TED演讲 20岁光阴不再来
还记得在国内大学的时候，每年开学的那段时间，大学四年里仅存寥寥无几的类似演讲会，报告会或是公开课的活动都会在大礼堂或是基地楼里举行。
某个院长在会上说：国内名牌高与普通高校的区别其实就是演讲会等一众的数量与质量的区别。
等我本人感同身受数年之后，每次见那半秃瓢儿都忍住了骂爹：靠之，又是一语言与行动脱节的货。
唉~~岂止是语言与行动脱节，简直就是思维与行动脱，好伐
尼玛，知道这是区别，这是不足，你不好好整顿一下你那一帮天天开会神秘兮兮，工作咋咋忽忽，办事儿踢来踢去的学院班子，干点儿实事儿吧，就从你说的那啥演讲会开始呀，给大学生洗洗混沌的的大脑呀~~ 在我大学有限的时间内，也不能总指望别人办些靠谱的事儿，何况还是企盼些不靠谱儿的人呢
所以呀，自己在网上找着看呗，本人觉得网易公开课还是不错的，前提是你会自个儿取精华，去糟粕。
嗯~~先来一篇观后感。
(*^__^*) 当你20多岁并且有男朋友，嗯，很好，生活就先这样继续着，即使你不是一个善于思考与总结生活的人，有一天你还是提出了一个你终于发现或是一早就发现的问题：“没错，你的对象很差劲，你在和一个傻瓜交往，可是没有迹象你要嫁给他。
”嗯~~接着你又这样安慰自己：“我知道我男朋友不适合我，但是这段感情不作数，我只是在消磨时间。
”然后也许有人会说，比如我会跟你说：“你不嫁给这个但可能嫁给下个（傻瓜）。
” 20多岁的人，有的是时间，这的确是不争的事实。
但如果你的思维是这样继续的话：30岁又是一个新的20岁，30岁之后会有工作，会有婚姻，再有了儿女，最后是死亡，像我们这样的20多岁的人，有的是时间。
那么，世道噗吧
有时间思考boy的问题，还不如让我们认真考虑感情生活的问题。
（有帮助的建议的最好的时机是在结婚之前，也就是心理学家所谓 “顿悟”时刻。
） 30岁不是一个新的20岁，没错，现在人们结婚的年龄比以前大一些，但这并没有使20岁成为发展的搁浅期。
这使20岁成为发展的关键时期，而我们却在挥霍它。
那一刻，我们应该意识到这种善意的忽视是个严重的问题，而且是有后果，不仅是对我们的感情生活，而是对所有处在20多岁年龄的人的事业及家庭及未来。
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20多岁的人都应该知道心理学家、社会学家、神经学家和生育专家已经知道的事：20岁对于你来说是你能对你的感情、幸福甚至这个世界能做的最简单但最有影响力的事之一。
这是事实。
大脑在你20多岁时结束第二次也是最后一次发育高峰然后它开启成年人的模式，这意味着，不管你想改变自己的什么，现在就是时候。
20多岁时性格的改变要远远多于别的时期，我们还知道女性的生育能力在28岁时达到高峰，在35岁之后会变得棘手。
人生80%的决定性时刻发生在35岁。
这意味着十分之八的能够决定你人生的决定、经历和那些“顿悟”时刻出现在30岁中旬。
事业前十年发展对今后的收入影响有很大的影响。
所以20多岁就是培养自己的时候，对于自己的健康和今后的选择。
当我们想到儿童的发展，前5年是脑部语言区和大脑中其它部分发育的关键时期。
那段日子看似平常普通，却对你以后的成长的有深远的影响。
但是我们对成年时期的发展知道的却很少，而20多岁是成年发展的关键时期。
但是很少有人告诉20多岁的人这些话。
报纸说20多岁是成年的过渡期，研究人员说20多岁是青春的延长期，记者为20多岁的人起的外号是“夹在中间者”和“成年孩子”。
这是真的。
我们已经习惯忽视了成年期中这个具有决定性的十年。
很多人在不得不面临他们的三十岁时会有巨大的压力从而迅速开始一个事业，选一个城市，结婚，然后再很短的一段时间内有个孩子。
这些事很多是互不相容的，并且研究开始表明，在30多岁的时候一下子都完成这些是很困难、压力很大的。
千禧年后的中年危机不是买一台红色跑车。
是意识到我不能拥有我现在想要的事业。
是意识到我不能拥有我现在想要的孩子，或是不能给我的孩子一个手足。
太多30多岁的人和40多岁的人看着他们自己，回忆他们的20多岁，“我那会在做什么
我那会在想什么
” 20岁的我，现在在做什么呢
作者告诉我们三件事，这三件事是所有的20多岁的人，男人或是女人都应该知道的。
首先，忘掉身份认同危机，获得一些身份资本。
获得身份资本，指的是去做一些可以增加你自身价值的事。
对你以后想成为什么样的人投资。
身份资本会成为身份的资本。
因此，现在正是开始那个横跨全国的工作的时候，正是时候开始实习，开始你做想做的事。
不是在说20岁的探索冒险，是在劝诫我们不要做无谓的探索，那不是探索。
那是拖延。
开始，并使它有意义。
第二，不要坐井观天。
好朋友是可以载你一程去机场，但是20多岁的人如果只和想法相同的同龄人交往，限制了他们的交际圈、他们所知、所想、所讲和他们的工作的地点。
新的资本，新的恋爱对象几乎都是来自圈子外的。
新事物来自于我们所谓的弱关系，我们朋友的朋友的朋友。
所以的确， 20多岁的人有一半没有工作或是面临失业。
但另外一半有工作，而通过那些不那么直接的关系，就是你进入那个群体的途径。
有一半的新工作是没有招聘信息的，所以去问你邻居的老板，是你得到那个没有招聘信息的工作的方法。
这不是走后门。
信息就是这样传播的。
（唉~~不用我说，这点儿，大多数人都有感觉吧） 最后，不能选择自己的家人，但可以选择自己的朋友。
现在就是选择你“家人”的时候。
现在大多数人可能认为在30岁时安定下来要比在20岁甚至25岁更可靠，同意。
但是随便抓一个正在交往或是同居或是社交网络上的人走进婚姻的殿堂是行不通的。
经营婚姻的最好时期是在结婚前，这就意味着选择爱情要像选择工作一样的积极。
选择将来的家人就是要理智地选择你想要和谁过什么样的生活，而不是为了应付或是消磨时间才和一个正好选了你的人在一起。
作者喜欢和20多岁的人一起工作的原因，帮助他们很容易。
她说20多岁的人们就像是一架刚从洛杉矶国际机场起航的飞机，向西飞去。
刚起飞时，航道上一个小小的改变导致目的地的不同有如阿拉斯加和斐济之间的差别。
同样的，在21岁或25岁甚至是29岁时，一次好的谈话，一个好的假期，一个好的演讲，会在今后的岁月甚至对以后的几代人中产生不可估量的作用。
这是值得告诉每一个我们所认识的20多岁的人：30岁不是一个新的20岁，所以认清你的成年期，获得一些身份资本，利用你的不那么直接的关系，选择你的家人。
不要被你不知道的或是没有做过的事所限制。
生活的决定权在你。
谢谢。
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热门TED演讲：二十岁是不是可以挥霍的光阴
The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings, but shorter tempers; wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints; we spend more, but have less; we buy more but enjoy less. 我们这个时代在历史上的说法就是我们拥有更高的建筑，但是有更暴的脾气；我们拥有更宽阔的高速公路，却有更狭隘的观点；我们花费得更多，拥有得却更少；我们购买得更多却享受得更少。
We have bigger houses and smaller families; more conveniences, but less time; we have more degrees, but less sense; more knowledge, but less judgment; more experts, but more problems; more medicine, but less wellness. 我们的房子越来越大，家庭却越来越小；便利越来越多，时间却越来越少；学位越来越多，感觉却越来越少；知识越来越多，观点却越来越少；专家越来越多，问题也越来越多；药物越来越多，健康却越来越少。
