。我还记得她一边拉着风箱生火做饭,一边把两根竹筷圆头相对,一端抵在风箱板上,一端用三个指头捏定,嘴里念念有词。眼看着筷子朝上拱,或者朝下弯,“啪”地折断,吓我一跳。问她在干什么,她说算算什么时候咱们才能过上好光景,穿新衣,吃好饭……
所以她的心情基本有两种,不是发怒就是发愁,发怒的时候两只眼睛使劲往大睁,发愁的时候两个大疙瘩攒在眉心。
第二个女人和第一个正相反,年轻时绝不能说漂亮。黑黑的皮肤,瘦骨嶙峋,看不出一点美丽。当时家境贫困,父亲卧病,她是长女,早早就挑起生活的重担,饱受辛苦和磨难。
后来她也嫁给一个农民,穷得丁当响,连栖身之处也没有,无奈借住在娘家,东挪西借盖起几间遮风挡雨的房子。结果没住满三年,顶棚和墙壁还白得耀眼,弟媳妇前脚娶进来,后脚就把他们踢出门。
两口子只能再次筹钱盖房。旧债未还,新债又添,不得不咬着牙打拼。丈夫在外边跑供销,四季不着家,家里十几亩农田不舍得扔,女人就在当民办教师之余,一个人锄草浇地,割麦扬场,给棉花修尖打杈。七月,烈焰一般的太阳烘烤大地,她放了学就往大田里赶,一头扎进去。两个孩子,一个7岁,一个5岁——负责做饭。时间到了,女人草草回家吃一碗没油没盐的饭,接着往学校赶。
终于又盖起一处体体面面的新房,大跨度,大玻璃窗。儿子心有余悸地问:“妈,人家会不会再把咱们赶出来?”她眼一瞪:“敢!这是咱家的地盘!”没想到人算不如天算,新房子压住了规划线,立时三刻又要拆迁。她哭都没力气了,一个字:拆!往后倒退3米,一咬牙:再盖!
拆拆盖盖中,转眼十几年。这样苦,这样难,也不怨天尤人,最爱说的一句话是:“哭也是一天,笑也是一天,为什么不高高兴兴过日子呢?”如今她一家都搬离农村,进了城。她也老了,反而比年轻时更好看。
这两个女人,一个是我母亲,一个是我婆婆。
当有一天她们亲亲密密坐在一起,才发现岁月分别给予了她们什么:我婆婆是一张笑脸,我母亲是一张哭脸。母亲的一生虽然风平浪静,但是总不满意,不快乐,一张脸苍老疲惫,皱纹纵横交错。婆婆的一生跌宕起伏,但因凡事都乐观,宽大的心胸让她越老越添风韵,成了一个魅力十足的漂亮老人。
从这两张脸上,我见识了什么是时间的刀光剑影,也明白了什么叫真正的“相由心生”
生活就是这样一种东西:你用笑脸对它,它就还给你一张恒久温暖的笑脸;你用哭脸对它,它就会把这副哭脸毫不客气地贴回到你脸上。对一个女人而言,把美丽留在脸上是一项艰巨的工程。多少人热衷于护肤和美容,却忽略了心灵的力量。
心灵鸡汤美文2
在岁月的浸润下,人的心中会滋生出种种杂草,使心灵不堪重负,奄奄一息。要想使心灵重现生机,我们就应该毫不留情地拔掉那些长在心中的杂草。 自私是长在心中的杂草,这种草会蒙蔽您的双眼,让您只看到自身的利益,而看不到别人和集体的利益,从而干出损公肥私,损人利己的事。时间一长,您的朋友甚至亲人都会离您而去,让您成为“孤家寡人”。您想成为“孤家寡人”吗?不想!那么赶快拔掉这种杂草吧,使心灵重现往日那种大公无私,心胸开阔的繁荣景象。
忌妒是长在心中的杂草,这种草会天天驱使您跟别人攀比:比吃,比穿,比用。只要别人有哪一点超过了您,它就会疯狂地长,长,长!如果实在比不过别人,就会心怀怨恨。恨到极点,它就会驱使您对别人做点手脚,使点绊子。亲爱的朋友们,请赶快拔掉这种杂草吧,使心灵重现往日那种平和宽容的繁荣景象。
贪婪是长在心中的杂草,这种草会支使您把手伸得很长很长,捞了财物,还要捞钱,捞了一万块,还要捞十万,百万,甚至千万,直到把您“捞”进监狱。您想坐牢吗?当然不想!那就赶快拔掉这种杂草,去找回那个两袖清风,廉洁奉公的真我吧。
自卑是长在心中的杂草,这种草会让您觉得自己这也不行,那也不好,从而丧失了自信。亲爱的`朋友们,赶快拔掉这种杂草,去找回那个自信自强自立的真我吧。
自傲是长在心中的杂草,这种草会让您高高在上,目空一切,除了自己,瞧不起任何人。谁喜欢跟盛气凌人的人交朋友呢?亲爱的朋友们,赶快拔掉这种杂草,去找回那个满面春风,平等待人的真我吧!
