1：a woman who truly loves you will be angry at you for many things, but will stick around. 如果一个女人真的爱你，她会因为很多事情对你发脾气，却始终坚守在你身边
2：if you really love me, then why do i see is to breed.倘若你真的爱我，那么为什么我看到的只是繁衍。
3：dream most deep place, only then the smile is not tired. 梦的最深处，只有微笑不累。
4：create good memories today, so that you can have a good past。今天创造出一份美好记忆，明天就能拥有一段美好回忆。
5：every hour of lost time is a chance of future misfortune.一寸光阴一寸金，寸金难买寸光阴。
6：every day may not be good...but there's something good in every day. 并不是每一天都是好日子，但每一天一定会有些好事会发生。
7：happiness is to find someone who can give you warm and share your life together.幸福，就是找一个温暖的人过一辈子。
8：however long the night, the dawn will break. 管黑夜有多长，天亮总会到来。
9：all endings are beginnings, we just don't know it at the time.-mitch albom.所有的结局都是新的开始，只是当时不知道。
10：he doesn’t even know i exist. 他甚至，都不知道我的存在剧情。
11：a woman has got to love a bad man once or twice in her life to be thankful for a good one. 一生中，女人总会爱过一两次坏蛋，才会珍惜那个对的人。
12：i never wanted to be your whole life. just your favorite part. 我从来就没想过要成为你的全部。我只想做你最喜爱的那一个部分。
13：everybody dies, but not everybody lives.人人最后都会死，但非人人都曾活过。
14：every thing is gonna be alright. 一切都会好起来的。
15：before i met you i never knew what it was like; to look at someone and smile for no reason。没有遇到你之前，我从来没想到自己会这样，毫无缘由的对着一个人傻笑。
16：dream most deep place, only then the smile is not tired. 梦的最深处，只有微笑不累。
17：every story has an ending.but in life, every end is a new beginning——每段故事都有一个结局。但是在人的一生中，每一个终点同时也是一个新的起点。
18：blessed is he whose fame does not outshine his truth.有福之人，是因为他的真实比他的名誉更耀眼。
19：actions speak louder than words.行动比语言更响亮。
20：don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to. 不要着急，最好的总会在最不经意的时候出现
21：i fear every lasting "typing" which finally brings me only"ok.=)"我害怕，害怕每次长时间的“正在输入”，换来的都是一句：哦。呵呵。
22：don’t waste your time on a man,who isn’t willing to waste their time on you. 不要为那些不愿在你身上花费时间的人而浪费你的时间。
23：i am on my way to future, where you are there. 我要去有你的未来。
24：do not, for one repulse, forgot the purpose that you resolved to effort. 不要只因一次挫败，就忘记你原先决定想达到的远方。
25：dream is like underwear.although you have it,you can not show it to everyone you meet.理想就像内裤，虽然你有，但是你不能逢人就证明你有。
26：dont' treat others the way you don't want to be treated. 已所不欲，勿施于人。
27：blessedness is of comparative degree,you will feel it with more ease when there is something under you.幸福是个比较级，要有东西垫底才容易感觉到。
28：a true friend is someone who accepts your past, supports your present and encourages your future.真正的朋友会接受你的过去，力挺你的现在，鼓舞你的将来。
29：distance could make you forget about them, but the memories would always be there. 距离会让你遗忘，但是回忆却会永驻。
30：i don't know where i am going, but i am on my way. 我不知将去何方，但我已在路上。
31：don't argue with me, every word comes out of your mouth would be the solid evidence of hurting me. 你不要和我吵，你的每一字，每一句，都会成为伤害我的呈堂证供!
32：can’t sleep at night. can’t get up in the morning. 晚上睡不着，早上起不来。
33：acting as if nothing borne in mind is the best revenge.it's all for myself to live better.若无其事，原来是最好的报复。生活得更好，是为了自己。
34：coffee is lonely without cups just as i am lonely without you.没有杯子……咖啡是寂寞的……没有你……我是孤独的……
35：don’t be so hard on yourself. 别对自己太苛刻了。
36：don't realize too much which will let you down.不要知道得太多，会难过。
37：if the relationship doesn't make you a better person, then you are with the wrong one. 如果一段感情，没有把你变成更好的人，那么很遗憾你跟错了人。
38：destiny determines who comes into our lives but it’s the heart that decides who stays inside.命运决定谁会进入我们的生活，内心决定我们与谁并肩。
39：buried city, to shut all lights. 埋下一座城，关了所有灯。
40：age wrinkles the body. quitting wrinkles the soul. 岁月使皮肤起皱，放弃使灵魂起皱。
41：i understand you have called content, and you don't understand is th我懂有你叫知足，而你却不懂有我叫珍惜。
42：he who has ability to be such a naughty guy and can be stronger more as well. 有本事任性的人，也会有本事坚强
43：happiness is about having each tiny wish come ture. 幸福是每一个微小愿望的达成。
44：emotion is the innate weakness of human.情感是人类的本质弱点。
45：active long will be very tired, care about for a long time will crash! 主动久了会很累， 在乎久了会崩溃!
46：everbody will make mistakes, that‘s why they put erasers on the end of pencils. 每个人都会犯错，这就是为什么把橡皮擦安在铅笔后面的原因剧情。
47：don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.属于自己的，不要放弃;已经失去的，留作回忆。
48：being single doesn't mean that you don't know anything about love. 单身，并不意味着你不懂爱情。
49：a successful relationship requires fall in love many times, always with the the same person. 一段成功的恋情，就是一次次的堕入爱河，与同一个人。
50：i don't give a shit on your care the least about me.我不在乎你对我的不在乎。
你能帮助我学英语吗?
2.Could you speak a little more slowly ?
你可以说慢一点吗?
3.How do you pronounce this word ?
这个单词怎么发音?
4.How do you say this in English ?
这个用英语怎么说?
5.Please be frank with me about my English .You can be straightforward with me .I won’t be offended .
请实话告诉我,我的英语怎么样.你可以直说,我不会生气的.
6.Can you read this sentence for me ?
你能把这个句子给我读一下吗?
7.Could you give me some advice on my pronunciation?
听我读一读这些句子,好吗?
8.Can you give me some advice on my pronunciation?
你能就我的发音提一些建议吗?
9.Please correct my mistakes when I speak to you .
我跟你说话的时候请纠正我的错误
10. Do you have any advice for learning English ?
你对学英语有什么建议吗?
我与英语有个"误会"
(1)
1、Could you keep this close to you vest? This is between you and me.
[误]把这个贴身存放吗？它在你我之间。
[正]谨慎小心些好吗？这是我们之间的秘密。
2、Come on,Jane,shake a leg,or you are going to be late.
[误]抖抖腿，简，否则你就要迟到了。
[正]快点，简，要不你就迟到了。
3、Just take a look at the bottom line.
[误]就看一下底线好了。
[正]就看一下结果好了。
4、My uncle is the black sheep in our family.
[误]叔叔是我们家的黑绵羊。
[正]叔叔是我们家的败家子。
5、Everything is coming up roses.
[误]所有的东西出来以后都变成了玫瑰花。
[正]一切都很顺利。
6、Play it by ear.
[误]玩耳朵。
[正]见机行事。
7、Foot the bill.
[误]踩到帐单上了。
[正]结帐。
8、Excuse me ,but nature calls.
[误]不好意思，自然叫我。
[正]不好意思，我要去一下洗手间。
(2)
1、My English teacher is a bug about music.
[误]我的英语老师是一只音乐方面的臭虫。
[正]我的英语老师是一个音乐迷。
2、Many students have ants in their pants before an examination.
[误]考试前夕，许多学生裤子里有蚂蚁。
[正]考试前夕，许多学生紧张不安。
3、No peace-loving people like war hawks.
[误]爱好和平的人都不喜欢战争之鹰。
[正]爱好和平的人都不喜欢好点分子。
4、We are ten miles from the town as the crow flies.
[误]如果像乌鸦那样飞，我们离城里只有十英里了。
[正]我们离城里的直线距离只有十英里了。
5、My neighbor has an ostrich-stomach.
[误]我的邻居有一个鸵鸟胃。
[正]我邻居的消化功能特别强。
6、He is a good driver,but as a farmer,he is just a babe in the woods.
[误]他开车技术不错，但是在务农方面只是个树林里的孩子。
[正]他虽然车技不错，但在务农方面只是个生手。
(3)
1They have a fat chance.
[误]他们的机会很大。
[正]他们的机会不大。
2Mike is in hot water----he failed in the final exam.
[误]迈克现在在热水里----他期末考试没有及格。
[正]迈克现在可是难办了----他期末考试没有及格。
3That excuse simply doesn't hold water.
[误]那个借口不能盛水。
[正]那个借口站不住脚。
4Tony failed nearly all his exams,but now the shoe is on the other foot----he passes themall.
[误]托尼过去考试总不及格，但是现在他把鞋穿到了另一只脚上----于是他考试全部通过了。
[正]托尼过去考试总不及格，但是现在情况正好相反----他考试全部通过了。
5To work hand in glove.
[误]戴着手套工作。
[正]密切合作。
6That businessman is in the red recently.
[误]那个商人最近红光满面。
[正]那个商人最近亏本了。
(4)
1、Everybody has his Achilles'heel,so you should not expect him to be perfect.