We drink too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry too quickly, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom. 我们喝得太多，花钱大手大脚，笑得太少，开车太快，易怒，熬夜，赖床，书读得越来越少，电视看得越来越多，却很少向上帝祈祷。
We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often. We’ve learned how to make a living, but not a life; we’ve added years to life, not life to years. 我们常常夸夸其谈，却很少付出爱心，且常常心中充满了仇恨。
我们学会了如何谋生，而不知如何生活。
我们延长了生命的期限，而不是生活的期限。
We’ve been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet the new neighbor. We’ve conquered outer space, but not inner space; we’ve done larger things, but not better things. 我们登上了月球，并成功返回，却不能穿过街道去拜访新邻居。
我们已经征服了太空，却征服不了自己的内心；我们的事业越做越大，但质量却没有提高。
We’ve cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul; we’ve split the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less; we plan more, but accomplish less. 我们清洁了空气，却污染了灵魂；我们分离了原子，却无法驱除我们的偏见；我们写得更多，学到的却更少；我们的计划更多，完成的却更少。
We’ve learned to rush, but not to wait; we have higher incomes, but, lower morals. 我们学会了奔跑，却忘记了如何等待；我们的收入越来越高，道德水平却越来越低。
We build more computers to hold more information to produce more copies than ever, but have less communication; we’ve become long on quantity, but short on quality. 我们制造了更多的计算机来存储更多的信息，制造了最多的副本，却减少了交流；我们开始渴望数量，但忽视了质量。
These are the days of two incomes, but more divorce; of fancier houses, but more broken homes. 这个时代有双收入，但也有了更高的离婚率；有更华丽的房屋，却有更多破碎的家庭。
These are the days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throw away morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. Where are we heading...? 这个时代有了快速旅游，免洗尿布，却抛弃了道德、一夜情、超重的身体，以及可以从快乐中走向静止和自杀的药物。
我们将走向何方……
If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family we left behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. 如果我们明天就死掉，我们为之工作的公司可能会在一天内很轻易地找人代替我们的位置。
但是当我们离开家人后，他们的余生将会在失落中度过。
And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to our family an unwise investment indeed. 考虑一下吧，我们将自己的时间更多地投入到工作中，而放弃与家人在一起的时光，实在并非明智之举。
So what is the morale of the story?那么这则故事的主旨是什么呢?Don’t work too hard... and you know what’s the full word of family? 不要工作得太辛苦，你知道家的全称吗
FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER, (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU. 家＝爸爸妈妈，我爱你们。
[4] 热门TED演讲：二十岁是不是可以挥霍的光阴
身份资本是指做增加自我价值的事。
为自己下一步想成为的样子做一些事一些投资。
I didn't know the future of Emma's career, and no one knows the future of work, but I do know this: Identity capital begets identity capital. So now is the time for that cross-country job, that internship, that startup you want to try. 我不知道Emma的工作将来是什么样的，也没人知道将来的工作是什么样的，但是我知道：身份资本会创造出更多身份资本。
现在是时候去尝试你想要的海外工作、实习或者新起点。
I'm not discounting twentysomething exploration here, but I am discounting exploration that's not supposed to count, which, by the way, is not exploration. That's procrastination. I told Emma to explore work and make it count. 我不是轻视20多岁的自我探索，而是轻视那些随便玩玩无所谓的探索，或者从某种意义上说那不是探索。
那是拖沓
我告诉Emma去探索工作，让她的探索有所回报。
Second, I told Emma that the urban tribe is overrated. 第二，我告诉Emma不要高估自己的朋友圈。
Best friends are great for giving rides to the airport, but twentysomethings who huddle together with like-minded peers limit who they know, what they know, how they think, how they speak, and where they work. That new piece of capital, that new person to date almost always comes from outside the inner circle. 好朋友会载你去机场，而和“志同道合的朋友” 瞎混的20多岁的人，他们的交际圈、知识面、思维方式、说话方式和工作层面都被限制住了。