亲爱的朋友们,当您拔掉了这种种杂草,就等于为心灵卸下了种种负担,您就会感到浑身轻松自在,您的人生也会更加丰富多彩。
心灵鸡汤美文3
生命总是在自己的啼哭中开始,于别人的泪水里抵达终点。医学上认为,眼泪有清洁眼球的作用,是对外界刺激的应激性反映,从胎儿时开始,就有了基础泪。于是泪水就给生命打上了烙印,直到生命结束后,或许还有泪水在记忆你也飘逝的灵魂。
人时是情感的动物,有七情六欲,不能长期压抑在心底,显现于外,不在乎表情、语言、动作等,喜也好,悲也罢,哭着笑着,泪水就在眼框中积聚,水一样的流,一滴一滴便是情感的世界。这世界里有真也有假,有呼唤也有陷阱……
泪水不仅与伤感、悲痛有关,也和喜乐有关。怒极反笑,喜极而泣,人在巨大的惊喜或者幸福之前,一时难以找到最好的表达情感的方式,而泪水往往先之一步淋漓而出。笑中有泪,性情率真,然其后之诸多感慨复杂情感一时之间是难以道尽的,全部凝聚在这夺眶而出的液体之中了。
泪水似乎与女子有缘,善睐明眸,若有雾气朦胧,便是幽潭一碧的美丽和**,生生摄人魂魄风流无限。泪光点点,微微的黛玉硬是勾走了无数男人的心,为什么都指望“天上掉个林妹妹”,可想而知。有泪水,男人往往自作多情地要去怜香惜玉,女人也往往顺水推舟小鸟依人,泪水就成为和谐爱情的一种润滑剂。但女人们不能过多地使用,因为面对女人的泪水,男人总是惶恐不安,不知所措,要么就不闻不问,要么就溜之大吉。女人请记住许多时候,笑容和泪水同等重要。
男儿有泪不轻弹,所以男人习惯于把眼泪藏在心底,让它在血液里流动,这是文化传统的影响。伪装出来的坚强总会有崩溃的一天,当男人真正要哭的时候,一定要当心,那可真实决堤的海一发不可收拾。但大多数男人都会选择在无人的角落或者最亲近的女人面前伤心欲绝地哭一场的,大部分时间里他笑容掩饰着泪水。敢笑敢哭,是真性情人。心真情真,泪水也真。
有一颗感动的心,我们用泪水滋润世间的真善美;有一颗怜悯的心,我们用泪水去祭奠痛苦和哀伤;有一颗真诚的心,我们用泪水去温暖苦痛的灵魂。
人生总在泪水中前行,酸甜哭辣百味尝尽,或许,“懂了泪水,就懂了人生”。
经典心灵鸡汤美文:最美的心
One day a young man was standing in the middle of the town proclaiming that he had the most beautiful heart in the whole valley. A large crowd gathered, and they all admired his heart for it was perfect. There was not a flaw in it.
一天,一位年轻人站在城镇的中央,宣布他的心是整个山谷中最美丽的心。围观的人很多,他们都称赞年轻人的心的确是完美无缺,并没有一点伤痕瑕疵。
Suddenly, an old man appeared and said, "Why, your heart is not nearly as beautiful as mine."
突然,一位老人出现在人群中,说:“你的心不如我的美丽。”
The crowd and the young man looked at the old man's heart. It was full of scars, it had places where pieces had been removed and other pieces put in, but they didn't fit quite right, and there were several jagged edges. In fact, in some places there were deep gouges where whole pieces were missing.