[误]每个人都有自己的阿喀琉斯后跟，你不能指望他十全十美。
[正]每个人都有自己的弱点，你不能指望他十全十美。
[说明]Achilles'heel源自《荷马史诗》，阿喀琉斯是冥河女神之子，女神在他年幼时就把他浸入斯提克斯冥河中，以使他刀枪不入。可是被母亲抓住的脚踵因为没有接触到水而成为英雄身上唯一会受伤的地方。特洛伊战争之始，阿喀琉斯成为无人能敌的英雄。但敌人很快发现了他的致命弱点，一箭射中脚后跟，结束了他的生命。因此阿喀琉斯脚后跟成为“唯一弱点”和“致命弱点”的代名词。
2、If our team fails to score this time,we will have another goose egg.
[误]如果这次我们的球队还是无法得分，我们就要再得一个鹅蛋了。
[正]如果这次我们的球队还是无法得分我们就要再得一个零分了。
3、That old dog next door finally kicked the bucket yesterday.
[误]隔壁邻居家的那条老狗昨天最终还是踢了桶。
[正]隔壁邻居家的那条老狗昨天最终还是死了。
4、My father is the only breadwinner in my family.
[误]我父亲是我们家唯一赢得面包的人。
[正]我父亲是我们家唯一赚钱养家的人。
Fistful happiness 幸 福 在 握
Right now she is 1）seated so close to me that I can feel her breath on my skin. In this blood 2）freezing winter, I can't 3）resist longer against her heat-pumping eyes. She is 4）glaring at me for quite some time now and I am burning in the warmth of her 5）intentions. I might have melted by now but a cold yet 6）sober reflection has kept me from 7）dissolving into 8）weakness.
After losing the glare 9）offensive, the five soldiers of her hand started 10）creeping towards me. These soldieries were not 11）communists any more, if they were, they would have 12）snatched me by now. I can feel the 13）vibration, caused by the creeping of her hand, falling into my bones. Although her hand is yet to touch mine; the 14）oscillation of that 15）heart-soothing near future has made my hand to frustratingly wont for a 16）passionate 17）hug of that 18）slender-finger neighbor.
I desire to 19）alter the coldness of my hands with the coolness of hers and it is not impossible. There is no one else breathing in this little 20）hut of a bus stop and our hearts are 21）anxiously excited to listen to each other's beats.
But far away, in the deep 22）hollows of my past, there is another heart, which has 23）imprisoned my intentions. That heart has lived in my chest for years and I can't 24）ignore it.
It is Mia's heart. My wife's heart.
25）Trembling winter. Lonely afternoon. 26）Muddy clouds. Some 27）melancholic 28）rays 29）peeping through those dusty 30）cornflakes in the sky. Death 31）faced skyscrapers. A road polluted with 32）clumsy vehicles. Countless 33）worn-out faces rolling on the road. Silently breathing hearts. Eyes fed up with 34）monotony. 35）Venomous minds. 36）Incarcerated souls and 37）frail bodies carrying the burden of 38）forced freedom——
This is Moscow.
I was born here and I grew up here, under the dark daylight of the red sun. This red sun was there for everyone, whether one needed it or not. It was everywhere, in your house, your bedroom, your entire life and even in your thoughts. It never set anyone free. So many 39）juvenile faces, 40）novel ideas and 41）enthralling dreams were burnt to ashes in this sun. Nothing could evade the red sun, not even the night.
I was also a part of this system. Who am I? Well, my introduction remains in 42）constant use of millions of people in this world; "I am common man." And along with all those millions of common men, I lived in this system where we labored our lives. Carrying the burden of 43）compulsive freedom on our shoulders, we were 44）transferred from youth to old age, and from old age to 45）demise. At numerous occasions death separated the youth from old age. Our minds, our thoughts had so unfeelingly become a part of all this. Days, dates, years, all meaningless. Our 46）time scale was the amount of work done by us. How many shoes made, how many drugs packed, how many radios 47）loaded, how many abuses 48）assimilated. We were all 49）inebriated. The dream of change was buried in the grave of our stomachs. And yet, in such a 50）suppressive conditions, an 51）eccentric thing happened; instead of my mind, my heart 52）revolted. In this 53）atmosphere of 54）belligerence and 55）hatred, my heart 56）opted for tolerance and love.
She was beautiful; and full of life. She was 57）strenuously breathing in this 58）suffocating air. She had a smile dancing on her lips that would me smile. She had eyes where I could see my dreams. She had voice that would disquiet my heartbeat. But most of all, she had feet that were 59）treading towards me. 60）Heavenly romantic. She was eager to 61）step into my life, I don't know why. I had nothing to give to her.
An aged room stuck into countless other lifeless rooms of a 62）rotten building. 63）Staring monotony. 64）Intoxicated silence. 65）Deceased air. Resentful walls. A wounded window. A colorless curtain waging a lost war against the firing snowflakes. A screaming, yelling wall clock. A 66）repulsive towel. A pile of 67）deformed 68）suite-cases. A 69）withered umbrella hanging on the hook. A clumsy picture making faces at me. A 70）paralyzed bed. A tired pair of shoes 71）sneaking from underneath the bed. A shelf 72）sheltering a sorrowful row of ancient 73）crockery. A faint effort of the 74）bulb to lit up the room. A 75）solitary chair sentenced a life imprisonment in these walls Nothing.
However, I had learnt to love. She taught me how to. I could fill her with love; touching her eyes with mine, plowing my fingers in her hair, whispering my laughter in her ears. She would spread her tiny little complains with her head on my shoulder. We would aimlessly talk while walking on a deserted road in a 76)tranquil evening. I would sing her songs in my 77)gauche voice and she would 78)disperse her 79)melodious laughter in the air. I had planned everything. And along with this, I had also saved enough money to fulfill many of her not innocent wishes.
And then, on a 80)glistening day, she stepped into my world and became my world. There were just eighteen guests participating in our wedding. Ten of them were my factory worker friends; six of Mia's friends and two were our combined, uniformed best wishers. Yes, the 81)KGB. We had no one to call 'ours' but these few. After a short and simple ceremony, our friends departed us joking and laughing, while the KGB guests bid us farewell staring and glaring. They wanted to see us off to our bedroom door, I am sure. But I was not bothered by anything any more. I had found Mia. She was full of life. She 82)pervaded me with it.
I didn't buy her a wedding gift. I couldn't find anything deserved by her. So I decided to ask her.
" Mia! I know you must be expecting a gift from me on our wedding night. I hate to disappoint you but the fact is that I couldn't buy you a gift. Not because I didn't have enough money or that I couldn't remember but because I couldn't find something as 83)gorgeous as you are. Everything looked dull compared to you. So I thought I better ask you. I'll get you whatever you want."
"You'll get me whatever I ask you to?"
"Yes" I whispered with 84)certainty.
"No matter how expensive, how difficult?"
"Yes."
"Then listen. You don't get tired of me. This will be your gift."
"What you mean?"
"I don't know why am I thinking this, but you get tired of looking at me every day. Or when I get old and would cease to be beautiful, would you leave me, not even look at me?"
"No, it won't happen. I'll never get tired of looking at you every day. And when you get old, so would I. And you'll always be beautiful in my eyes." "Promise?"
"Yes promise."
At that moment, she looked to me like a little girl. In a stormy night, afraid of lightning and 85)thunderbolt, hiding in a corner, scared and trembling little girl. I assured her there was nothing to be afraid of. Storms, lightning, darkness, nothing could hurt her.
"I am with you, all around you."
She turned my room into a home. I suggested of buying a little house but she insisted on living in that room until two of us turn into three. And I agreed with her. In this little home of one room, we lived very close to each other, without any distance. You must be thinking how and for how long could two people living in such a small 86)accommodation tolerate each other. Believe you me; Mia and monotony are the names of two firmly and utterly opposite things. Mia is simply 87)astounding. Every day she would put such a thought in front of me that I would be bewildered. She would ask questions that would leave me speechless. She would make such childish requests that the entire building would resound with my laughter. One night, she was sitting in the chair sewing a button on one of my shirts and I was lying 88)sideways on the bed reading a book. When suddenly, she put the shirt on the chair and lied down behind me the same way as I was. Placing her face right beside mine, our cheeks caressing, she held the book from where I was holding it.
"What is this?"
"Nothing. Just!"
"Just what? I am reading dear."
"Then read, whose stopping you?"
"But what's this all about?"
"I 89)wanna read this book too."
"Then read it when I am finished with it."
"No, I wanna see how it feels the way you read it."
And I was lost.
She was an expert on unexpectedly starting a mind twisting conversation. While experiencing silence or right in the middle of a chat, she would abruptly ask 90)outlandish questions.
"Are you happy?"
And I, 91)perplexed, could only utter, "What you mean?"
"I mean, are you happy living with me?"
"That's a stupid question. And anyway I should be asking this question because I am the one who 92)proposed you."
"Then why don't you ask?"
"What, should I ask it every day now?"
"No, but at least once in a while."
"All right honey, tell me, are you happy living with me?"
"A lot !"
And I was 93)flabbergasted.
One day when I came back from work, she invaded me with a question as soon as I appeared from the door.
"Why don't you 94)twist my ear?"
