为心灵解压读后感1
作为一名教师，我们必须面对一群知识水平不一、道德修养各异、个性差异巨大的学生，他们给我们带来快乐，但也会给我们增加压力。师生关系融洽与否，直接影响着我们的日常情绪，良好的师生关系令我们身心愉快，有助于提高学生的学习兴趣，提高学生在情感、意志、道德诸方面的综合素质，从而提高教学效果。师生关系的融洽是教学成功的前提，不和谐的师生关系会使事情向相反的方向发展。既然师生关系是我们无法回避的一种关系，我们就要学会正确处理。读了《为心灵解压》后，我觉得要处理好师生关系，必须做到以下几点：
一、学会尊重
高中生正在逐渐形成自己独立的思想、思维方式和个性，已经具备了独立的人格，他们对老师的眼光，老师的评价尤其敏感，尊重学生就意味着要真正把学生当人看，要尊重学生的人格，宽容和理解学生内心深处的思维方式和特殊行为，才能取得全体学生对你的信任。教师要用自己的真情与爱心去唤起学生美好的心灵，点燃学生心中的希望之火，激发学生的学习积极性和创新欲望。如果教师师无视这一切，高高在上，学生肯定会尝试抗争，赢了，他便暗自得意，输了，就此埋下抗拒的种子，于日后伺机再较量，所以，我们要掌握学生的这种心理，学生犯了错，尽量私下处理，找个机会象好朋友一样找他谈心，让他有发言的机会，冷静下来审视自己，这样才直达他的内心，真正起到教育的作用，许多学生都会感激老师给他的这点面子，学生们得到应有的尊重，都会自觉地去改正错误，自觉地去学习，在这种和谐的气氛下，彼此都会相处愉快。
二、学会放手
教师和学生的关系有时候就像抓沙子一样，抓的越紧就会失去的越多，该放手时就要放手。苏霍姆林斯基说过：“唤起人实行自我教育，乃是一种真正的教育。”作为教师要学会放手让学生在尝试中学会自我教育。充分相信学生，给学生更多的时间和空间，更多的自主权，让学生在观察、思考、发现、创造中体验学习和生活的乐趣。放手也是一种信任，学会放手，还学生一片自由的天空，让学生有试飞的空间和机会，才能练就强劲的翅膀，去搏击长空。放手也是尊重学生的体现，让学生有健康与开放的心态、团结合作的胸襟。敢于放手，就是给学生更多的机会和责任，是对学生发展潜能的信任。敢于放手，才能真正赢得学生的信任和尊重，才是真正的教育。
三、公正对待
教师对学生不同的期待将会被学生内化为自我期待，并直接影响学生的成长与发展。教师的不公正会影响班级正常的人际关系，最终影响学生的发展。所以作为教师，要尽可能地公正对待每一位学生，这也是老师最起码的职业道德。可以从以下方面做起，来改变自己的偏见：第一、平等对待，不要把自己放在高于学生的位置与学生对话，要把自己想象成学生，多体会学生的感受，多换位思考。第二、深入了解，主动与学生多接触，多交流，真正懂得学生的所思所想。第三、自我检控，多反思自己的思维过程，有意识地控制自己的偏见行为，这样才能准确地解释学生的行为，公正地对待学生。第四、提高理论修养水平，教师要不断滴加强学习，自觉提高理论修养，更新自己的.观念，懂得学会身心的发展规律，全面、客观、公正地对待学生。
四、学会倾听
倾听能够创造一种安全、温暖的气氛，是学生能够更加开放自己的内心，更加坦率地表达自己真实的想法。倾听是人际关系的一种姿态，能自然而然赢得尊敬和爱戴。倾听能使教师更多地了解学生，有助于学生对教师产生信任和亲切感。倾听也是交流的第一技巧，有助于教师在工作和生活中取得成功。如何做好倾听要遵守五“心”级倾听原则，即：诚心、专心、用心、耐心、应心。
五、提升魅力