围观者和年轻人都朝老人的心看去:它布满了伤疤,有的地方被挖去又重新填补上,但修补得不甚完整,留下一些参差不齐的疤痕。实际上,有的地方缺失了整块,甚至露出很深的豁口。
The young man laughed. "Comparing your heart with mine, mine is perfect and yours is a mess of scars."
年轻人笑了起来:“我们两人的心相比,我的是那么完美,而你的却是一堆伤疤。”
"Yes," said the old man, "Yours looks perfect but I would never trade with you. You see, every scar represents a person to whom I have given my love. I tear out a piece of my heart and give it to them, and often they give me a piece of their heart that fits into the empty place in my heart.
“是的,”老人说,“你的心从表面来看很完美,但我绝不会跟你交换。你看,每个伤疤都代表我为别人献出的一份爱——我掏出一块心给他们,他们常常会掏出自己的一块回赠给我,以填补我的空缺。
But because the pieces aren't exact, I have some rough edges, which I cherish, because they remind me of the love we shared.
但由于这两块不完全一样,伤口的边缘就留下了疤痕,不过我十分珍惜这些疤痕,因为它们使我想起我们共同拥有的爱心。”
"Sometimes I have given pieces of my heart away, and the other person hasn't returned a piece of his or her heart to me. These are the empty gouges -- giving love is taking a chance.
“有时我送出了一瓣心,其他人并没有回赠给我,因此就出现了这些豁口——献出爱也是需要冒风险的。
Although these gouges are painful, they stay open, reminding me of the love I have for those people too, and I hope someday they may return and fill the space I have waiting. So now do you see what true beauty is?"
尽管这些豁口很疼,我还是让它们敞开着,因为它们能使我想起我付出的爱。我希望有一天,得到爱的人们能够回来填补上我心里的空间。你现在明白什么是真正的美丽了吧?”
The young man walked up to the old man, reached into his perfect heart, and ripped a piece out. He offered it to the old man.
年轻人默默走近老人,把手伸进自己完美的心中,撕下一块来,把它献给这位老人。
The old man placed it in his heart, then took a piece from his old scarred heart and placed it in the wound in the young man's heart. It fit, but not perfectly, as there were some jagged edges.
老人接过馈赠,把它放进自己的心里。然后他从自己疤痕累累的心里掏出一块,放在年轻人心里的.那个伤口上。正好放进去,但不是特别吻合,也出现了一些疤痕。
The young man looked at his heart, not perfect anymore but more beautiful than ever, since love from the old man's heart flowed into his.
年轻人看着自己的心,看起来不再完美但比以前更美丽了,因为老人心中的爱也流淌到了他的心里。
They embraced and walked away side by side.
他们拥抱着,肩并肩离开了。
经典心灵鸡汤美文:放爱一条生路
The other day as I talked with a friend I recalled a story that I heard this summer. "A compassionate person, seeing a butterfly struggling to free itself from its cocoon, and wanting to help, very gently loosened the filaments to form an opening. The butterfly was freed, emerged from the cocoon, and fluttered about but could not fly. What the compassionate person did not know was that only through the birth struggle can the wings grow strong enough for flight. Its shortened life was spent on the ground; it never knew freedom, never really lived."
前几天和一位朋友闲聊时,我想起今年夏天听到的一个故事:“有个人很富有同情心,看到一只蝴蝶拼命挣扎想冲破茧的束缚,就帮了个忙,轻轻地解开茧丝使其露出一个缺口。蝴蝶得到解放,从茧中出来振翅欲飞,然而却飞不起来。这位富有同情心的人所不知道的是,只有经过挣扎破茧而出,翅膀才能变得强壮,可以飞翔。这只蝴蝶短暂的生命只能在地上度过了,它从未尝过自由的滋味,没有真正享受过生活。”
I call it learning to love with an open hand. It is a learning which has come slowly to me and has been wrought in the fires of pain and in the waters of patience. I am learning that I must free the one I love, for if I clutch or cling, try to control, I lose what I try to hold.
我把它叫做学会放爱一条生路。这个教训经历了痛苦的锻造和耐心的洗礼,我才逐渐认识到。我学会了必须给所爱的人自由,如果我抓得太紧、紧握不放、设法控制,结果可能会失去他们。
If I try to change someone I love because I feel I know how that person should be, I rob him or her of a precious right, the right to take responsibility for one's own life and choices and way of being. Whenever I impose my wish or want or try to exert power over another, I rob him or her of the full realization of growth and maturation. I limit and prevent by my act of possession, no matter how kind my intention.