"Are you crazy, you think I am mad or something? Why would I ever do that?"
"Well, last night while picking up the dishes from the table, I broke a plate and you said nothing to me."
"And you want me to twist your ear on such a petty little thing?"
"At least you could chide me."
"Ok, my fault. Next time I will."
"Then do it."
"What!"
"I broke another cup today."
"That's ok, I'll get a new one tomorrow."
"So you are not going to chide me?"
"No way, not on this one."
"Then what am I supposed to do to make you chide me?"
"But why do you want me to chide you?"
"Because then you'll say sorry to me."
And laughter burst out of my stomach.
I could easily tell my friends that I have married a riddle. But it wasn't her; it was the system and the atmosphere in which we lived. In such a 95)breath-hindering air, she was not only living alive but was keeping me alive as well. She had kept alive that precious feeling of love that had died in us. To remain alive in such a breathless air, she needed me and I desired her. That's why I never got tired of her strange acts. I couldn't leave her alone. If I had left her alone, I would have become alone as well.
Then one day, this system left me no option but to hate it and stand up in revolt against it. Mia was pregnant. She was facing a 96)delivery situation. I rented a car to take her to hospital. We were both delighted. Everything looked fresh and new again. I hadn't yet reached the main road when two policemen stopped me. They told me that I couldn't go ahead. On my humble inquiry they told me that a member of the 97)Politburo was to travel through this road so the passage was closed for general public. I informed them of my irresistible compulsion but they were earless. Justice is deaf in our part of the world. In response to my pleads, however, they had mercy on me enough to guide me to an alternate passage yet at the same time informed me that the road was under construction.
I considered it a blessing and turned the vehicle towards the alternative.
That road was like highway to hell, full of 98)ditches. I was trying my best to drive carefully so that Mia doesn't get hurt, but it was all in vain. All those 99)bumps and jumps and Mia was in sheer pain. I would look at the road for one moment and would turn to Mia the next. I was continuously 100)consoling her but I knew words would do no good. I never felt so much helpless in my life and I hated all this helplessness. I don't want to go through all that misery again by stating the pains waged on Mia. All I can tell you is that this dreadful journey had a terrible ending. I couldn't become a father and Mia, after hanging in balance between life and death, was deprived of ever becoming a mother again.
I entered the hospital room that was mourning the death of my dreams. Mia looked at me and tears sneaked through her eyes. In a torn voice, she started apologizing to me.
"I am sorry dear, you can't be a father?
I put my fingers on her lips.
"No, don't say sorry. Its stupid. Rather I should thank you."
"Why?" her eyes asked. "Because you have come back."
A soft smile appeared in her eyes. She wanted to say something but I stopped her. And then I kept on combing her hair with my fingers until she went to sleep.
If this system was some person, I would have killed it by now. It tortured me, refrained me from living a life of my own, but I never cared because I don't care about myself much. I don't care who does what to me. But Mia, these people harmed Mia and I care about her. I care about her more than anything in this world. I forgot every injustice ever done to me but I could never forgive the tyranny inflicted upon Mia.
That's where I revolted against this red system. After taking the first step of revolt, I felt that numerous people were waiting for that first step. I only remained alone till the first step and then I was 101)thronged with myself, the common man. We 102)ejected the fear out of people's hearts. The 103)lava of emotions was given way and it melted that system to ashes. The country that had stretched the largest darkness on earth had lost its spell. The people living under the red sun found freedom; a freedom of their own.
The red sun had set.
During this revolution I couldn't pay much attention to Mia. I had to hide in different places to avoid KGB. When I would go home with a break of few days, I found Mia waiting for me as if she knew the time of my coming home. She had become very weak. There were dark shades around her eyes. Her cheeks started losing their freshness. Bones started to peep through her round wrists. The shine in her eyes seemed to have gone quite some distance. And her smile was left on her lips only as a job. In spite of all this, she was still my Mia.
Once, when I came home after some days, I found a completely different Mia. A sad Mia. I could never see her sad.
"Mia, what's wrong? Are you in trouble?"
"No, I am ok." "Then why you look so sad, so withered?"
"No, you are mistaken. I am just tired, nothing else."
"Are you happy?"
"Yes."
"Then why don't you look happy?"
"I am happy, how else should I look?"
"No, I don't see that joy on your face. I want to see your face full of life and happiness."
"I am happy", she said tiredly. But I couldn't leave her like this. "Tell me, what should I do to bring those smiles back again, to make your soul happy."
"You really want me to tell you?"
"Yes, tell me. I'll bring whatever you want."
"No, I don't desire a 104)purchasable thing. All I want is, I want to stand right in front of you so close that we feel our breaths hitting our faces, our hearts listen to each other's beats, our eyes play together, your whispers vibrate my body, and I, taking your hands into mine, 105)thrusting our fingers together, taking a deep breath, would scream so loud that all the tiredness inside me, all the sadness vanishes in the air."
I knew the answer to her wish but I couldn't say what I should have.
"Mia, I understand your pain but I have 106)obligations. I have to be careful. The path that I have opted for, either leads to freedom or death. But believe me, we will be free soon. We will through this blood-polluted system out of our lives for ever and then good times will come."
I took off again to my destination. I knew after that incident Mia was very upset but I was doing all this for her, wasn't I?
When the red sun was set, a bright new sun rose at us with a shining light. Its sunlight wasn't red. It didn't pinch. It shone to give us relief and warmth. But with the passage of time this sun also started throwing its hot spears at us. Its light only proved to be a "sparkling darkness", which attracted us but failed to comfort us.
This system wasn't flawless either. The government of the people couldn't do good to the people itself. There might have been a change of system, but for us, the common men, it only brought "another government". Too much freedom didn't bring us too much prosperity. It became more and more difficult to make both ends meet. I lost my job and I would wander like a dog in search of work. Mia got sick because of 107)malnutrition. I would come home late in the night and would get out early in the morning. We were running our lives somehow. There wasn't much of a conversation between Mia and I. Perhaps there wasn't anything left to talk about.
And then in such compellingly disappointing conditions I found Tina. Even under these conditions she was full of life, breathing with all the energy. She wasn't very beautiful but she was definitely very attractive. So it was natural for me to take interest in her but what surprised me was that she attracted to me as well. I met her with reference of finding a job. She gave me the job and her company. I don't know why, even though she was married.
This job was better. I was being paid well. She would take me to places every day, for cinema, coffee or sometimes for nothing. Her husband worked in another city. It was her second marriage. She got divorced by her first husband; or she divorced him would be even more correct. She didn't recall her present husband in good words either. Quite often she would reveal upon me the dark sides of her husband's personality and I just listened silently. In the mean time, Mia kept on getting farther and farther away from me. She never asked me where I would stay all night, where I work all day, where I got the money from. She kept on doing house chores, quietly. May be her words were out of stock or may be she forgot how to talk. But I couldn't feel all this. And even if I did, I suppressed the very thought of it in the graveyard of my heart where my love was sleeping. I was too busy spending the time with my boss.
With the passage of time, Tina's conversations turned into passionate whispers. And I kept on drowning into the sea of her talking lips. I never tried to swim, resist or take control of myself. I left all of me on the waves of emotional mistakes, no matter where they take me. And today, she is ready to swim me away. She is sitting very close to me. She tries to touch my hand with hers but I hesitate and put my hand in my lap.
"Give me your hand, I want to mix it with mine."
I lost my strength for a moment, but then the very next moment a 108)well-acquainted voice resounded from the 109)unfathomable 110)vacant of my heart. Mia's voice. She asked me for such a favor once, but how innocently, not so professionally like her. Mia asked it for the comfort of her soul and her heart Should I sacrifice Mia's 111)sincerity over Tina's 112)outwardly attraction? Should I forget all those innumerable moments spent with Mia for the sake of temporary pleasure? Should I betray Mia's blind folded trust for a selfish wish of mine? No. Never.
I am running towards my home. On a 113)distorted road, my feet are getting 114)shaky but not my heart. I have nothing to give to Mia. My pockets are almost empty. But my heart is filled with love. I will give Mia the pleasure. A pleasure that would reflect on her face. I will get her back her long lost shining eyes, her smiles, her vigor, her innocence, her childish mischief, everything.
I enter the house. Mia is busy washing clothes. I grab her from her shoulders and make her stand right in front of me so close that we feel our breaths hitting our faces, our hearts listen to each other's beats, or eyes play with together, and I, taking her hands into mine, thrust our fingers together.
At this moment with a loud scream, our entire tiredness and our sadness has vanished into the air.
[英语散文]-美丽人生
There were a sensitivity and a beauty to her that have nothing to do with looks. She was one to be listened to, whose words were so easy to take to heart.
It is said that the true nature of being is veiled. The labor of words, the expression of art, the seemingly ceaseless buzz that is human thought all have in common the need to get at what really is so. The hope to draw close to and possess the truth of being can be a feverish one. In some cases it can even be fatal, if pleasure is one's truth and its attainment more important than life itself. In other lives, though, the search for what is truthful gives life.
