Eliminate Internal Negative Chatter
The first step is one of awareness. It will be hard to make a change to positive thinking without being acutely intimate with the thoughts that run through your mind. Recently, I was amazed to discover deep buried emotions from negative thoughts that I had for fewer than 10 minutes. Without awareness, I would have carried the hurt and anger inside. Awareness helped me to bring them out to the open for me to deal with.
Undoubtedly it will not be easy to make a switch if you have a long history or negative self talk. Your talk became negative over the years due to various factors. For instance, if your first grade teacher repeatedly told you that you were "stupid", you might believe it to be truly the case. You would find that your inner chatter would often be filled with talk of "I am so slow" and "it is so hard to learn". If you constantly tell yourself such negative stories, your actions are going to reflect your low self esteem. It will be difficult to get very far if you are always putting yourself down.
A common negative talk involves telling yourself "I can’t". When you say to yourself "I can’t" or "it is too difficult", you are creating a resistance. Having such a mental block will prevent you from achieving a task you could otherwise succeed at.
Anytime you catch yourself saying "I can’t…", turn around and challenge your own claim with, "Why can’t I?" Research shows that most geniuses became the people they are also because of the hard work they put in. So if you would like to be successful, you need to start saying "I can" a lot more.
A great method that I have also found useful is to say "Cancel Cancel" each time I find myself saying something negative, whether in the mind or verbally. The method works if you sincerely have the intent of becoming a positive thinker.
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positive Affirmations
Affirmations are positive statements of a desired outcome or goal. They are usually short, believable and focused. By repeating them over and over again, you build inroads into your subconscious mind, opening up the possibility of a new state of thoughts.
An important step when repeating affirmations is that you need to read your affirmations aloud with feeling. The mere reading of the words bears no consequence unless you put some emotions behind them. Of significant fact is that your subconscious mind takes any orders given in complete faith and after repeated self talk. So the daily practice of repeating affirmations is important.
Initially you may be skepticism toward the statement of your positive affirmation. However, if you follow this simple set of instructions your skepticism will soon give way to a new set of beliefs and then crystallized into absolute faith.
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positive Scripts
One thing that you may observe is on how easy it is for your mind to build negative thought upon negative thought. The chatter not only does not stop but it spins a drama that traps and limits you.
From now on, regularly do this exercise instead. Spin an uplifting story that runs like a movie script. Some visualization will be helpful. You build on a story with a positive outline. The longer you can tell this story to yourself the better. It is also best if you can make this story one about having all your goals achieved. When you do this, you start to internalize your goals and dreams, as if they are something that you have already achieved.
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Replace Negative Influences with positive Ones
It is important that you identify external negative factors in your life which may be holding your thoughts hostage. For instance, your mental state can become toxic by being around friends who are negative. If you are not vigilant enough, you will start to adopt their thoughts as your own. Hence, be alert to what your negative influences are. If they come from certain friends, limit your exposure to them as much as you can. Refrain from discussing your plans with people who will be unsupportive of your dreams and goals.
Instead surround yourself with thoughts and actions from people who will empower you.
From being uninspired and de-motivated, you will begin to feel uplifted and driven to greater self growth. The positive energy that they vibrate will start affecting the self talk that you engage in as well.
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Present Tense Messages
You may find yourself daunted by the many things you need to do in order to reach your goals. It just seems overwhelming to become the success that you secretly desire for. Your mind gets caught up in an endless stream of worry.
What may be helpful is to concentrate on steps you can take in the present. If you find yourself becoming stuck, stop and say, "What can I do right now?" Change your internal talk from a future anxiety ridden one to one that is about the more manageable present. You cannot control what will happen in the future but you can take the necessary steps now that will build a better tomorrow. Taking the necessary steps require you to focus your thoughts and inner talk on Now.
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Confront Fears
Fear is often what holds you back from your success. You are scared of taking chances because you fear losing the security that you enjoy now. You try to convince yourself that you are happy in your current state when in fact, you are not. Your self talk may sound positive in your attempt to lie to yourself. But somehow, there is an inner knowing that you are short changing yourself.