教师自身的综合素质是影响他在学生心目中威信的重要因素，也就是大家常说的个人魅力问题，教师的知识广博与否，专业基本功扎实与否，谈吐风度优秀与否，等等，都是影响师生关系的重要元素。学生的眼睛是雪亮的，高中生正是需要偶像崇拜，需要良师益友的时候，如果你行，他们会服你、敬你，进而听你的，师生关系就会融洽，反之，则不利于处理师生关系。因而教师要深入钻研教育教学理论，提升专业素养，形成独到的良好的教学风格，以自己的`智慧化解师生冲突，营造良好的氛围。
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适当的心理压力是工作的动力，但压力太大却会给工作带来不好的影响。如果心理压力大，就会产生不良情绪或心理问题。心情不好，就会不自觉地将低落、暴躁等情绪带进课堂，这样教师在课堂上就很难耐心地与学生交流，有良好的情绪带动和感染学生愉快地学习，课堂效果可想而知。作为一名教师，承担的是传授知识和教育的双重任务，面对各方面存在很多差异的个体，要想取得好的教育教学效果，就要学会正确地为自己的心灵解压，这样才能保证能心情愉快地走进课堂，才会和学生和谐相处，提高教学效果。本书从“心理调节”、“师生关系”、“家庭关系”和“事业成就”四大方面结合典型的案例进行了问题解析，让我从中学到了很多。
一、正确认识自己，为心灵解压
要认识到自己只是个普通人，而不是神。教师工作竞争激烈，承担着多种特殊的社会角色，事业、家庭、以及家长、社会对教师的高期望值，这很容易使教师身心疲惫，容易产生心理问题，傅教授指出：“既然压力无法回避，我们就必须直面压力，学会与压力和谐共处。”遇到问题要学会化解，调节自己的情绪，通过放松、注意力转移、自我暗示等方式对自己的情绪进行调节，避免将消极的情绪带入工作中，带入课堂中，影响师生关系，影响工作效率。积极面对各种问题，学学傅教授建议教师的那样：不要事事操心、不要更拼命，而要更有效、允许本该做完的事推迟完成、不要总是心存愧疚……我们要学会给自己的心灵解压，从情感上、生活习惯上改变自己，远离心理疾病，这样才能让自己幸福地教，让学生快乐地学，工作才会更有成效。
二、公正对待每一位学生
教师对学生的态度直接影响着学生的发展，教师要尽可能地公正对待每一位学生。每个人都会有优缺点，每当我指出女儿的缺点时，她就会说：世界上有十全十美的人吗？的确，每个人都是独立的个体，都会存在这种或那种的差异，优生身上有缺点，学困生身上也有优点。每个学生的身上都有闪光点，用表扬来激发他们的上进心，他们就会自觉主动地不断努力，从而各尽其长，拥有自信。对每个学生一视同仁，对每个学生的成长都是十分重视的，如果心中的天平倾向于所谓的好学生，就会使我们无法公平地对待每位学生，特别是那些学困生。我们更应该尊重和保护他们，由于学习基础较差，或接受能力慢、反应慢，对学习缺乏一定的信心，如果再受到老师的冷淡、批评甚至嘲讽，就会更差。作为教师要有一双善于发现学生身上优点的眼睛，要善于发现学生的闪光点，及时进行肯定和鼓励，给学生创造获得自信的机会，使学生充分感受到老师是对自己的关心、尊重和信任，让学生看到自己的进步，认识自身的价值，品尝学习成功的喜悦，在每个学生在原有基础上能不断进步，不断发展。
三、相信学生，该放手时就要放手
教师和学生的关系有时候就像抓沙子一样，抓的越紧就会失去的越多。在教学过程中，如果教师始终把学习的主动权抓在手中，不敢放手让学生去自学、去实践，生怕放开手他们就学不会、做不好，这会使学生丧失学习的积极性。其实学习如同孩子学走路一样，开始扶着东西走，慢慢地松开手自己蹒跚而行，过了一段时间，自己掌握了平衡，就能够独立行走了。教学也应该这样——放开手，他们才能更快地学会走路，才能走得更好。放手是一种信任，放手，给学生一片自由的天空，让他们有试飞的空间和机会，这样才能练就强劲的翅膀，去搏击长空。放手，就是给学生更多的机会和责任，让他们在体验中得到列多的发展。