I used to find notes left in the collection basket, beautiful notes about my homilies and about the writer's thoughts on the daily scriptural readings. The person who penned the notes would add reflections to my thoughts and would always include some quotes from poets and mystics he or she had read and remembered and loved. The notes fascinated me. Here was someone immersed in a search for truth and beauty. Words had been treasured, words that were beautiful. And I felt as if the words somehow delighted in being discovered, for they were obviously very generous to the as yet anonymous writer of the notes. And now this person was in turn learning the secret of sharing them. Beauty so shines when given away. The only truth that exists is, in that sense, free.
It was a long time before I met the author of the notes.
One Sunday morning, I was told that someone was waiting for me in the office. The young person who answered the rectory door said that it was "the woman who said she left all the notes." When I saw her I was shocked, since I immediately recognized her from church but had no idea that it was she who wrote the notes. She was sitting in a chair in the office with her hands folded in her lap. Her head was bowed and when she raised it to look at me, she could barely smile without pain. Her face was disfigured, and the skin so tight from surgical procedures that smiling or laughing was very difficult for her. She had suffered terribly from treatment to remove the growths that had so marred her face.
We chatted for a while that Sunday morning and agreed to meet for lunch later that week.
As it turned out we went to lunch several times, and she always wore a hat during the meal. I think that treatments of some sort had caused a lot of her hair to fall out. We shared things about our lives. I told her about my schooling and growing up. She told me that she had worked for years for an insurance company. She never mentioned family, and I did not ask.
We spoke of authors we both had read, and it was easy to tell that books are a great love of hers.
I have thought about her often over the years and how she struggled in a society that places an incredible premium on looks, class, wealth and all the other fineries of life. She suffered from a disfigurement that cannot be made to look attractive. I know that her condition hurt her deeply.
Would her life have been different had she been pretty? Chances are it would have. And yet there were a sensitivity and a beauty to her that had nothing to do with looks. She was one to be listened to, whose words were so easy to take to heart. Her words came from a wounded but loving heart, very much like all hearts, but she had more of a need to be aware of it, to live with it and learn from it. She possessed a fine-tuned sense of beauty. Her only fear in life was the loss of a friend.
How long does it take most of us to reach that level of human growth, if we ever get there? We get so consumed and diminished, worrying about all the things that need improving, we can easily forget to cherish those things that last. Friendship, so rare and so good, just needs our care--maybe even the simple gesture of writing a little note now and then, or the dropping of some beautiful words in a basket, in the hope that such beauty will be shared and taken to heart.
The truth of her life was a desire to see beyond the surface for a glimpse of what it is that matters. She found beauty and grace and they befriended her, and showed her what is real.
美丽人生
她有着一种与外表无关的灵气和美丽。她的话语轻而易举地征服了人心，她正是我们要聆听的声音。
很多人都说人生的真谛是个未知的概念。言词的费力诠释、艺术的着力表现还有人类那似乎永无休止的纷繁思考，三者都苦苦追寻人生的真谛。希望走近以至完全把握存在的真意可以令人十分狂热。有时候，有些人以自己笃信的真理为志趣，追寻真理甚于保全生命，于是就有舍生取义之举。然而，也有另外的一种人生，他们在寻求真谛的过程中灌溉生命。
过去，我常常在教堂的心意篮里面发现一些优美的小短文，有些是关于我的布道，有些是作者日常读《圣经》的感想。写这些短文的人不仅对我的一些观点加以反思，同时还会引用一些他/她曾经读过的，令他/她难忘又喜爱的诗人或者神秘主义者的话。我给这些短文迷住了。我看到了一个执着于追寻真与美的人。其珍而重之的字句，优美动人。我还感觉到好像那些字句也乐于让我们发现，它们是那么毫无保留地，慷慨地为这无名氏作者借用，而现在轮到这位无名氏来学习与人分享这些美文的奥秘。分享令美愈加闪耀生辉，在这个意义上说，其实世上唯一的真理是分毫不费的。
过了很久我才见到这些短文的作者。
一个星期天早上，我被告知有人正在办公室等我。帮我应门的年轻人说“是个女人，说留言是她放的。”看见她的时候我大吃一惊，因为我马上就认出她是我的教区信徒，只是我一直不知道那些短文是她写的。她坐在办公室的一张椅子上，两手相扣搁在大腿上，低垂着头。在抬头看我的时候，她微笑起来却十分费劲。那是一张破了相的脸，外科手术使她的脸皮绷得紧紧的，笑对她来说也是很困难的。为了去除脸上碍眼的肉瘤她接受了手术治疗，这令她吃尽苦头。
那个星期天早上我们聊了一会儿，并决定那个星期再找个时间一起吃顿午饭。
后来我们不止吃了一顿午饭，而是好几顿。每次一起吃饭的时候她都戴着帽子。我想可能是她接受的某种治疗使她掉了不少头发。我们分享了各自生活中的点点滴滴。我跟她讲我读书和成长的故事。她告诉我她在一家保险公司里已经工作多年了。她从来没有提过自己的家庭，我也没有问。
我们还谈到大家都读过的作家作品，不难发现她非常喜欢看书。
这些年我经常想起她，在这个以外表、地位和财富等虚名浮利挂帅的社会中她是怎样一路挺过来的呢？毁掉的容颜使她怎么也无法变得耀眼迷人。我知道这深深地刺痛着她。
如果她长得漂亮，她的生命轨迹会不会有所不同呢？有可能。不过她有种独特的灵气和美，与外表完全无关。她的话轻而易举地征服了人心，她正是我们要聆听的声音。她的隽语出于一颗受过伤却充满爱的心，就像所有人的心一样，只不过她比别人更注重对自己心灵的关注、用心去体会生活并从中学习。她拥有一种细腻的美感。她生命里唯一的恐惧就是失去朋友。
我们究竟要花多长时间才能达到如此高度的成熟？能否最终达到还是个未知数呢。我们老觉得身心疲惫，怀才不遇，只顾为眼前的不足忧心忡忡，却忘了珍视一些历久常新的东西。友谊珍贵而美好，只需我们用心呵护，有时候简简单单的表示就已经足够了，譬如偶尔写几句话给朋友，或者在篮子里投入一些优美动人的字条，以期大家都能分享，记住美妙的时刻、美好的感觉。
她生命的真谛就是要透过事物的表面一睹其真正的本质。她发现了美和上帝的慈爱，而美和慈爱也待她如友，把生命的真谛呈现给她。
(视听英语)它们是直接从美国带来的（笑话）
They are directly from America
它们是直接从美国带来的
Not long after an old Chinese woman came back to China from her visit to her daughter in the States, she went to a city bank to deposit the US dollars her daughter gave her. At the bank counter, the clerk checked each note carefully to see if the money was real. It made the old lady out of patience. At last she could not hold any more, uttering. "Trust me, Sir, and trust the money. They are real US dollars. They are directly from America."
一位中国老太太去美国看望女儿回来不久，到一家市银行存女儿给她的美元。在银行柜台，银行职员认真检查了每一张钞票，看是否有假。 这种做法让老妇人很不耐烦，最后她实在忍不住说：“相信我，先生，也请你相信这些钞票。这些都是真正的美元，它们都是直接从美国带来的。”
十二星座本周运势 06或06或05 {{云深之家}}
teresa1981，谢谢你上次第一个来支持我！鞠个躬先
江上余者，你狠的！！！！！
不停地顶啊，顶啊！你这么顶法，我还非发不可了。唉！当楼主当到这个份上,还真是可怜呢
Baby_Bear，我这里以前立的规矩是有20个回帖，下周就再发。
废话少说，开张了！
ARIES (Mar. 21- April 20)
You are best to work at home if you can. You should sit down with someone you trust and work out a budget that will enable you to save a little extra. Don't let your personal dilemmas interfere with your goals. Now is a good time to ask for favors. Your lucky day this week will be Monday.
白羊：尽可能在家工作；合理地安排预算，可以为你节省不少花销；处理问题不要犹豫不决，以免影响目标的完成。这周还是询求帮助的最好时机。幸运日是星期一。
TAURUS (Apr. 21 - May 21)
You may find yourself in the midst of a pretty good deal. Organize your day well if you wish to accomplish all you set out to do. Entertainment should include sports events or physical activities. Attend trade shows that will allow you to look at new products. Your lucky day this week will be Friday.
金牛：一顿丰盛可口的晚餐正等着你去享用。要想完成计定的目标，一定要提前做好组织工作。体育运动和身体锻炼会是不错的休闲方式。你还可以参加商品发布会，了解最新产品的动向。幸运日是星期五。
GEMINI (May 22 - June 21)
Disharmony in your relationship may cause minor ailments. Do not get involved in joint financial ventures. Your disciplined attention to jobs will enhance your position. Don't be afraid to pursue unfamiliar grounds. Your lucky day this week will be Tuesday.
双子：家庭关系不和协可能会引起些小麻烦。避免涉足合伙性质的金融行业；工作上的严格自律有利于稳固已有的位置。幸运日是星期二。
CANCER (June 22 - July 22)
Career changes may not be your choice right now, but in the long run they will be to your advantage. Be prepared to overcome frustrations and obstacles at work. Curb the impulse to make lavish purchases and maybe spend some time with good friends. Family get-togethers will be interesting. Your lucky day this week will be Tuesday.