Ask yourself what you are afraid of. What can be the worst that can happen? Take a step-by-step approach in breaking down your fears and see if there is any way round to looking at things more positively. When you confront your fears, you will often realize that the worst case scenario is not as bad as you think. In fact, the benefits of change are worth the risk. Your inner talk begins to change at this point.
1、那些年错过的爱情，好想拥抱你拥抱错过的勇气。
Those who missed the love, I want to hug you miss the courage to embrace.
2、江南风骨，天水成碧，天教心愿与身违。
Jiangnan style, The Tianshui Chengbi, days to teach aspiration and body violation.
3、当属于我们的向日葵死了，那么我们还会微笑么。
When the sunflower belongs to us, then we will smile.
4、在悠然的午后,享受会下午茶时光,耳边响起勾起回忆的旋律。
In a leisurely afternoon,The will enjoy the afternoon tea time, the ears recalls the melody.
5、你要找的不是一个完美的人，而是一个对你而言最合适的人。
You are not looking for a perfect person, but a person who is the most suitable for you.
6、随你走在天际，看繁花满地。
As you walk in the sky, see the flowers everywhere.
7、毕业了，话题不再是八卦，学习，换成了工作，前途与结婚。
Graduated, the topic is no longer gossip, study, change into the work, the future and the marriage.
8、万般故事，不过情伤；易水人去，明月如霜。
All story, but feeling hurt; Yishui people to go to the moon, such as frost.
9、只有天空没人抢得走，只要我能拾起天，它都一直陪着我！
The Only the sky no one take, as long as I can pick up the day, it has been with me!
10、爱是费尽心力的全身投入，然后在百转千回的抽身而出。
Love is devoting himself to the whole body into, and then withdraw back a hundred thousand turn out.
11、有谁能像他一样，嘘寒问暖，一日三餐的关心俄。
Can someone like him, being, three meals a day care for russia.
12、我可以不呼吸空气，但没有你我根本无法呼吸。
I can't breathe the air, but I can't breathe without you.
13、孤单，是你心里面没有人。寂寞，是你心里有人却不在身边。
Alone, there is no one in your heart. Lonely, you are not in the heart of the people are not around.
14、如花美眷也敌不过似水流年。
The Ruhuameijuan also enemy but Youth passes as a fleeting wave.
15、春深花浅笑，秋浓叶忧伤，夜月一帘梦，春风十里情。
The Spring flower autumn leaves deep smile, thick sadness, a curtain of night dream, ten in the spring.
16、想着过去的记忆，品着现在的心酸，念着未来的坎坷。
Thinking of the memory of the past, with the current sadness, read with future bumpy.
17、让我们随风自由奔跑，去追逐伟大、神圣的梦想吧！
Let us run with the wind, to the pursuit of a great, sacred dream!
18、如果现在召集原班人马让你再读一遍初中，你愿意么？
If you let the original now called read junior high school, will you?
19、一起老去的日子里，因为朋友的存在而泛着七彩的光。
Old together in the day, because of the presence of friends and the colorful light.
20、我曾给你最温暖的怀抱，你却给我最痛心的玩笑。
I gave you the most warm embrace, but you gave me the most painful joke.
21、桃花凋谢了，枝头残留着几片花瓣，仍像点点跳动的火苗。
Peach blossom withered branches, the remnants of several petals, still like a little beat the flames.
22、那是我日夜思念的人阿，也许永远都不会跟她说出那句话。
That is my day and night thinking of the people, may never say that sentence with her.
23、满天星花语是思念、清纯、梦境、真心喜欢。
Mantianxing flower is missing, pure, true love and dreams.
24、太多的话语在喉咙中梗咽，终究还是无言以对。
Too many words in the throat swallow, still speechless.
25、在我需要的时候，能不能，给我点看得见的在乎。
When I need it, I can not, give me a point of view of care.
26、一举一动，都是承诺，会被另一个人看在眼里，记在心上的。
Every move, is a promise, will be another person to see in the eyes, remember in the heart of the.
27、转身，一缕冷香远，逝雪深，笑意浅。来世你渡我，可愿？
Turn around, ray Leng Xiangyuan, evanescent snow depth, shallow smile. Will you cross me in the next life?
28、你又不是我的美瞳，干嘛要把你放在眼里去。
You are not my beautiful pupil, why should you put in your eyes.