如果我试图改变所爱的人,仅仅因为我觉得他/她应该这样,就等于是掠夺了他/她的一项珍贵的权利,即他/她对自己生命的责任权和生活方式的选择权。无论何时我把自己的意志和权力强加给别人,都会导致他/她无法完全成长和成熟。无论我的意图多么善良,我的控制行为还是限制和阻碍了他们。
I can limit and injure by the kindest acts of protection or concern. Over extended it can say to the other person more eloquently than words, "You are unable to care for yourself; I must take care of you because you are mine. I am responsible for you."
即使保护或关心这种最善意的行为也会限制和伤害别人。“你无法照顾自己,我必须照顾你,因为你是我的,我要对你负责。”对别人说这么动人的语言远远超越了你的权力。
As I learn and practice more and more, I can say to the one I love: "I love you, I value you, I respect you and I trust that you have the strength to become all that it is possible for you to become — if I don't get in your way. I love you so much that I can set you free to walk beside me in joy and in sadness. I will share your tears but I will not ask you not to cry. I will respond to your needs. I will care and comfort you, but I will not hold you up when you can walk alone. I will stand ready to be with you in your grief and loneliness but I will not take it away from you. I will strive to listen to your meaning as well as your word, but I shall not always agree. Sometimes I will be angry and when I am, I will try to tell you openly so that I need not hate our differences or feel estranged. I can not always be with you or hear what you say for there are times when I must listen to myself and care for myself, and when that happens I will be as honest with you as I can be."
随着我学习和锻炼的增多,现在我会这样告诉我爱的人:“我爱你、珍惜你、尊重你,我相信你有足够的实力发展成为你想要成为的人——如果我不阻碍你的话。我是那么爱你,所以我给你自由,和我共享欢乐与悲伤。我会和你一起流泪,但我不会要求你停止哭泣。我会满足你的需要,关心你、安慰你,但在你能够独立行走时我不会阻挡你。我会时刻准备好,在你悲伤和孤独时站到你身边,但我不会把你的悲伤和孤独带走。我会尽力理解你的话语及其中涵义,但不会总是赞同。有时我会生气,当我生气时,我会尽量坦率地告诉你,这样我就不会对我们之间的分歧怀恨于心,产生疏远的感觉。我无法时刻与你在一起,或者听你诉说,因为有时我需要倾听自己,关心自己,当这些发生时,我会尽量告诉你。”
I am learning to say this, whether it be in words or in my way of being with others and myself, to those I love and for whom I care. And this I call loving with an open hand.
对于那些我所爱和所关心的人,我正在学习这样表达,无论是用语言,还是用我对待他人及自己的方式,我把这种方式叫做放爱一条生路。
I cannot always keep my hands off the cocoon, but I am getting better at it!
我不会总把双手从茧的身旁移开,但我正在逐渐进步!
经典心灵鸡汤美文:生活依旧如是
You wake up in the morning, feeling groggy and disoriented.
清晨初醒,你只觉昏昏沉沉,糊里糊涂
You look at yourself in the mirror, fearful to look him straight in the eye.
对着镜中的他,你已不敢直视那双眼
You back zero tolerance on boredness, stuffing every vacant moment with talks, malls andlaptops!
你对无聊的零容忍,让你的生活被塞满:闲聊,购物,笔记本
You are silent in their eyes, yet the noisiest in yours, for that inner voice you can bearly hear.
他们眼中安静的你,在你心中却嘈杂不堪,只因心声早已杳不可闻
You hang on the rim of the wheel of fortune, going up and down, tasting highs and lows.
你攀上命运之轮的边缘,从此生活跌宕起伏,阴晴不定
Life goes on but it is out of control!
生活依然继续,却已脱离掌控
Not so soon, nor too late:
光阴不长不短,会有一天:
You open your eyes, stretching your muscles and seeing the whole world beckons to you.
你睁开双眼,舒展筋骨,世界已然向你呼唤
You cheat him no more, smile to him , stare at him, knowing he is with you clear up to theend.
不再欺骗镜中的他,朝他微笑,死死盯着他,你明白他将伴你走过一生的旅程
You celebrate every moment, busy or free; strive not to become a human-doing, be andconsider like a human-being!