巨蟹：跳槽不是你目前的最好选择，不过从长远来看，它势必对你有利；做好准备，迎接工作中的困难和挑战；同时注意抑制自己的购物欲望，以免过度浪费；可以多花些时间和朋友在一起，多搞搞家庭聚会也是很有意思的事哦。幸运日是星期二。
LEO (July 23 - Aug. 22)
Try not to use emotional blackmail; it will only make matters worse. You will be relentless when it comes to getting yourself back into shape. Stress coupled with diet will add to stomach problems. Enjoy a quiet dinner for two and discuss some of the plans you have for the future. Your lucky day this week will be Friday.
狮子：违心的情感只会让事情变得更糟；压力过大，加上饮食不当会加重你的胃病。一边和爱人静静地享用晚餐，一边商讨未来的计划会让你感觉是很享受的事。幸运日是星期五。
VIRGO (Aug. 23 - Sept. 23)
Money problems will get worse if your partner hasn't been playing by the rules. Take time to catch up on overdue correspondence. You may have the opportunity to get involved in some interesting conversations. Your ideas will be well received. Your lucky day this week will be Tuesday.
处女：如果你的合伙人不按规矩办事，财务问题只会雪上加霜；花时间来处理逾期的信函也是必要的。有机会参与一些有趣的谈话，你的意见很有可能因此而被采纳。幸运日是星期二。
LIBRA (Sept. 24 - Oct. 23)
You can develop your creative talents if you take the time to practice your art. You need to be active and spend time with friends you enjoy. Your dynamic, determined approach will win favors as well as a helping hand. Your lover may not understand your needs so you must figure out a way to communicate them. Your lucky day this week will be Saturday.
天秤：倘若肯下工夫，你的艺术天赋将会被进一步挖掘。多和朋友在一起，开朗、坚定的你会赢得他们的支持和帮助。找出和爱人沟通的最好方式以便得到他的理解。幸运日是星期六。
SCORPIO (Oct. 24 - Nov. 22)
You can accomplish a lot if you direct your thoughts toward starting your own small business on the side. Keep your mind on your work and stay away from situations that could ruin your reputation. Your persuasive nature will win the heart of someone you've had your eye on. Be sure that you have all the facts before you take action. Your lucky day this week will be Friday.
天蝎：自己的小营生里只要很好地体现了你的想法，就已经成功了一半。把精力放在工作上，而不是那些只会破坏你声誉的事上。凭借三寸不烂之舌，很容易就能虏走芳心。切记三思而后行。幸运日是星期五。
SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23 - Dec. 21)
Don't count your chickens before they hatch. Relatives may not be telling you the whole truth about a family situation. Don't put your professional reputation on the line. You should channel your efforts into getting rid of bad habits.Your lucky day this week will be Friday.
射手：一切事情不要想当然。切莫拿自己的好名声开玩笑，想尽一切办法改掉坏习惯。幸运日是星期五。
CAPRICORN (Dec. 22 - Jan. 20)
An older member of the family may need assistance. Be careful when dealing with female members of your family. Don't get intimately involved with a coworker. Help elders get their personal papers in order. Your lucky day this week will be Wednesday.
摩羯：家里的某个长辈可能需要帮忙。在处理和女性家庭成员的关系上，要谨慎小心，另外，不要和同事走得太近。幸运日是星期三。
AQUARIUS (Jan. 21 - Feb. 19)
Underhandedness regarding legal matters or contracts must be counteracted. Difficulties with your mate may lead to estrangement. Use your energy wisely. You can pick up some overtime this week. Your lucky day this week will be Tuesday.
水瓶：官司或是合同纠纷问题一定可以迎刃而解；而与爱人的关系则因某些问题变得疏远。此外，这周还要经常加班哦！幸运日是星期二。
PISCES (Feb. 20 - Mar. 20)
You may want to take a serious look at your goals and objectives. Don't let your health suffer because of worry. Talk to someone you trust. Make sure to arrange in advance to spend quality time together. Older family members may try to make demands that are impossible for you to handle. Your lucky day this week will be Wednesday.
双鱼：想认真考虑一下自己的目标和计划，即便如此，也不要因过度操心而影响了健康哦！找值得依赖的朋友多聊聊，确保提前做好充分准备。对长辈提出的一些要求，你却无能为力。幸运日是星期三。
开学给孩子的一封信作文1
亲爱的女儿：
新年已过，你又将背上小书包，去往幼儿园。
转眼间，你已经和你的31个小伙伴在幼儿园里度过了半年的时光。在这半年里，你完成了从婴儿到幼儿的转变，身高也悄悄地从105公分长到了110公分，这种生命的拔节给我们带来了许多甜蜜的烦恼。
你的衣橱越来越大，你的鞋子越来越多，你的绘本已经占满了家里的小半个书柜，你的嘴巴里不停地吐露出对于这个世界的观望和理解，已经成为了一个“话唠”……
集体生活使你迅速建立起了规则意识和基本的公德意识，这也往往成为你评判社会现象的小小的标尺，你用故作老成的语言描述出了你理想中的世界的模样，并且竭力地让我们遵循，这让我们欣慰并惭愧。
我们当然希望你在长大以后，能够坚持这些纯真的操守，如果它们让你感受到这个世界的美好。如果你偶尔不得不屈从于某些不可承受之重，也希望你能够心安，毕竟，那就是生活。