四、放松情绪，减轻压力感
要学会处理好各种关系，包括处理好人与社会的关系，只能是个人适应社会，而不是社会适应个人。处理好与本职工作的关系。处理好人与人的关系。要容人之短，学人之长，善待他人就是善待自己。处理好师生的紧张关系。有关专家建议，消除师生紧张关系的三剂良方：一要允许学生申诉；二要宽容学生的错误，三要充满耐心。工作之余，积极参加有益身心的文体活动，努力建立和谐的人际关系，这样既可以缓解压力，也可提高心理承受能力。
要学会合理宣泄。对亲近和信任的朋友或亲人倾诉，或建立和经营自己的博客，再如逛街，买些自己喜欢的东西等等。交几个挚友，有空时和她们推心置腹坦诚交流，和朋友交流互助，倾诉委屈，分享快乐，避免过于封闭而导致心胸狭窄。
要培养自己的爱好。健康的业余爱好可以调节身心，缓解心理压力。我们可以走出户外，散步、打球，在运动中增强体持，放松心情；可以和家人一起走进大自然……保持良好的心态，让自己幸福地生活、快乐地工作，同时潜移默化地影响着学生，在平凡的工作中感受教师的职业幸福。
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所周知适当的心理压力是工作的动力，但压力太大却会给工作带来负面的影响，有时甚至酿成严重的后果。在众多行业中，教师的心理压力较重，因为教育对象是一个个鲜活的个体，不同于工厂里的机器零件。俗话说“百人百性”，现在的学生多是独生子女，父母的宠爱造成了他们怕吃苦，个性执拗，爱听好话、遇事容易走极端。这些给教师的工作增加了一定的难度，再加上社会的飞速发展，教育系统竞争上岗、实行聘任制，对教师提出了更高要求；家长对教师的期望值也越来越高，使不少教师长期心理紧张，成为职业心理疾病高发人群。
教师心理压力大，进而产生不良情绪或心理问题，心情不好，会不自觉地将悲观、抑郁、暴躁等情绪带进课堂，这时就很难耐心地与学生交流。沉重的心理压力也损害了教师的身心健康，降低免疫力，使人体处于亚健康状态，容易诱发各类疾玻教师的心理问题还会对家庭产生不良影响：心情不好时，对学生还要面带笑容，而一回到家里就好像变了一个人，脾气暴躁，没有耐心。
为了让我们更好的认识压力来源，并解决心理压力，学校让我们阅读了《为心灵解压》一书，通过阅读我了解到教师心理压力的自我缓解可从以下方面着手进行：
一、调整认知，找准压力源
教师本人作为心理压力源有三个方面：
1、教师对自身能力、水平认识不足，过高估计自己，自我期望值过高，经常导致活动失败而引发心理压力。
2、教师本身的人格缺陷，如名利思想、患得患失、追求完美、意志力差等造成的心理压力。
3、教师思考问题的方式和角度不正确而造成心理压力。
二、放松情绪，减轻压力感
教师在紧张的学习工作之余，利用学校体育场地、设施的便利条件，经常进行体育运动不仅必要，而且可能。开展丰富多彩的业余活动可以调节教师紧张的生活节奏，使情绪得到松弛，减轻心理上的压力感。同时，又能陶冶性情，使人心胸开朗，增强心理承受能力。
三、磨练意志，增强抗压性
教师要坚信自己决定的合理性，并保持充沛精力，克服各种不符合目的的内外部困难和干扰，不屈不挠地为实现目的而奋斗，做到在困难面前不退缩，在压力面前不屈服，在引诱面前不动遥同时，教师要注意培养自己的自制性，学会自觉、灵活地控制自己的情绪，克服懒惰、恐惧、紧张、愤怒和失望等不良情绪的干扰。
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前些日子，买了今年的畅销书，斯坦福大学最受欢迎的心理学课程，凯利·麦格尼格尔所着的《自控力》这本书，我虽然还没有读完，但我实在是忍不住要给大家推荐一下这本书，真的是很棒的书!