29、我是做好了和你过一辈子的打算，也准备好了你随时说要走。
I'm ready to go with you for a lifetime, and ready for you to go.
30、不要做让自己后悔的'事，要做，就做让别人后悔的事。
Don't do what you regret, do it, and do what you regret.
31、一起走过的岁月里，因为有了感动才会变得更加迷人。
Together through the years, because of the move will become more charming.
32、也许你会战胜一切，但是你最终还是败在了时间的脚下。
Maybe you'll beat it all, but you're still at the foot of the time.
33、谁苍白了我的等待，讽刺了我的执着。
Who pale I wait, the irony of my dedication.
34、山高不识东南北，左也是西，右也是西；回首长安泪双滴。
I also left mountains of southeast North, West, West Changan is right back; double drops of tears.
35、汉霄苍茫，牵住繁华哀伤，弯眉间，命中注定，成为过往。
Han Xiao vast, hold the bustling sad, curved eyebrows, become the past decreed by fate.
36、在这布满硝烟与瓦砾的乱世之中，没有人能纤尘不染地活着。
In this full of smoke and debris in the troubled times, no one can be spotlessly clean.
37、爱自己爱的人本身就是一种幸福，你可以记住过去的美好。
To love the person you love is a kind of happiness, you can remember the past.
38、火柴如果躲避燃烧的痛苦，它的一生都将黯淡无光。
The Matches if the escape the burning pain, its life will be intense darkness without light.
39、用微笑装作不在意你的嘲笑，不关心你的离去。
Pretend not to care about your smile with a smile, do not care about your leaving.
40、无论你多么讨厌你的学校，当你离开久了，你还是会想念它。
The No matter how much you hate your school, when you leave for a long time, you still miss it.
41、遗憾是会呼吸的痛，它流在血液中来回滚动。
Regret is the pain that can breathe, it flows back and forth in the blood.
42、我只是怀念曾经，却忘记了我们都已不是曾经的自己。
I just miss once, but forget that we have not been their own.
43、素色如锦。待到时光静好，与你相忘于天涯。
The lain such as jin. Until the time of quiet, and you forget in the world.
44、我轻轻呼吸，呼吸没有你的空气。思念叫人窒息。
I breathe, breathe without you. Miss is choking.
45、来生我再来典当、来世我再来与你歃血为盟。
I will hock, I come with you in an old Chinese practice.
46、回忆着曾经，一切只是纠结与悲剧。
The Memories of the past, everything is just tangled and tragedy.
47、我在遗忘我所经历的过往，那些人事物最后只有我自己。
I have forgotten what I have experienced in the past, those people who are only my own things.
48、蓄起亘古的情丝，揉碎殷红的相思。
Storage on ancient love, from the Acacia red.
49、有时候，我想消失一下，然后看看是否会有人想念我。
The Sometimes, I want to disappear, and then see if there will be someone miss me.
50、是不是只要勾搭上了孟婆，就可以忘了所有悲伤。
Is not as long as hooked on Meng, you can forget all the sadness.
51、我决定不再流泪，就像你决定要离开我一般地坚定。
I decided not to shed tears, as you decide to leave me in general firm.
52、一生总会爱那么几个人，到最后陪在身边的只有一个。
The life will always love so few people, to the last to accompany in the side of only one.