你现在已经4岁了，已经能够用简单的线条和流畅的语言表达对每一份关爱的感谢和对这个用浓烈善意拥抱你的世界的向往。我们希望你能够明白：每一份关爱都需要你在将来的时光里用心去呵护，而世界的善意来源于纯粹的内心。
生命真是一个美好而奇妙的过程。我还记得你从产房出来，瞪着我看，把我吓一跳的样子。我们时常翻出你小时候的照片，一家人看得哈哈大笑。
前两天，你问：“爸爸，你头上有白头发了，你老了吗？”在那一瞬间，我突然发现，我们与你一直靠得很近，时间仿佛凝固，蓦然回首，却已经走过了很远。
新的一年已然来到，我们将再一次出发，终有一天你会独自离开，去更远的地方追寻自己的梦想。
我的心情很复杂，我希望你快快长大，去体会人世间的喜怒哀乐，寻找你生命的意义；可我又怕时间匆匆，一转眼，你又再也不是孩童时那可爱又刁蛮的模样。
这个庞大的世界正缓缓向你拉开大幕，无数属于你的故事即将发生，它们正在路上向你奔涌而来，它们正从你那间幼儿园里悄然发生，它们将成为你和我们永恒的那一刻。
这个世界有那么多的善和那么多的恶，生活如此美好又如此让人无力。它们都汇涌进了这个自然的法则循环，需要我们携手并肩走完。
可是，孩子啊，如果你一天，你能够真正读懂这封信的意义，我们多么希望你能够在这字里行间看到生命的延续和道义的薪火相传；多么期盼你能够选择自己的人生方向，并且能够遵从内心的声音，不要吝惜付出汗水和智慧，却也不求闻达于诸侯；多么祈愿你今生今世，不卑不亢，不急不躁，不痴不怨，不恨不憎。
爱，沉静如海，却自有万钧之力。希望你在这个世间岁月静好，现世安稳。
期待着你的爸爸
某年某月某日
开学给孩子的一封信作文2
亲爱的女儿：
除夕，你穿着绣着牡丹的红色棉旗袍，那样的亭亭玉立，让我不得不承认，10岁的你真的已经出落成一个大姑娘了。
虽然你还是会问我“为什么”，但问题却已经从“为什么波斯猫的眼睛一只蓝一只绿”变成了“为什么我一定要按照你说的去做”。
我也渐渐地意识到，你已经不再是那个对妈妈的话言听计从的小屁孩儿了，你开始有自己独立的观点和思想。
很多事情，你已经能凭借自己的能力去解决，完全不再像刚读一年级时，连收拾书包都需要妈妈的帮忙。你甚至都有了自己的小团队，可以靠和朋友们互相帮助来应付日常学习、生活中遇到的小麻烦。
现在，很多事情你都是处理完之后才告诉我。说实话，对于你的这些变化，妈妈是既欣喜，又有些许失落。欣喜的是你这样顺利地成长着，失落的是自己不再像从前那样被你需要了。
令我感慨的，还有我们之间关系的微妙变化。这半年来，用爸爸的话来讲，我们俩简直就像鸡和蜈蚣一般，时不时就斗气。仔细想来，其实也是都为些鸡毛蒜皮的小事。
你想边吃饭边看电视，我却认为那样浪费时间还影响消化；语文老师布置的摘抄作业有弹性，要求摘抄30到50个句子，你认为抄30个就够了，我却认为时间充足一定要抄50个才算认真完成；每天的练习乐器的遍数和时间长短更让我们争吵频繁……
尽管如此，每次吵完，过不了五分钟，你就会跑来抱着我。我问你为什么不再计较了，你笑笑回答“你是我妈呀。”这个时候，我总忍不住亲亲你的额头，说“宝贝，我们以后不吵了。”
可是第二天，总又会冒出个什么由头来让我们吵得水火不容。这个时候，我常常无力地想，也许这就是更年期遇上青春期的常态吧。
可是，宝贝，你知道吗？其实，那些争吵的背后，都是妈妈的不放心。妈妈怕你吃不好，怕你睡不好，怕你生病，怕你吃亏、受委屈，怕你没养成好习惯将来会吃苦头……
从你一生下来，我就恨不得把你以后要走的路都铺平，让你永远走得稳稳当当，一跤都不要摔。但是，我也知道，那是不可能的。所以，我才那么的不放心，常常对你那么的唠叨。
而我现在，则深深地意识到，我的这些不放心，在你看来，却恰恰是对你成长的阻碍。所以，从现在起，我要学着放手，学着更加信任你，让你更自由地成长。
想想今年，在位六十四年的英国女王都要退位了，妈妈有什么理由还非把你当个风筝一样扯着线控制着呢，是不是？
就要开学了，这次，妈妈决定不再盯着你做这做那了。老师的寒假作业要求，我已经写在一张纸上放在你的书桌上了，你可以自己对照，查漏补缺。
书包、文具你一定可以自己整理好。上个学期老师给你的期末评语中表扬你上课认真听讲，积极发言，还乐于助人，唯一的缺点就是写作业时总是图快，字迹不够工整，希望你在这个学期特别注意这个问题。
为了给你加油，妈妈打算给你买一支新的钢笔，并且刻上你的名字。如果你还有什么需要妈妈帮忙的地方，请一定告诉我。
宝贝，妈妈永远无条件支持你！
爱你的妈妈
某年某月某日
开学给孩子的一封信作文3
亲爱的儿子：
新的一年、新的学期已经开始，首先爸爸祝愿你在新的起点有更大更多的收获。
以书信的形式与你交流，也许你更能平心静气的接受，平时与你沟通时你总显得不耐烦，什么道理都懂，我和你妈妈也曾经试着通过QQ给你留过言，不知你是否意识到我们的良苦用心。
爸爸有些心里话需要与你交流分享，供你成长借鉴。
亲爱的儿子，你是一个相当聪明的孩子，你的记忆力超级好，好得让我难以置信，让我妒嫉。
你很小的时候，就能记住好多英语单词，曾经读中学时的杨丽姐姐见识到你能记那么多单词直夸你厉害，你读小学时，甚至到初一时晚上我也很少看到你看英语书，背英语单词，但是你的英语成绩还是那么的棒，我不知道你有什么法宝能够记住单词，不知道你用什么时间来背单词的，要知道我的记忆力与你简直无法比，我读高中、直到现在都觉得单词太难背，总会前背后忘，即使花了很多功夫也不见效果，这一点你比我强上百倍千倍。
有时和你交流，你总能把看过的电视电影中人物台词搬出来，说实话，有些台词我早已忘记，但你还记得那么清楚，还能灵活应用于平时的交流，你是个记忆力超好，是个了不起的孩子，有了这个优势，你比其它同学的学习更轻松，你的学习负担并不重，你有比其它同学学得更好的基础和理由，在这一点上，你要有信心。
你又是个懂礼貌有孝心的孩子，小时候你就深知“孔融让梨”的典故，直到现在你还能坚持与别人分享自己心爱的东西，你有好吃的东西总能想到奶奶和父母，这一点我和你妈妈都相当的欣慰。
给你写信，我想到了是前苏联著名作家高尔基写给他儿子的一封信，题目是《“给”———永远比“拿”愉快》，高尔基也是通过书信的形式告诉儿子付出比获得更令人愉快，只有真心的付出才会得到他人的肯定，才能感受到真正的幸福。
你的孝心，你的礼貌，赢得了家人和朋友们的肯定，我相信这一点你是有体会的，也相信你一定能够做个真实的，有教养的大写的男子汉。
亲爱的儿子，你的优点还有很多，比如你比较听老师的话，你能够自觉完成作业不让家长操心，你的笛子和萨克斯吹得很棒，等等。
但随着你的长大，我对你的要求不能再如以前那样低了，有些道理需要你认真的品味并积极行动。还记得我给你推荐的《小故事大道理》这本书吗？书中的故事有很深的智慧和人生哲理，你需要用心去读，而不是用眼睛去看。今天我只想和你探讨一个道理，希望你能够明白。
《想到做到》是美国的斯科特·贝尔斯基写的一本励志书籍，我看过以后颇受启发，如果我推荐你读这本书的话，相信你是不愿意的，因为书中没有喜洋洋那样充满童趣幽默的言语，没有科幻小说中引人入胜的灵异虚幻情节，有的只是富有哲理的理论和成功者的实践经验。
“想到做到”这几个字相信你能够理解其含义，“如果创意不能付诸实施就毫无价值”是这本书要表达的最直接的意思，我也相信你能理解我用这个标题给你写信的原因了吧。
亲爱的儿子，你有那么多的优点是不争的事实，但在行动的主动性和坚韧性方面是不够的，或者说在做事的自觉性和持久性方面做得还不够好。
尽管你懂得学习的重要，尽管你知道笛子和萨克斯要经常的练习吹奏，你也清楚自己需要加强体育锻炼，你更了解电视看得太久会给你带来危害等等，但在实际行动上，你往往摆脱不了娱乐对你的吸引，忽视了你当前最重要的学习任务，有时还要妈妈督促你完成任务，甚至生气了你才开始行动起来，也就是你明明知道要做什么，想到了却没有积极行动起来。
但凡成功者，成功的密绝无非就是实践，除了立即行动以外没有任捷径可走，高尔基说：“一个人可以做到他想做的一切，需要的只是坚毅不拔的毅力和持久不懈的努力。”
记得你第一次学笛子时不也没有吹响吗，坚持下来，克服学习的障碍后你就会发现吹笛子其实并不难，这在心理学上叫高原反应，也就是说做任何事总会遇到一个阶段是特别的困难，挺过了困难接下来将很轻松。有的人有时候尽管想到了很多，但没有实际行动，最终也将一事无成。
上学期爸爸学校邀请了著名学者成尚荣先生到校为老师们作报告，他讲了一句相当经典饱含哲理的话，“一个人往往是被他所喜欢的娱乐活动打败的”。
比如你喜欢看动漫，喜欢玩游戏一样，如果放任你自由支配时间，你会玩到忘记了作业，忘记了你应该做的更重要的学习任务，你经常因为看动漫而把吃饭和作业一拖再拖，而这都将慢慢地影响你的学习，影响你其它方面的发展。
台湾著名学者李傲说“电视机是制造傻瓜的工具”，他的意思是多看电视对人的智力发展是不利的，最好的是多看书，看书可以让人多思考，让人的脑子更灵活，更有思想。
娱乐放松是需要的，但一定要有个度，想到了自己的任务就一定要立即去做，千万不能因为要娱乐而忽视了主要任务。
海哥是你的偶像和学习上的榜样，我相信海哥肯定相当的聪明，但你不会比他差，至少不会有大的差距。