半个月来，我惊奇的发现，我的变化在不自觉中慢慢的受到影响，改变了自己多年头疼恶习。我原来好看电视，上网注意力不集中，老是会耽搁事情，对了!我还有严重的拖延症……最近这几天我发现，这些恶习的次数在慢慢的减少，我也惊奇的发现，我居然也找了主宰自己生活的感觉。
这两天每当我，上网看电视时，我总能第一时间意识到，之前就不会，有时候一看不停，就耽搁事情，然后就陷入负罪感的泥沼。
这两天我也会把之前自己一直想干，但老拖着的事情，也干起来，真的就是想到就马上去干。
总之，这些天的改变让我从新对我的生活有了希望，我不再会自责，不再会后悔，取而代之的是一点点自信心的增加。
现在我忍不住分享下自己的心得，希望对大家有所裨益：
1、面对拖延症，我们要想象自己如果做了这个事情该对自己的生活有多么大的改变，这样会提高我们脑中的多巴胺的分泌，然后促使自己去做。
2、面对你不想做的诱惑，我们首先要做到的是意识到诱惑，我们多数情况下是无意识就掉进陷阱了，然后就会后悔，再就是彻底的放弃自己，又一次次的从新开始，我们先要意识，再就是减少被诱惑的频率，如果你意识到自己被诱惑了，你就告诉自己，把这些诱惑集中放到一个时间段来做，现在不急，等到了那个时候在做，这样你就可以骗骗自己的大脑，减少这个诱惑的多巴胺的分泌，然后真到了那个时间，你自己会不会被诱惑还说不来呢?
3、我们要做个乐观的悲观主义者。就是多自己想要做的事情，未来抱有希望，这样有助于自己不会半途而废，同时还不能就想着自己就一定能够达到目标，有想到万一成功不了怎么办!这样既是警醒自己，也是督促自己，才有可能最后成功。
以上三点，是我目前的感受，我感觉受益终身了，后续有啥想法，还会分享。
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自控力是一个人从幼稚到成熟的深刻表现。没有自控力的人是没有好习惯，而没有好的习惯就不会有好的人生。我在想既然自控力对我这么重要，那我如何才能提高自控力呢？斯坦福大学的心理学家凯利·麦格尼格尔教授的人气新书《自控力》就是介绍如何提高自控力的一本好书。这本书写作的最大特点是以解决问题的方案形式出现的，不像我们平时阅读的书目一样的分章节。
整本书大都从不同的角度在论述方法，归结起来提升自控力的方法有以下几点：
1、设定长远并切合实际的目标，最好将目标步步分解。长期目标与短期目标激励相结合。
2、自我形象认知。将一个将来理想中的自己作为这个认知的范畴，提升面对诱惑时的自制力。书中没有对于自我想象进行进一步论述。但这显然是一个更浩大的工程，提升个人修养与境界从来都不是想象画个框框就可以轻松实现的。
3、在面对诱惑的时候适当的做出回避短期行为的措施，适当的回避有助于将眼光放到长期目标上。
自控力也有很容易失控的时候：当我们面对压力时不能认真倾听自己内心的诉求时造成的自我约束的放松。
那么我们应该怎样防止这样的事情发生呢，作者没有回避这样的问题解决方法：面对诱惑我们不能简单的认为自己是可以回避解决的'。显然实际中我们越想回避什么自己越是往上面放心思。这时候作者提出的作法是：“用心感受自我忠于你的感受，但别相信你所有的想法。”用对内接受自我，对外控制行动的方法驾驭自我的冲动。作者进一步详细说：你无法控制会出现什么想法，但你不必接受他的内容……换言之你可以对自己说“好吧，那种想法又来了，有得心烦。不过，这就是思维的运作方式，他并不一定意味着什么”但不要对自己说：“好吧，我想这是真的。我真是个糟糕的人，糟糕的事会发生在我身上，我想要接受这一点”。这真是个想得开的好办法，有什么比放低身段，坦然面对自己的想法更能解决问题的呢。
从这本书里学到的最重要的一点我觉得就是把“我不要”换成“我想要”的思维方式，只是换一个角度思考，对自己的意义就大大的不同了。
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初读这本书就被书里的一些科学实验所吸引，科学实验的结果往往和自己的原有观念相反，也许正是这种别出心裁，才让人饶有兴致地往下读。
本书的亮点不仅在于新颖的科学实验，更是本书在每一章节都有