新的资本或者新的约会对方往往是从内部交际圈之外来的。
New things come from what are called our weak ties, our friends of friends of friends. So yes, half of twentysomethings are un- or under-employed. But half aren't, and weak ties are how you get yourself into that group. Half of new jobs are never posted, so reaching out to your neighbor's boss is how you get that un-posted job. It's not cheating. It's the science of how information spreads.新的事情来自我们所谓的“远的关系”，我们朋友的朋友的朋友。
没错，半数20多岁的人处在失业和半失业的状态。
但是另外一半的人却不是这样的，“远的关系”正是你融入一个新的群体的纽带。
有半数的新工作从来不公示出来，所以联络你邻居的老板是你找到那些未公示工作的方式。
这不叫作弊，这是信息传播的科学方式。
Last but not least, Emma believed that you can't pick your family, but you can pick your friends. Now this was true for her growing up, but as a twentysomething, soon Emma would pick her family when she partnered with someone and created a family of her own. 最后一点也很重要，Emma相信你无法选择你的家庭，但是你可以选择你的朋友。
可这只是她成长时期的状况。
作为一个20多岁的人，Emma很快会与某人为伴组建她自己的新家庭。
I told Emma the time to start picking your family is now. Now you may be thinking that 30 is actually a better time to settle down than 20, or even 25, and I agree with you. But grabbing whoever you're living with or sleeping with when everyone on Facebook starts walking down the aisle is not progress. 我告诉Emma现在就是你选择你家庭的时候。
现在你也许会想相比于20岁，25岁或30岁时组建家庭会更好。
我同意你的看法。
但是当你Facebook上的朋友都开始步入婚姻殿堂时，你随便抓一个人一起生活、睡觉绝对不是组建家庭的过程。
The best time to work on your marriage is before you have one, and that means being as intentional with love as you are with work. Picking your family is about consciously choosing who and what you want rather than just making it work or killing time with whoever happens to be choosing you. 经营你婚姻的最佳时间是你还没结婚的时候，这意味要像你为了工作一样精心谋划。
选择你的家庭是有意识地去选择你想要的人和事，而不是为了结婚或者消磨时光，任意选择一个正好选择你的人。
So what happened to Emma? Well, we went through that address book, and she found an old roommate's cousin who worked at an art museum in another state. That weak tie helped her get a job there. That job offer gave her the reason to leave that live-in boyfriend. Emma发生了什么变化呢
我们翻了一遍通讯录，她发现她原来的舍友的表妹在另一个州的一家艺术博物馆工作。
这层远关系帮助她在那里得到一份工作。
这份工作给她一个理由离开她那同居的男友。
Now, five years later, she's a special events planner for museums. She's married to a man she mindfully chose. She loves her new career, she loves her new family, and she sent me a card that said, Now the emergency contact blanks don't seem big enough.现在五年过去了，她是一名博物馆特别活动策划者。
她和一个她用心选择的男人结婚了。
她爱她的事业，她爱她的新家，她寄给我一张贺卡写道，“现在紧急联系栏似乎不够填呢。
”Now Emma's story made that sound easy, but that's what I love about working with twentysomethings. They are so easy to help. Twentysomethings are like airplanes just leaving LAX, bound for somewhere west. Right after takeoff, a slight change in course is the difference between landing in Alaska or Fiji. Emma的故事听起来简单，这正是为什么我爱和20多岁人打交道。
帮助20多岁的人很容易。
20多岁就像离开洛杉矶飞往西部某处的飞机，起飞之后，一点小小变化都会影响到它最终将降落在阿拉斯加还是斐济。
Likewise, at 21 or 25 or even 29, one good conversation, one good break, one good TED Talk, can have an enormous effect across years and even generations to come. So here's an idea worth spreading to every twentysomething you know. 同理，在你21岁，25岁甚至29岁的时候，一次好的谈话、好的休息、好的TED演讲，能在未来的几年甚至几代人的时间里带来巨大的影响。
因此这个想法值得传达给每一个你所认识的20多岁人。