你也说起好朋友金哲浩的学习很轻松，我相信这是事实，他们的学习不累，原因是他们的学习是主动的，也就是他们完全掌握了所学的内容，学习上没有困难了，所以他们可以学得很轻松，但你千万别忽视一个现实，一旦他们遇到难题，碰到困难时，他们肯定会不顾一切地去解决，直到完全弄懂为止。
刚结束的.寒假你制订了很好的学习计划，你是否认真地去实施了呢？如果你真的按计划的要求去做，相信你的寒假将更充实，也更有利于你的成长，父母也不会来管你的学习和娱乐，一切都将由你自己安排，而实际上你显然做得不够好，对你来讲作业是任务，只要能够完成任务，作业的对错不去考虑，也不去弄懂作业中存在的问题。
其实作业的目的是发现问题，查找不足，举一反三，如果一个阶段你的作业基本保证全对，说明你掌握了学习的主动权，你将发现学习原来可以如此轻松，到那时你与海哥的差距就越来越小了。
有一样一句话，凡事不能为“困难”找理由，要为“能行”想办法，如果你抱着肯定能行的态度去做事，你将收获满满，这种爽利的感觉，会使你觉得生活充实，心情大好，心态更阳光。
想到就要做到，想是前提，需要了解把握自己的不足，今后努力的方向，做是成功的关键和保证。就写这么多，下次有机会再和你交流。
祝进步！
爱你的爸爸
某年某月某日
开学给孩子的一封信作文4
我想我们没有什么惊天动地的话语给你讲，只想透过这样的一种方式，交流一下，并告诉你，人生还很漫长，你将来需要走的路很漫长。
作为家长，我们期望自我的孩子就就是健康快乐的生活：有一个在简单中就能获得幸福的心态，有一个健康茁壮的身体，有一个迈向快乐的方向。
这种心态，在这天，这个物欲横流的时代，在简单中找寻快乐已经不就是一件容易的事情了。
孩子，当你从一个襁褓中的婴儿，逐渐成为了一个少年时，爸爸妈妈原先寄予你的期望也发生了质的变化，你刚出生的时候，我们期望你的将来必须要实现父母未能实现的愿望，甚至一天三变的期望你将来能成为一个科学家、一个高明的医生、一个优秀的教师等等，此刻想来就可笑，这样的盲目无边的理想，纯粹就是家长的一厢情愿，我们忽略了你成长过程的控制与完美，只注重了孩子的结果，而且，把一些不和边际的理想转嫁给了自我的孩子，这本身对于孩子就就是不公平的。
但就是，随着时光的推移，我们对于你的期望值没有改变，还增加了一个前提：就就是要快乐健康的生活。
有一次，去接你回家，无意拿过你的书包，让我大吃一惊，你的书包足足有10多公斤，我想象不出一个瘦弱的你，整天背负着这么沉重的书包上学，你怎样能承担的了？爸爸感到心痛了，回家后给你的妈妈讲了这个事情，妈妈难过的落泪了。
此刻的孩子的确很不宜，他们幼小的心灵就要承受许多来自外界的比较参数：比学习、比进步等等，学习不好，在班级名次较低，自我无地自容，又害怕爸爸妈妈难过，他们在家长的监督下，无奈的参加着这样或者那样的学习班，想提高自我潜力，家长与学校的意图就就是要素质教育，也要体制增强，但就是真的忽略了孩子最真实的教育：那就就是快乐与健康同在！
对于孩子的学习，作为家长，我们更就是心有余而力不足的着急，每一天孩子夜晚的作业要做到10———11点钟，但也倍感无奈。家长迫切的期望自我的孩子学习、学习、再学习，使自我的孩子在班级成为第一名，这才感到欣慰。但就是，我们也忽略了第一仅仅就是一个名次，学以至用才就是最重要的。
作为家长我们开始反思了，我们最初的培养模式也许已经不适合孩子了，也不适合此刻的社会环境了，包括学校的教育体制的改善，也说明素质教育才就是最有人文关怀的教育，那种硬试教育出来的高分低能同样也就是教育悲哀！
孩子，这天看到你的成长，看到你的懂事，看到你的进步，作为家长的我们，感到由衷的欣慰。
孩子，我们对你说，快乐与健康就是我们给予你最好的护身符！祝愿你的前程似锦，祝愿你的人生精彩！
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时间过的好快啊！转眼你已经十八岁了。爸爸和妈妈内心实在不愿意相信这个事实，好多记忆还停留在你的儿童时期。你从小就是一个很皮实的孩子，有个头疼脑热的，从来不哭也不闹，真的很省心。
小时候去幼儿园，都是妈妈接送，所以，从小你就粘着妈妈，走到哪儿都要妈妈牵着你的小手，你就像妈妈养的小宠物，是妈妈的小尾巴。你是妈妈的开心果，给妈妈带来了许多快乐的时光。
小学期间，由于工作原因，妈妈暂时离开了你，你在姥姥和奶奶家辗转读完了小学。这六年来，妈妈对你的教育是个空白，在你进入中学读书之前，妈妈想尽一切办法把你带到自己身边，就是想好好补偿六年来对你欠缺的母爱。然而十三岁的你已经不再是那个整天粘着妈妈的小男孩了，尤其进入青春期之后，你的逆反心理很强，妈妈每次和你生气之后都很后悔，妈妈也知道自己的做法有些欠妥当，但是你能理解一个母亲望子成龙的切切之心吗？
以你的聪明和机智，你完全可以考上一所好一点的高中，可你却勉强上了一所普通中学。还好，这所学校的校风优良，教师的教学水平很高，责任心也很强。在这三年的高中学习生活当中，爸爸和妈妈看着你一点点地成长和进步，内心也很欣慰。你从起初一个自卑、封闭的小男生，长成了一个上通天文、下知地理、侃侃而谈的少年了。
三年来，你获得了许多奖状，还进入了学生会担任职务，这些都是和你的班主任陈老师，还有你个人的努力分不开的。每当你站在我的面前，俯视着我的眼睛和我说话时，我不得不承认，我的儿子，你确实长高长大了。
现在，你已经十八岁了。十八岁，意味着你已经长大成人了；十八岁，意味着你已经是一个有选举权的中国公民了。你就要像小鸟一样，展翅高飞在自己人生的天空了。
你要学会感恩。懂得感恩的人，一定都很感性。理性也没有什么不好，但一个人太理性了，就会变得冷漠和冷酷，一个冷漠和冷酷的人，一定不会快乐的。“受人滴水之恩，当涌泉相报”，感恩父母、感恩社会、感恩老师、感恩亲友，感恩生活当中的所有幸与不幸。每一种经历都是生命的体验，都是社会阅历的积累，都是上苍的给与和厚赠。学会感恩，生活将是另一种色彩。
儿子，你曾对人生的意义感到迷茫和困惑，现在爸爸和妈妈想告诉你：愉快地做自己想做的事情，并对社会、对他人有所帮助，就是有意义的人生，期待你的精彩！
最后，爸爸和妈妈想对你说：亲爱的儿子，你一直都是一个真诚、善良、孝顺、乖巧、懂事、聪明的好孩子，你是爸爸和妈妈心中的骄傲，爸爸和妈妈永远爱你！
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亲爱的宝贝：
千言万语也表达不了妈妈对你的爱，妈妈从来没写过情书，这就当是妈妈的第一封情书吧。
十八年前，你的煽煽来迟，打破了我们平静的二人世界。记得那一天清晨，外面风雨交加，电闪雷鸣。我在产房里拼命地挣扎，一群刚出生的小婴儿在边上的房间里宣告着他们的到来，哇哇的哭声就像是河里的青蛙，此起彼伏。也给了妈妈带来了要急于见到你的信心。你爸爸在外面与蚊虫为伴守候了一夜。那时还在妈妈肚子中的你就很乖巧，知道心疼人，没让我们等多久，没让我们受太多的苦难。
刚出生的你，胖胖的，足足的八斤重呢。圆圆的脑袋，找不到眼睛，只有两条缝儿在眉毛下方。护士推着婴儿车来让妈妈们喂奶，不用看你小手腕上的牌牌，哪个最胖哪个就是我的宝贝女儿了。你的到来，给我们的三口之家，平添了许多趣事，也的确让我们手忙脚乱了一番。那时候，爸爸去上班，妈妈一个在家里，把你抱在怀里，左看右看不知道怎么爱才好，妈妈干过的蠢事，早已向你坦白，在这里你就饶了我，别让我再说了吧。
在你很小的时候，就爱看书学习、听故事。还记得那本塑料的书吗，只有几页，那书不怕撕，不怕水。任凭小小的你撕来撕去。你小的时候，模仿能力极强，学什么像什么，妈妈好悔，没在这方面培养你，也没留下任何的影像资料。还有，你在一年级的时候，一次放学回家，兴冲冲地告诉我说：老师挑上你，让你学长笛了。当时妈妈真是难啊，乐器哪是咱们这样的家庭学得起的呀？
囊中羞涩的我，真的拿不出那么多钱来，让你学乐器。还好，在你三年级的时候，家里条件稍微好一点的时候，妈妈还是弥补了当初的遗憾。为了少犯类似的错误，以后只要是你想学的，或者是妈妈认为应该学的，我都极力支持你，尽管妈妈依然不富裕。
要说的话太多太多，岂是这张稿纸能容得下的。值得庆幸的是，我们是朋友，我们有很多知心话可以说，这也是你的同学羡慕不已的事情。记得我跟你说过吗，不管你发生了什么事，妈妈永远站陪伴着你，给你力量，妈妈永远是你的坚强后盾。你失落的时候，妈妈与你分担，你高兴的时候，妈妈与你分享。就是天塌下来了，有妈妈跟你一起扛。
面对眼前的高考，你的努力让妈妈欣慰，妈妈相信你一定会尽最大的努力完成人生的这次重大考验，不管结果如何，过程是美丽的，做到无悔则已。无论如何，在妈妈眼里，你永远是最棒的，你永远是妈妈的最爱，永远是妈妈的好宝贝，永远是妈妈的骄傲。妈妈相信你，宝贝，加油！
爱你的爸爸和妈妈
某年某月某日
开学给孩子的一封信作文7
你好！今天小阿姨代表妈妈给你写这封信，希望你能将此信珍藏，因为这是你人生路上难得一次经历。
