
Eliminate Internal Negative Chatter
The first step is one of awareness. It will be hard to make a change to positive thinking without being acutely intimate with the thoughts that run through your mind. Recently, I was amazed to discover deep buried emotions from negative thoughts that I had for fewer than 10 minutes. Without awareness, I would have carried the hurt and anger inside. Awareness helped me to bring them out to the open for me to deal with.
Undoubtedly it will not be easy to make a switch if you have a long history or negative self talk. Your talk became negative over the years due to various factors. For instance, if your first grade teacher repeatedly told you that you were "stupid", you might believe it to be truly the case. You would find that your inner chatter would often be filled with talk of "I am so slow" and "it is so hard to learn". If you constantly tell yourself such negative stories, your actions are going to reflect your low self esteem. It will be difficult to get very far if you are always putting yourself down.
A common negative talk involves telling yourself "I can’t". When you say to yourself "I can’t" or "it is too difficult", you are creating a resistance. Having such a mental block will prevent you from achieving a task you could otherwise succeed at.
Anytime you catch yourself saying "I can’t…", turn around and challenge your own claim with, "Why can’t I?" Research shows that most geniuses became the people they are also because of the hard work they put in. So if you would like to be successful, you need to start saying "I can" a lot more.
A great method that I have also found useful is to say "Cancel Cancel" each time I find myself saying something negative, whether in the mind or verbally. The method works if you sincerely have the intent of becoming a positive thinker.
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positive Affirmations
Affirmations are positive statements of a desired outcome or goal. They are usually short, believable and focused. By repeating them over and over again, you build inroads into your subconscious mind, opening up the possibility of a new state of thoughts.
An important step when repeating affirmations is that you need to read your affirmations aloud with feeling. The mere reading of the words bears no consequence unless you put some emotions behind them. Of significant fact is that your subconscious mind takes any orders given in complete faith and after repeated self talk. So the daily practice of repeating affirmations is important.
Initially you may be skepticism toward the statement of your positive affirmation. However, if you follow this simple set of instructions your skepticism will soon give way to a new set of beliefs and then crystallized into absolute faith.
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positive Scripts
One thing that you may observe is on how easy it is for your mind to build negative thought upon negative thought. The chatter not only does not stop but it spins a drama that traps and limits you.
From now on, regularly do this exercise instead. Spin an uplifting story that runs like a movie script. Some visualization will be helpful. You build on a story with a positive outline. The longer you can tell this story to yourself the better. It is also best if you can make this story one about having all your goals achieved. When you do this, you start to internalize your goals and dreams, as if they are something that you have already achieved.
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Replace Negative Influences with positive Ones
It is important that you identify external negative factors in your life which may be holding your thoughts hostage. For instance, your mental state can become toxic by being around friends who are negative. If you are not vigilant enough, you will start to adopt their thoughts as your own. Hence, be alert to what your negative influences are. If they come from certain friends, limit your exposure to them as much as you can. Refrain from discussing your plans with people who will be unsupportive of your dreams and goals.
Instead surround yourself with thoughts and actions from people who will empower you.
From being uninspired and de-motivated, you will begin to feel uplifted and driven to greater self growth. The positive energy that they vibrate will start affecting the self talk that you engage in as well.
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Present Tense Messages
You may find yourself daunted by the many things you need to do in order to reach your goals. It just seems overwhelming to become the success that you secretly desire for. Your mind gets caught up in an endless stream of worry.
What may be helpful is to concentrate on steps you can take in the present. If you find yourself becoming stuck, stop and say, "What can I do right now?" Change your internal talk from a future anxiety ridden one to one that is about the more manageable present. You cannot control what will happen in the future but you can take the necessary steps now that will build a better tomorrow. Taking the necessary steps require you to focus your thoughts and inner talk on Now.
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Confront Fears
Fear is often what holds you back from your success. You are scared of taking chances because you fear losing the security that you enjoy now. You try to convince yourself that you are happy in your current state when in fact, you are not. Your self talk may sound positive in your attempt to lie to yourself. But somehow, there is an inner knowing that you are short changing yourself.
Ask yourself what you are afraid of. What can be the worst that can happen? Take a step-by-step approach in breaking down your fears and see if there is any way round to looking at things more positively. When you confront your fears, you will often realize that the worst case scenario is not as bad as you think. In fact, the benefits of change are worth the risk. Your inner talk begins to change at this point.
