爱情观的英语作文 篇1
When the conversation comes to love, it always raise the biggest emotion, reaction and passion.
But,What is love?
"Love is that feeling you get when you meet the right person. "This is how many people approach a relationship. Consciously or unconsciously, they believe love is a sensation (based on physical and emotional attraction) that magically, spontaneously generates when Mr. or Ms. Right appears. And just as easily, it can spontaneously degenerate when the magic "just isnt there" anymore. You fall in love, and you can fall out of it.
The key word is passivity. Erich Fromm, in his famous treatise "The Art of Loving," noted the sad consequence of this misconception: "There is hardly any activity, any enterprise, which is started with such tremendous hopes and expectations, and yet, which fails so regularly, as love." (That was back in 1956 -- chances are hed be even more pessimistic today.)
So what is real, lasting love?
Love is the attachment that results from deeply appreciating anothers goodness.
LOVE IS A CHOICE
If love comes from appreciating goodness, it neednt just happen -- you can make it happen. Love is active. You can create it. Just focus on the good in another person (and everyone has some). If you can do this easily, youll love easily.
ACTIONS AFFECT FEELINGS
Now that youre feeling so warmly toward the entire human race, how can you deepen your love for someone? The way God created us, actions affect our feelings most. For example, if you want to become more compassionate, thinking compassionate thoughts may be a start, but giving tzedaka (charity) will get you there. Likewise, the best way to feel loving is to be loving -- and that means giving.
While there are many different ways to define love and there are many different ways to love someone (or even yourself), here is a general guide to loving.
1. Say it. When you say the words "I Love You", they should carry with them the desire to show someone that you love them, not what you simply want to feel. When you say it, make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person.
2. Empathize. Put yourself in someone elses shoes. Rather than impose your own expectations or attempt to control them, to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are. Realize how they could also love you back just as well.
3. Love unconditionally. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others). If your interest is not in the other person as such, but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life, then it is not unconditional. If you have no intention of improving that person’s life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.
4. Expect nothing in return. That doesnt mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Try loving just for the sake of love. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you; do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.
5. Realize it can be lost. If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater appreciation of what you have. Think how lucky you are to have someone to love. Dont make an idol of the person you love. This will place them under undue pressure and will likely result in you losing them.
6. Never stop loving. Even if you have been hurt before you should not stop giving love.
You must love yourself before you can love another. But before you can love yourself, you must know and understand yourself profoundly. This deep understanding of yourself will automatically lead you to love yourself (since you will become aware of your divine essence) and you will also love every other person at that same moment (because you will recognize that same divine essence in every other person).
The above is what I think about LOVE.
爱情观的英语作文 篇2
About six years ago, the movie Twight was a great success, hundred of teenagers became the fans. The movie tells about a girl named Bella who is falling in love with a vampire Edward, it seems that love can’t happen between them, but it happens. Bella ignores what other people tells her that she will get hurt and even get herself killed, she makes up her mind that she must be together with Edward.
Bella’s love is so strong that she leaves everything behind. On my opinion, Bella’s love is not a wise choice, her strong love makes her turn deaf ears to others, even her parents. Bella’s love is such skin deep, she abandons her responsibility, she even puts herself in a dangerous situation. As an adult, we should be mature, such love is not acceptable.
Love should be built in responsibility.
爱英语作文 篇1
Mother’s love wins people’s praises for its selflessness. In fact, father’s love is as great as that. They bury their love in the deep bottom of their hearts and will never show it. My father is of this kind. I remembered once I felt ill. Mother wasn’t at home at that moment. Father acted as a father and as a mother as well. When he came home from work, he would cook dinner for me first. The way he fed me made me think of my kind and tender mother. His eyes were full of love and expectation. I did feel a father’s love at that time.
爱英语作文 篇2
I used to write a composition is about a mother's love, only just realized a mother's love. When I read a story about a mother's love, will be great. But whenever I see a father, I feel very hypocritical. But when I experience, to know the greatness of a father.
My father looks mediocre, sometimes the mood is not good he will also have the feeling of disgust. He had no talent, even not finished elementary school, he, with a clueless look on his face when I read English sometimes I just in my heart secretly scorn.
In my eyes he is a "silly".