从你出生到现在阿姨见证了你成长的过程，这过程可谓是辛苦和坚难。你是个早产儿，你妈妈一个抚养你长大，倾注了妈妈的全部心血，我们是那么的希望你能成为一个健康、快乐的人。你从小是一个既聪明又懂事的好孩子，活泼、肯学、又爱劳动，你继承了你父母的优点。原本你有一个幸福的家，但小学一年级时，无情地车祸让你失去了父亲，从小就没有感受过多少地父爱，妈妈含辛茹苦地把培养成现在这个样子，你也应该争气了。小学三年级就一个人到千荷学校读书，那时妈妈是多么无可奈何，妈妈身体不好，只能这样了。到现在为止，你在千荷的那一年成了家人所有人最难过的回忆，都觉得对不起你，让你一个人这么小就独立生活和学习，但你还是很坚强，这也是让家人感到自豪地。四年级开始你姨父把你转学到舟嵊，你变得更加懂事，学习也有了进步，妈妈一直把希望都寄托在你的身上。辛苦地三年初中生活，你也知道妈妈是怎么过来地，现在你如愿升上了舟山中学，妈妈感到欣慰又感到压力实在太大，原因是什么你应该都是明白地，你为了不让妈妈多花钱，想到定海一中去学习，但你妈妈还尽了她最大地努力，让你读最好的学校，也为了让你以后能有更好生活。
孩子，阿姨不应该对你讲这些让你伤心难过的事，但是也应该让你更加去理解你妈妈的心和所有亲戚长辈的心。一个人不能选择父母也不能选择家庭，但要改变自己的命运，都是靠你自己去珍惜和把握的，这把命运之锁掌握在你自己的手中。所以，你现在已是高中生，要学会如何做人，如何做一个有责任的人？这才是关键啊！虽然你现在的主要任务是学习，而且学习任务更重，但你妈妈也希望你在学习过程中要更加珍惜这来之不易地一切机会，在校要尊重师长，在家要多体谅妈妈辛苦。虽然你生活在一个物质生活并不优越的家庭，而且感觉负担很重，但是你的身边有很多人都在关心着你，也包括这个社会。所以我们希望你很放下自卑感，挺直腰杆，自信地去学习、健康地去生活，家里的所有人都相信你以后一定会成一个对社会有用的人。
最后小阿姨代表你妈妈送你几句话：“人生重要的不是所站的位置，而是所朝的方向。父母能给你生命，但不能给你生活，能教你如何做人，但不能为你所有的行为负责，能教你如何尊重他人，但不能保证你一定受人尊重，能告诉你如何分辨是非，但不能为你做出选择，能尽自己最大的努力给你美好的东西，但不能给你前程和事业。”
孩子，自信、自爱、自强地去开始你未来的旅程吧！
开学给孩子的一封信作文8
亲爱的孩子：
你今年已经十三岁了，已经成为一名光荣的八一的中学的学生，作为父母，我们为你骄傲，为你自豪！
你知道吗？当你呱呱坠地时带给父母无尽欢乐，这是用任何语言都无法表述的心境，只有当你长大成为了你孩子的父母，你才能深刻地体会到你父母的心情。你的到来带给了我们无限的期望和幸福。谢谢你，孩子！是你，让我们懂得爱、懂得宽容、更懂得付出与生命的精彩！
孩子们，我想对你们说：在父母的身边吃些苦，都不算苦，当长大后离开父母的那一刻，竟发现自己尚无独立生存的能力，那时所要面临的才是真正的苦！因此，趁着还在父母温暖的双翼下，趁着还在老师们关切的教导下，趁着还在汲取各方面阳光雨露的当下，应该珍惜、应该努力、应该勇往直前！
孩子们，我坚信，全天下所有的父母都和我一样，对你们有着一份宁弃山河独拥你的珍爱，每一个温暖的眼神和每一次深切的嘱咐，都满含着一颗最温馨和渴盼的心。聪明的你们，怎愿意装作无知；懂事的你们，怎舍得让我们失望！
每个人的一生，都将是多姿多彩的，会有苦、有乐，但要永远记住：乐了，不能得意忘形；苦了，更要坚强面对！人生路上没有捷径，每一步，都要自己踏踏实实地去走。
希望你们自信地迈出走向美丽人生的坚实脚步！对未来充满美好的梦想，并付诸于实际行动去实现自己的梦想。
希望你们勇于担当。担当学业的艰辛、担当生活的琐事、担当作为一名家庭成员、一名上宝学生以及一名社会公民应尽的责任及义务。
希望你们懂得感恩。如今良好的物质生活条件离不开前几代人的创造，要珍惜并使之延伸；长辈们的嘱咐和叮咛是他们寄予的无尽希望，要尊重、领悟并顺其发展。你们要常怀一颗感恩之心，常蕴一份感恩之情，常做一名懂得感恩的好少年！
希望你们能与自己的父母保持心灵的互通。小时候，你们经常会用稚嫩的话语，与爸爸妈妈分享喜怒哀乐。长大了，虽然学习更忙、更艰辛，如能利用闲暇时刻，一起与父母表述观点、畅谈理想，是多么幸福和快乐的事情，我们非常珍惜这样的分分秒秒！因为无论何时，父母都愿与你们同乐，无论何地，我们更乐意为你们分担烦忧。
孩子们，你们是父母生命的天空中一道斑斓的彩虹，你们在描绘着的色彩即是爸爸妈妈心中的色彩，当你们树立起远大的目标和理想，并坚持从生活中的点滴做起，厚积而薄发，那么属于你们的未来一定会无比精彩。
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开学给孩子的一封信作文9
时间过得真快啊，妈妈记忆中那个剃着个小寸头，别人都以为是个帅小子的可爱娃转眼快9岁了，并且已是名三年级的小学生了。
随着时间的推移，看着孩子你一天天的长大，做父母的心中原本因该充满了欢欣与喜悦，可是妈妈心中的忧愁与烦恼却与日俱增，因为妈妈原本是一个对生活充满激情对工作兢兢业业的人，可是为了这个家和你，我已经8年没出去工作了，8年的时间让妈妈已经脱离了社会，远离了朋友，蜕变成一个两耳不闻窗外事的实实在在黄脸妈了。
每天早上6：30分准时把你从床上拉起来，然后督促着你刷牙、洗脸、换衣服、叠被子、然后学习，每天我不停地催促着你快点、快点再快点，而你却总是睡眼惺忪着拖拖拉拉地应付着我的催促，可是到了晚上你为了玩，为了推迟上床时间不时地跟妈妈提着这样的条件，那样的要求，久而久之，妈妈变得越来越没有耐心，火气越来越旺，脾气也越来越大，总想着妈妈为了你全身心的付出而你却总是管不住自己，大错三六九、小错天天有，为此我是一天到晚嘴巴喋喋不休地训斥着你，说到肝火正旺处时是巴掌抡过去，脚也踹了过去，以致于你一看到妈妈发怒就吓得战战兢兢地而更加不知所措了、而此时的老妈则更像一头暴怒的困兽，气得用头撞墙，用衣架抽自己，我不停地问自己：“我该怎么办？我该怎么办？”
今天，爸爸妈妈离开你已经快一个月了，把你寄养在旦旦姐姐家，妈妈不打电话也不过问，我想看看没有我们在身边的日子你是怎样的生活，与此同时我想我该静下心来反思反思这段痛苦“过程”、在这段反思的日子里我不但没有听到和看到你糟糕透顶的学习和生活，反而是来自各方的包容与褒奖，妈妈认识到自己错了，我不能把失去工作后的所有寄托和希望全都转移到你的身上，你是个孩子，这种粗暴而简单的教育方式不但没能帮助你，提高你反而让你和妈妈同时痛苦和疲惫不堪、做父母的都希望孩子在健康和幸福中快乐成长，可由于妈妈的偏执给孩子你带来太多太多伤痛，孩子、希望你能原谅妈妈，妈妈更希望在你的帮助和督促下，我将勇敢地抬起头来承认错误，改变过去，重新注入活力，改变自己与你一同健康幸福地成长。
妈妈衷心的希望有一天等你长大羽毛丰润时，不再有怨，有恨而是带着对妈妈的爱与眷恋离开家和妈妈的怀抱飞向那更高更远的天空。
爱你的妈妈！
开学给孩子的一封信作文10
亲爱的孩子们：
你们好！此时此刻，离你们毕业还有两个半月，之所以这么早提笔写这封信，是因为六年的时光太漫长，需要好好回忆；想要说的话太多，怕匆匆而就会有遗漏。
老师们都说我们班最活跃，歌唱得最好听，英语读得最好听……我知道那是因为你们精力旺盛、思维敏捷、多才多艺。当然“小皮猴”也最多：喜欢在地上爬爬的陈童鞋，尿频的汪童鞋，大嗓门的蔡童鞋，贪玩的刘童鞋，游戏狂人宓童鞋，容易受伤的陈童鞋……有了你们，六年来，我们班一直很热闹，我们的日子精彩纷呈。
说到多才多艺，必须提一提吕涵的舞蹈，明霞的拉丁，心洁的吉他，王潇和舒雯的小提琴，家琪和科磊的歌喉，还有那些个你们自编自导的相声、课本剧……有了这些，六年来，我们一直有惊喜，我们的班队课充满期待。
六年里，教过你们的老师无数，就语数外三门主课而言，就有八位老师：我，张老师，Miss赵，Miss许，周老师，（小）李老师，（大）李老师，王老师，还有曾经来支教的汤老师。在小学阶段，有这样经历的班级估计不多，几乎每一年你们都能迎来一位新老师。不够稳定的教师队伍可能会给你们带来一定的困扰，但不同的老师，不同的性格，不同的教学方式，不同的为人处世方式，也给你们带来很多新鲜的东西，练就了你们超强的适应能力。正像老话说的：塞翁失马，焉知非福？你们觉得是不是这样呢？
热热闹闹的六年即将过去，你们也将各奔东西。但是孩子们，请记住——邱隘实验小学08届3班永远是一个大家庭，你们永远是其中的一员。请记住同桌的他（她），请记住给予你关心和帮助的同学，请记住我们一起分享过的欢笑和泪水，请记住教过你们的老师们……有空回家看看！在以后的岁月里，若有缘能够继续在一起学习生活的同学们，一定要如兄弟姐妹般相亲相爱，互帮互助。
在新的学习生涯中，你们要全力以赴。初中不同小学，学业紧张，竞争激烈，稍一懈怠，就可能与同学拉开距离，所以要紧紧跟上，能做一个领跑者更好！但若偶尔掉队，也别自暴自弃，古人说了“失败乃成功之母”，也说过“天生我材必有用”，这些都是经过漫长岁月验证的真理，所以请你相信真理，也相信自己！
孩子们，最后祝你们身心健康，学有所成！
钟老师
某年某月某日