It's as simple as what I learned to say to Alex. It's what I now have the privilege of saying to twentysomethings like Emma every single day: Thirty is not the new 20, so claim your adulthood, get some identity capital, use your weak ties, pick your family. Don't be defined by what you didn't know or didn't do. You're deciding your life right now. Thank you.这想法就像我后来告诉Alex的话一样简单。
我应该每天都对像Emma这样的20多岁的人说：30岁不是一个新的20岁，所以规划好你的成年生活，获得一些身份认同资本，利用你的远关系，选择你的家庭。
不要被你所不知道的，从未做过的事所禁锢。
你现在的作为决定着你的人生。
谢谢。
哪位好心人可以提供一份英语演讲稿给我,内容最好是上进励志型的,5至10分钟的
我给你三篇，如果你是大学生请选第二和第三篇，如果是中学生就用第一篇第一篇，Good morning,dear teacher and my friends. it’s a very intresting topic today. I think my Dad was a hero for me when I was a young child. We'd go fishing, walks, and other fun things for a kid. Every child has a good and great father, and so do I. My dad played a very important role in my daily life`````exactly speaking, in my past 16 years. My father always stands in the center of my life， from past till now and possibly in the future. My family was rather poor when I was in my childhood. We didn't have our own house and had to live in a shabby， small room rented from my father's factory. The room was so small that there was little space for people to walk. I didn't have my own bed and had to sleep with my parents. This is terrible both for my parents and me. But father made this all different
he works very hard on his own business, now we have our own 2 housese,surly,I have my own room.and he take our family so much happiness, richer and richer. When I was little, I did everything with my dad. You could always find me sitting on his knee or walking and doing everything with him. Every night he would read me a bed time story and make the voices of each character. I learnt a lot from my daddy. I learnt to never take things to seriously and to always smile. Like many other fathers, my dad and I also has generation gap. He is not good at or even can’t work the computer. So when I sitting at the computer desk,he will say something like ‘you should pay more attention to your study’, ‘don’t waste time on the computer games’ , ‘it will be bad for your eyes’ and so on. How can I- a computer fan – reduce time on computer? So I continue studying and playing on it Years pasted, my father is over 45 now. It is time for me to look after him and I am sure I will do and we will live an even better life. and i will say,i really love you dad,cause you are the hero in my mind. Thank you so much! 我在班里演讲过，刚好三分钟第二篇，Change the world? Change OurselvesGood evening, honorable judges, ladies and gentlemen. It’s my great pleasure to stand here to present my speech—Change the World, Change Ourselves. It’s noticable that western holidays are becoming increasingly popular day by day, while chinese traditional festivals are being somewhat neglected. Not long before about 10 Doctors in Beijing university and Qinghua unversity announced that we should reject the invasion of western holidays ,because they regard western holidays as an challenge against our traditional festivals and culture.Frankly speaking, I don’t quite agree with them.Indeed, we should never neglect or even discard our traditonal festivals as China boasts a brilliant history and splendid traditions. (examples).But why can’t we absorb the meaningful western holidays and culture. There are obvious reasons why some western holidays are so popular in China. On the one hand, some of the western holidays which we Chinese don’t have are reasonable