不论闲暇忙碌,珍惜每个当下。你不再被生活俘虏忙个不停,思考并实现人之为人
You talk gently, speak forcefully, and argue eloquently, because a mind in peace functions witheffortless ease.
你言辞温婉,演说铿锵,雄辩滔滔,一切运行自如,却宁静而无为
You break free, make it to the hub, center your life on the bliss. Let it go! Let it flow!
你挣脱轮缘,爬上轮轴中心,专注万物的美好。放开拳头!让幸福在掌心流动!
Life still is, but you got a big role!
生活依旧如是,你不作主,孰作主!
经典心灵鸡汤美文:命运公平吗
Most people complain of fortune, few of nature; and the kinder they think the latter has beento them, the more they murmur at what they call the injustice of the former.
很多人抱怨命运,却很少有人抱怨自然;人们越是认为自然对他们仁爱有加,便越是嘀咕命运对他们的所谓不公。
Why have not I the riches, the rank, the power, of such and such, is the common expostulationwith fortune; but why have not I the merit, the talents, the wit, or the beauty, of such andsuch others, is a reproach rarely or never made to nature. The truth is, that nature, seldomprofuse, and seldom niggardly, has distributed her gifts more equally than she is generallysupposed to have done. Education and situation make the great difference. Culture improves,and occasions elicit natural talents. I make no doubt but that there are potentially, if I mayuse that pedantic word, many Bacons, Lockes, Newtons, Caesars, Cromwells, and Mariboroughsat the ploughtail, behind counters, and perhaps, even among the nobility; but the soil must becultivated, and the season favourable, for the fruit to have all its spirit and flavour.
人们常常对命运发出诘难:我为何没有财富、地位、权力以及诸如此类的东西;但人们却很少或从不这样责怪过自然:我为何没有长处、天赋、机智或美丽以及诸如此类的东西。事实是,自然总是将天赋公平地分配给人们,比人们通常认为的还要不偏不倚,很少过分地慷慨,也很少吝啬。人与人之间的巨大差异是由于教育和环境使然。文化修养改良了天赋,机遇环境诱发了天赋。如果允许我用“潜在的”这个学究味浓重的词的话,我并不怀疑在农田耕作,在柜台后营业,甚至在豪门贵族中间有很多潜在的培根们、洛克们、牛顿们、凯撒们、克伦威尔们和马尔伯勒们,但必须要有耕耘栽培过的泥土,还有适宜的季节,这样生成的果实才能具有它全部的品质和特色。
If sometimes our common parent has been a little partial, and not kept the scales quite even;if one preponderates too much, we throw into the lighter a due counterpoise of vanity, whichnever fails to set all right. Hence it happens, that hardly any one man would, without reverse,and in every particular, change with any other.
倘若我们共同的“父母”——大自然有时候有那么一点偏心,没有将天平摆正;倘若有一头过重,我们就会在轻的一头投上一枚大小适当的虚荣的砝码,将天平重新调平,从不出差错。因此就出现了这种情况:几乎没有人会毫无保留地和另一个人里里外外全部对换一下。
Though all are thus satisfied with the dispensations of nature, how few listen to her voice! Howto follow her as a guide! In vain she points out to us the plain and direct way to truth, vanity,fancy, affection, and fashion assume her shape and wind us through fairy-ground to folly anderror.
虽然对于自然的分配,人人都感到满意;然而肯听她的忠告的人却是如此之少!能将她当作向导而跟随其后的人又是如此之少!她徒然地为我们指出一条通向真理的笔直的坦途;而虚荣、幻想、矫情、时髦却俨然以她的面貌出现,暗中将我们引向虚幻的歧途,走向愚笨和谬误。
经典心灵鸡汤美文:时间银行
Everyone has a bank. Its name is TIME. Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds.Every night it writes off, as lost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to good purpose. Itcarries over no balance. It allows no overdraft.
每个人都有一个银行,它的名字叫“时间”。每天早晨,它在你的帐户里存入86,400秒钟。不管你是否很好地利用了这笔时间,每天晚上它会照例把这笔时间作为遗失注销。它没有设置余额,也不允许透支。
Each day it opens a new account for you. Each night it burns the records of the day. If you failto use the day's deposits, the loss is yours.