优美短文摘抄1
游子的千层底里缝进的是亲情，黄鹤楼上遥望不归的是友情，千里孤坟埋不住的是爱情。敢问世间情为何物？情是人生的灵魂，是人生妙章中最重要的一笔。没有亲情，犹如酷寒的冬季没有结束的日期；没有友情，犹如漂泊不定的小舟没有避风的港湾；没有爱情，犹如黑夜里的寒月没有温暖和光明。
于是，“临行密密缝，意恐迟迟归”成了亲情永恒的写照；“桃花潭水深千尺，不及汪伦送我情”成为友情不变的承诺；“在天愿为比翼鸟，在地愿为连理枝”成了爱情永恒的誓言。人生最重要的应该是情，情如酒一样醇，如茶一样浓，如潭一样深。
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精神是一座丰碑，是一块基石，是前进道路上的灯塔，是灿烂人生的标尺。有了谦虚，学富五车：才高八斗的孔子缓缓吟出“三人行，必有我师”，不耻下问，终成一代儒学大师；有了宽容，雄心勃勃：意气风发的齐桓公摈弃私仇，任人唯贤，成就千秋伟业，终成一代霸主；有了坚贞，寂寞忧愁：孤寂郁愤的苏武始终不扔掉手中的汉使族节，心系祖国，终成千秋爱国楷模；有了奉献，善良质朴：平凡无闻的徐虎才能够十年如一日，情洒百姓，温暖万家，终成当今的“活雷锋”。精神，穿越历史隧道，趟过历史长河，将永远撑起人生巍峨壮观的大厦。
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翻开浩瀚的历史画卷，许多历史人物脱颖而出，向人们诉说着尊严。从在北海牧羊十九年而从未放弃祖国的苏武到“留取丹心照汗青”的文天祥；从“不为五斗米折腰”的陶渊明到“安能摧眉折腰事权贵”的李白；从置生死于不顾：愤怒销毁鸦p的林则徐到巴黎和会上从容不迫：昂首挺胸的顾维钧，他们用尊严描绘着自己的人生。尊严之歌穿越岁月的风尘而历久弥新；尊严之歌趟过历史的长河而亘古不变。
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信念是夸父逐日时不停的脚步，信念是雨中航行时对岸不灭的灯塔，信念是狂风肆虐苍鹰不停歇的身姿。拥有信念，一根小小的火柴，可以点亮一片心空；拥有信念，一片小小的绿叶，可以装点整个春天；拥有信念，一叶小小的.扁舟，可以惊动一片海洋。
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是什么使青松矗立于断壁裂缝边，依然枝繁叶茂；是什么使则出生的小牛犊摔倒后，一次又一次地爬起来；是什么使史铁生放弃了轻生的念头，在轮椅上描绘出灿烂的人生？是你——坚强。
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目标如沙漠中的绿洲，滋润着跋涉者干涸的意志；目标如黑暗中的灯火，燃亮了夜行者心中的希冀。目标是高耸入云的山，是竞帆思归的岸。
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古人云：冤冤相报何时了，得饶人处且饶人。大家都知道这是一种宽容，一种博大的胸怀，一种不拘小节的潇洒，一种伟大的仁慈。那么什么是宽容呢？自古至今，宽容被圣贤乃至平民百姓尊奉为做人的准则和信念，而已成为中华民族传统美德的一部分，并且视为育人律己的一条光辉典则。
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如果追求是刚发芽的幼苗，那么彩虹便是盛开着朵朵鲜花的枝干。如果追求是一棵翠绿的果树，那么彩虹便是那五颜六色的硕果。如果追求是人生的起点，那么彩虹便是成功的彼岸。相信，成功之花在彩虹的映照下会变得更加绚烂夺目。
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心存对阳光雨露的感激，小草一岁一枯荣之后又萌发新绿；心存对蓝天白云的感激，雄鹰在清寒玉宇中展翅高飞；心系对巍峨高山的感激，溪水从山涧低吟下泻；心存对广袤大地的感激，泥土在田野里散发沁人的芳香。
感激是力量之源：爱心之根：勇气之本。感激父母，你将不再辜负父母的希望；感激社会，你会轻轻扶起跌倒在地的老人；感激人生，你将笑对狂风暴雨，笑迎天边那一道美丽的彩虹。
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生命如画，有浓墨泼洒，也有淡笔轻描；生命如歌，有轻吟浅唱，也有黄钟大吕。君不见李太白：杜工部之一生，浓墨泼洒，铸就生命之伟大；裴多菲：雪莱之一生，淡笔轻描终写尽生命之真谛。君不见轻音浅唱之陶渊明“采菊东篱下，悠然见南山”，高歌猛进之谭嗣同“我自横刀向天笑，去留肝胆两昆仑”。
生命是山，我们无法预估它的长度，我们只好追求它的高度。生命是路，它是由一块块不起眼的沙石组成的，而不是铺金布银，平平淡淡中尽显生命之完美。生命是一叶扁舟，航行于茫茫沧海之中，只有经历暴风雨的洗礼，才会迎来明天海上初升的太阳。