One night, eight more minutes, my mother said to me: "it's time for bed, so late. Again the don't come tomorrow." I have to hang down his head, a face of injustice. I laid the quilt, I dull looking at the white ceiling. Secretly wonder that morning new English song "trouble is a friend", at that moment, a stamped on the ground of the voice is getting closer and closer to me, I began to pretend to sleep, it is my dad, he came to the house, he stopped footsteps, even small panting breath, I can feel he has been tightly staring at me. He stopped for several minutes, and then quietly left.
At this point, I unknowingly shed tears, don't know what I to.
I've seen people describing a father "the father loves the mountain". I don't know the father. In fact, father is really serious, he just couldn't express. He never said 1: "I love you, baby." Such disgusting words. When what I want, he will try to meet me.
My father in my life, always will be a giver.
In that day, I read - deep a father.
爱英语作文 篇3
Before I was going to senior school, my father had never said a word to show his love to me, so that I thought he did not love me very much and sometimes I was upset about it. However, when I left home for senior school, he called me frequently and just asked me some simple questions like: how’s your study and life? When do you come home? or something like that. Gradually, I realize that he misses me although he would never say it out. So this is father’s love, not so obvious but definitely deep.
在我上高中之前，我父亲曾对我说了一句话来表达他对我的爱，所以我认为他不是很爱我，有时候我对此感到很苦恼。但是，当我离开家到高中的时候，他经常给我打电话，而且只是问我一些简单的`问题，比如你的学习和生活怎么样了？什么时候回家？或者是一些类似的问题。渐渐地，我意识到尽管他从不会说出来，但是他很想念我。所以这就是父爱，不是很明显但是绝对很深。
爱英语作文 篇1
From small to large, I think I am the happiest child in the world, because my parents' love for me is higher than the sky and deeper than the sea.
Once, when I was in school, I suddenly felt my head hurt so much that I could not hear the lesson. The teacher found that I was pale and not right. I asked my parents after calling the reason. In a few moments, mom and dad came. My mother hurried to me and touched my forehead and said nervously, "ah! Why is it so hot? It looks like a fever is coming to the hospital! " Mom took my hand, Dad carried my schoolbag, and we went straight to the hospital. In the car, my mother comforted me, "nothing is wrong. I will be good with you and your father in any disease. You are a man and must be strong!" When I got to the hospital, my mother hurriedly found the doctor and said, "see my son quickly!" The doctor walked over and looked at me with a glimpse of it. He said, as if nothing happened, "small things, just drop the stream!" At last, mom and Dad were relieved. When I was dripping, Dad sometimes went out to buy delicious food for me. Sometimes he went out to buy toys for me, and sometimes sat beside the bed to make me happy. Mommy massage my head for a while, press my shoulder for a while, ask me if I'm hungry or not, and wash my fruit for a while. Looking at it, my eyes moistened, and a warm current surged into my heart. Mom and Dad were very kind to me. I am the happiest child in the world. I was all right soon after mom and dad looked after them. But mom and dad are busy and thin. I can go to school, they look happy!
Mom and Dad, it's a book that can't be read. They give me love, I will never forget it. Now I have to study hard, find a good job when I grow up, and repay my parents.
爱英语作文 篇2
我的奶奶已经63岁了，但还很好学，并且很认真。
一天，奶奶让我教她英语，我说：“好吧”。
开始了，第一步，我教奶奶读26个字母，我要求读10遍，奶奶按照我说的完成了。第二步，我教奶奶读音标，奶奶就一个一个，反反复复的读直到读会。第三步，我把我书上的单词都写到纸上，并且还标上了音标，有的.还画上了图，要求奶奶一个读5遍，奶奶不一会都读完了，奶奶说:“还有没有了”，我说：“今天的学完了，明天再学，但奶奶还是继续读，读到会为止，要是换成我，早就不学了，奶奶的毅力很大，我要学习。
第二天，我和奶奶去买菜，奶奶看见白菜，就拿出白菜的单词读，看见狗，就拿出狗的单词读......
1个月后，奶奶的英语学得比我都好，我心想，我一定要超多奶奶。
爱英语作文 篇3
Mather's Love
I got up late this morning and went to school without feeding my cats.When I came home in the afternoon, the cats almost starved to death. They circled around me and crying for food. I took one fish out and threw it to the cats. I wanted to see who was the first one to catch the fish. Mother cat held it in her mouth and nm away quickly. She didn’t eat it, but put it down, then called her children there. The four starving little cats began to devour the fish, but their mother just stayed there looking at them tenderly,without eating a little bit. On seeing that, I thought of my mother. She often does everything for me selflessly. This is a mother’s love, I think.