每天它会为你开一个新帐户,每晚它会把该天的记录全部删除。如果你没有好好地利用当天的这笔时间,那么损失由你自己承担。
There is no going back. There is no drawing against the "tomorrow". You must live in thepresent on today's deposits. Invest it so as to get from it the utmost in health, happiness andsuccess! The clock is running. Make the most of today: "Seize the day!"
没有回头路,也不能向“明天”借时间。你必须以今天的时间"存款"为基础生活在现在。有效地投资这笔时间以便从中获取有关健康,快乐及成功最大的收益。时钟正在旋转。好好地利用今天:“抓住每一天!”
So, you see, time is important, make the most of it. After all, life is either a daring adventureor nothing!
你看,时间挺重要的吧,一定要好好利用它。毕竟,生活要么是大胆的尝试,要么就什么都没有。
Treasure every moment that you have! And treasure it more because you shared it withsomeone special, special enough to have your time. And remember time waits for none.
珍惜你所拥有的每一分钟!你要更加珍惜它,因为你与某个特殊的朋友一起在分享它,这位朋友特殊到拥有你的时间。记住:时间不等人。
经典心灵鸡汤美文:哥哥的心愿
A friend of mine named Paul received an automobile from his brother as a Christmas present. On Christmas Eve when Paul came out of his office, a street urchin was walking around the shiny new car, admiring it.
"Is this your car, Mister?" he said.
Paul nodded. "My brother gave it to me for Christmas." The boy was astounded. "You mean your brother gave it to you and it didn’t cost you nothing? Boy, I wish . . ." He hesitated.
Of course Paul knew what he was going to wish for. He was going to wish he had a brother like that. But what the lad said jarred Paul all the way down to his heels.
"I wish," the boy went on, "That I could be a brother like that."
Paul looked at the boy in astonishment, then impulsively he added, "Would you like to take a ride in my car?"
"Oh yes, I’d love that."
After a short ride, the boy turned with his eyes aglow, said, "Mister, would you mind driving in front of my house?"
Paul smiled a little. He thought he knew what the lad wanted. He wanted to show his neighbors that he could ride home in a big automobile. But Paul was wrong again. "Will you stop where those two steps are?" the boy asked.
He ran up the steps. Then in a little while Paul heard him coming back, but he was not coming fast. He was carrying his little crippled brother. He sat him down on the bottom step, then sort of squeezed up against him and pointed to the car.
"There she is, Buddy, just like I told you upstairs.
His brother gave it to him for Christmas and it didn’t cost him a cent. And some day I’m gonna give you one just like it . . . then you can see for yourself all the pretty things in the Christmas windows that I’ve been trying to tell you about."
Paul got out and lifted the lad to the front seat of his car. The shining-eyed older brother climbed in beside him and the three of them began a memorable holiday ride. That Christmas Eve, Paul learned what Jesus meant when he said: "It is more blessed to give . . . "
篇一:心灵鸡汤美文
非常多年了,我从未敢提起勇气来面对自己。就好象那个戏台上的小丑,抹了厚厚的颜料,在每一双目光下,搔首弄姿,张牙舞爪的卖弄,收获一个个廉价的欢笑。直到曲终了,场空了,灯灭了,才敢偷偷的在心里叹气。
我以为别人习惯了带着面具的生活的我,也以为自己习惯了这样带着面具的生活。可是有一天,我收到远方一个相处多年的好友来信,在信上,她非常和善的这样写到,“其实,我知道,表面上外向的你,内心却是极其内向的。”
我非常震惊,原来好友一直在默默的细心包容着这样的一个我,而不去轻易破坏我选择的生活方式,可就是这样的一句话,此刻却击溃了我费劲心血伪装的,自以为完美无缺的面具。于是我也在一瞬间溃不成军,觉得自己象极了皇帝的新装里面那个穿着所谓最华丽的心意,洋洋自得,招摇过市,却被一个无邪孩子一语道破,而无地自容的皇帝。
于是,我非常害怕,怕别人是不是都发现了这样的一个伪装的我,怕别人因此奚落我,更怕有一天,会有人指着我的鼻子跟我说,快看,居然没穿衣服。
我想回去,可是那个低贱自己的小丑已经吞噬了我的灵魂。我又惧怕那些会指着我拍手欢笑的人,于是,我在黑暗里抓狂了。我怀念那个趴在奶奶怀里撒娇,被奶奶呵护着的,会有天使一样笑容的小孩。我怀念那个因为数学拿了一百分,心里怀着被老师夸奖的喜悦,飞奔回家,象一只小鸟一样快乐的小孩。 我怀念那个因为参加辩论赛,整天泡在图书馆里找
可是,我为什么要变呢?也许是因为发现自己越来越不适应这个世界。也许是因为那么真诚的对待别人,却被别人嗤之以鼻的态度刺伤了。于是,我逃避,也沉默了。我知道我应该做什么,应该怎么做。因为我还不至于是一个不识事务,不当俊杰的笨蛋。
可是我依旧幻想如果水可以再清澈一点该多好,如果天空可以再纯粹一点该多好我累了,也许逃出这种心情,我依旧会忐忑的带着面具继续做人,因为我还要在这个世界上活着。
篇二:心灵鸡汤美文
也许,你买到了柔软舒适的床单,但你买不到一夜的安眠;也许,你买到了名贵保身的名药,但你买不到一副健康的体魄;也许,你买到了蜚声世界的书籍,但你买不到一脑子渊博的学问,心灵鸡汤。
朋友,大概你喝过鸡汤了吧?但有一种鸡汤是用真情与关怀与真情熬出来的,它同样是无价的,你又喝过了吗?