and meaningful, such as Father’s Day and April Fool’s Day etc. On the other hand,the prevalence of globalization enables western culture to prevail in China. Overwhelmed by such a trend,Chinese unconsiciously get involved in western holidays and culture. With the further development of the whole world, the cultural communication between different countries and nations becomes faster and more and more important. We are indeed from different nations, but we are the citizens of the same world, so the outstanding culture of different nations is the commom wealth of everyone on the earth.The only way for us to protect our traditional culture is to reject the foreign culture? The answer is definitely no. What we ought to do is to spare no effort to educate Chinese to get to know and treasure our splendid traditions instead of rejecting foreign culture. Only by educating can we set our confidence and belief towards our culture. Only by educating can we preserve and promote the wealth that our ancesters left for us. At last I’d like to share a famouse saying of Gandhi with all of you ,that is:If you want to change the world, then you must change yourself first.”第三篇，Goodmoring ladies and gentalmen, I am very gald to stand here to have my speech.Global Citizenship begins at home. Do you know what is the connotation of the Global Citizenship ? To be honest I don’t understand the exactly meaning of the sentence ,so only can I explain it simply .Global Citizenship ,in my opinion ,is not something in word only ,but a kind of responsibility and undertaking ,a way of behaving and thinking .So Global citizenship begins at home ,with a commitment to live responsibility ,to regard all human begins as fellow citizens ,and to be proactive in seeking the common good. For us university students ,usually we are busy with exams or focusing on the incidents in daily life .We hardly pay attention to the global issues. However , as university students ,we should take the responsibility to think about them ,think about the life around us. The world develops quickly, but it wandered from the path it should be. Peace and development have become essential issues. Peace lays a foundation to development. But because of the development, social problems and environmental problems have become serious global problems. Over-population makes us ask for more resources from the limited ones. It causes natural resources fearfully scarce. If we keep on doing so, we will of course lose our reliable living space at last. Apart from the environment we had broke at home ,we Chinese also have no sense to protect it when traveling abroad. Therefore Chinese travelers’ behaviors in foreign countries have made the native intolerable .And the foreigners have the bad influence about our country. So I think the sentence of Global Citizenship begins at home means that everyone should be the global citizen ,should take the responsibility to protect our mother land .Global citizenship begins at home ,let we do it through the children and the parents ,through the school and the society, thou the government .There’s an old saying : Action speaks louder than words. Let’s act now . Thank you all attention. 后两篇是今年cctv杯英语演讲比赛的题目，我准备参加比赛的，但由于要参加实习不能参加比赛。
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人为什么活着?人为谁活着?人如何活着?自己去想吧·自己的事情自己做·演讲 应该是很简单の·