英语好词摘抄
a big headache 令人头痛的事情
a fraction of 一部分
a matter of concern 焦点
a series of 一系列,一连串
above all 首先,尤其是
absent from 不在,缺席
abundant in 富于
account for 解释
in brief 简言之
no doubt 毫无疑问
in conclusion 总之,最后
undoubtedly 无疑
in short 简而言之
truly 的确
accuse sb. of sth. 控告
agree with 同意
ahead of time / schedule 提前
ahead of 在…之前(ahead of time 提前
alien to与… 相反
all at once 突然,同时
all but 基本上;除了…都
all in all 总之
all of a sudden 突然
certainly 当然地;无疑地
obviously 显然
eventually 最后
surely 无疑
finally 最后
to conclude 总而言之
in a word 总之
politic 精明的
political 政治的
beneficial 有益的
beneficent 多多行善的
official 官方的
officiou 多管闲事的
potent 强有力的
potential 潜在的, 可能的
confident 有信心的, 自信的.
confidential 机密的
negligent 忽视的, 粗心大意的
negligible 可忽视的
momentar 瞬时的, 短时的
momentou 重大的
memorable 值得记忆的, 不能忘却的
memorial 纪念的
social 社会的
sociable 善社交的
childish 幼稚的
childlike 孩子般的
distinct: clear 明显的, 清晰的
distinctive: characteristic 独特的, 有区别的
classic 一流的
classical 古典的
comprehensible 可理解的
comprehensive 全面的, 综合的
disinterested 公平的
uninterested 冷淡的
earthl 人间的, 尘世的
earth 泥土似的
effective 有效的
efficient 有效率的
effectual 奏效的
exceptionable 反对的
exceptional 非凡的
fatal 致命的
fateful 决定性的
fleshl 肉体的
flesh 肥胖的
从英语的起源和发展可以知道,英语大量吸收了希腊语,拉丁语,古英语,古法语等,英语的许多构词要素来自于这些语言,下面为大家分享了英语好词摘抄,欢迎借鉴!
1.afford 有足够的(钱/时间)做(某事)
2.against 与…对抗, 对着
3.baker 面包师
4.barn 谷仓, 堆物房;马房, 牛舍
5.beeper 袖珍无线电传呼机, 电话呼叫机
6.biology 生物(学)
7.bleat 羊叫(声)
8.blind 瞎的, 盲的
9.Brazil 巴西
10.brochure 小册子
11.broom 扫帚
12.cabbage 卷心菜, 洋白菜
13.canoe 乘独木舟
14.cap 便帽, 军帽
15.captain 队长
16.channel 海峡;航道;频道;波段
17.chart 图表
18.chimney 烟囱, 烟筒
19.chips (口语)炸士豆儿条
20.chopsticks (常用复数)筷子
21.church 教堂, 教会
22.click 咔哒声;发出咔哒声
23.code 密码, 符号
24.competition 比赛;竞争
25.conductor 售票员, 列车员
26.coral 珊瑚,珊瑚礁
27.correct 改正
28.decorate 装饰, 修饰
29.describe 描写;叙述
30.detective 侦探
31.diagram 图表
32.dim 微暗的., 昏暗的
33.dinosaur 恐龙
34.eve 前夕
35.family tree 家谱
36.flight 航班, 飞行
37.fragile 易碎的
38.frustrate 使沮丧, 使失败
39.geography 地理(学)
40.grab 抓取…, 夺取
41.grand 豪华的, 庄重的, 雄伟的
42.grape 葡萄
43.harvest 收获
44.height 高度
45.iceberg 冰山
46.icon 图象符号, 图标
47.injection 注射, 打针
48.invent 发明, 创造
49.invite 邀请, 招待
50.journalist 记者, 新闻工作者
51.licence 执照, 许可证
52.line 线, 绳索
53.loudspeaker 扬声器, 扩音器
54.mark 记号;标记;痕迹
55.mention 提到, 说起
56.midfield 中场
57.modem 调制解调器
58.monitor 显示器
59.multiply (将…)乘…
60.object 物体
61.physics 物理(学)
62.pleasant 愉快的, 快乐的
63.plus 加, 加上
64.pork 猪肉
65.province 省
66.pumpkin 南瓜
67.quarrel 争吵
68.queue 队,行列
69.queue jumper 不按次序排队的人
70.quite 很, 十分
71.ridge 山脉
72.rough 粗鲁的, 激烈的
73.rubbish 垃圾;废物
74.scenery 风景;景色
75.scissors (复数)剪刀
76.secondhand 二手的,用过的
77.shepherd 牧羊人
78.shellfish 贝类, 甲壳虫
79.sign 标记, 符号, 痕迹
80.tail 尾巴, 尾部
81.detiail 细节
82.telegraph 电报
83.terrible 可怕的, 感到极不舒服的
84.terrific 很棒的, 极好的
85.thief 贼
86.tomb 坟墓
87.tractor 拖拉机
88.truck 卡车
89.wag (尾巴)摆动, 摇动
90.yen 日元,渴望