记得那时,“非典”如恶魔吞噬着人们的生命,我校为了不让我们染上“非典”,进行了一切保障我们健康的措施,“家长不能进校”就是其中一条规定。每天放学的时候,校门口都会演上一幕幕感人心扉的动人故事。铁门外是父母,铁门内是儿女,铁杆中递过来的汤,递过去的手,恰似世上最令人动容的亲情图。
已不记得多少次了,爸爸与妈妈拿着盛满鸡汤的保温瓶站在校门口外张望着。我拿过盛满鸡汤的保温瓶,热气腾腾的 ,通常是和着妈妈的驱寒问暖与爸爸的百般叮咛,然后一起流进我体内,似一股暖流流遍全身。
每次喝下鸡汤后,我都感到非常踏实,身体上的,精神上的,可能,那是能带给心灵最大程度的营养的鸡汤………….望着爸爸妈妈离去的背影,铁杆间还残流着一丝丝的暖意。 怎么样?朋友?喝过了吗?也许你能用钱买到最补的人参鸡汤,但你却感受不了汤中蕴含的意蕴。
篇三:也许身在远方,心却从未远离
或许我们就这样错过,再来后悔为何当初不说。摘不到的星星,总是最闪亮的。熘掉的小鱼,总是最美丽的。错过的电影,总是最好看的。失去的情人,总是最懂我的。这世界上,每一个人都有个想要寻找的人。
是的,我知道了,我们会永远在一起,因为你就在我心里,无论你去任何地方,我们都永远在一起,永远,永远。
爱一个人就是喜欢和他拥有现在,却又追忆着和他在一起的过去。喜欢听他说,那一年他是怎么样偷偷喜欢你,远远地凝望着你。爱一个人便是小别时带走他的吻痕,就像一幅画,带着鉴赏者的。
或许这世界上有些梦,美在永远握不到。爱一个人,就是满心满意地要跟他一起过日子,只是希望以彼此的.火烬把属于两个人的一世时间填满。
人的一生是一个相互关心关爱的过程,每个人都有情感的需要,其中,语言的交流和情感的表达又是关键。不要让爱人只是用猜想知道你的关爱,而是要让对方时时感受到你的心意,这就是你用嘴巴告诉对方你的爱,还需要用行动来表达爱的程度。
爱一个人,就是无私无畏地为这个人付出所以的一切却无怨无悔。你继续装傻,我继续天真,就这样,谁也不揭穿谁。永远在一起,不分离。也许身在远方,心却从未远离。
人生的路上,我们都在奔跑,我们总在赶超一些人,也总在被一些人超越。人生的要义,一是欣赏沿途的风景,二是抵达遥远的终点。人生的秘诀,就在于寻找一种最适合自己的速度,莫因疾进而不堪重荷,莫因迟缓而空耗生命。人生的快乐,就是走自己的路,看自己的景,超越他人不得意,他人超越不失志。
虽然,人的一生就是一个事件和一个事件的连接,但总是有那么一些情景会让你刻骨铭心,一生都不会忘记。我要你知道,这个世界上有一个人会永远等着你。无论是在什么时候,无论你在什么地方,反正你知道总会有这样一个人。