一、意志力训练的方法：每天5分钟大脑冥想训练，在脑海中默念“呼”和“吸”，把注意力集中在呼吸上。当你开始走神的时候，重新集中注意力。当然每天的运动和充足睡眠必不可少，可以更好的促进意志力训练。
二、影响意志力的因素：感觉到压力时，试着放慢呼吸，增强抗压能力。压力和意志力相抗衡，所以要想提升意志力，必须释放压力；饥饿会降低意志力，饿的时候及时补充坚果类小零食，不让自己长时间处在饥饿状态。
三、高效工作法则：将重要的事情永远放在第一位。
四、不为放纵行为作辩护，不盲目奖励自己，盲目奖励会让人迷失方向，偏离目标和自我感动。放纵自己时想想自己的目标和努力的原因。
五、不向明天赊账，从今天开始。谁也不能保障未来的你可以做得更好，不能把压力都给未来的那个自己。可以给五年后、十年后的自己写邮件，将对自己的期望等等都写在邮件里，定时发送。
六、巧妙利用多巴胺，把自己不想做的事情变成想做的事。
七、远离让人产生恐惧的事物或者新闻，因为这些新闻会增加自己的恐惧，让人不适，不利于实现目标。
八、面临失败时，自我同情比自我打击有效得多。要学会原谅自己，过多的责备会让人一蹶不振。
九、乐观的悲观主义更能成功。预测你什么时候、会怎样受到诱惑和违背承诺，想象一个不让自己放弃抗争的具体方法。
十、面临诱惑时，运用“10分钟延迟法则”。
十一、公开自己的挑战，想象别人都在关注自己，这样可以时刻激励自己。
请一定要提升自控力，不断努力，这样马斯诺所说的自我实现需求终有一天得到满足。
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终于把《自控力》这本书读完了。为什么选择看这本书？因为真的觉得自己的自控力不足。（当初选择看这本书的时候，某人还劝我别看了，说我自控力很强，不需要看这本书，看来我隐藏的还是挺好的）。看完这本书以后，得出以下几个结论：
自控力（意志力）的存在是有神经生物学原理的。人脑的前额皮质实际是控制意志力的关键因素，为了证明这个理论，作者还例举了临床医学的案例：一个因为意外事故而失去前额，但是奇迹般幸存下来的工人，在康复后性情大变，因为前额皮质受损而导致不能控制情绪，与之前的自己判若两人。而影响自制力的真正因素是人脑分泌多巴胺的多少。对于女人来说，试想一下如果遇到LV打折季，看到专卖店人头攒动的情景，自己是不是也觉得必须买一个包包，否则就亏了？其实这个时候你的多巴胺在大量分泌，欲望在膨胀。
自控力是可以像肌肉一样训练的。看完这本书总结出两个比较简单的办法：
1）每天坚持5分钟冥想，
2）特别想做某件不应该做的事的时候，可以让自己尽可能等一等再做（比如抽烟、总想看手机这种事）。
如果觉得自己无法很好的锻炼自控力，还有一个被动的方式，就是努力把自己置身于正确的人群中。怎么理解这个意思？这本书用了整整一个章节来解释，而中国古人早就已经有总结：近朱者赤近墨者黑。为什么自己会闯红灯？因为看见身边的人都过街，所以觉得闯红灯很正常啊。读后感·为什么现在看到行人过马路，会踩刹车了？因为旁边的车都停下了，自己也不好意思冲过去。所以真心劝大家有可能的情况下咬咬牙买学区房吧，小孩子自控力比较差，应该尽量给他们找个好的集体环境。而且一定要住在学区房，周边的人文环境也是会有潜移默化的影响。
看了这本书，得出上面这一套歪把子理论，也不知道对不对。但是我觉得应该不会错，就比如自己总是推托没时间看书，幸好加入了这个书友会，至少有一群人在互相监督，我终于能把篇很挫的读后感写下来一样，说明还是有点用的。自控力不足的人，就只能靠大家帮忙督促啦。
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生活中有很多诱惑，诱惑从何而来，而面对诱惑的自控力、意志力如何产生，又该如何维持?《自控力》一书第六章“情绪低落为何会使人屈服于诱惑”中对意志力、压力、诱惑力三者的关系进行了全面的阐述，当一个人承受巨大的压力而情绪低落时，就更容易受到外界的诱惑。
为什么压力会与诱惑挂钩呢，因为当人感到压力时，大脑就会指引着你，让你去做它认为能带给你快乐的事情(书中称之为大脑的奖励系统)。例如，你很喜欢逛街，那么在你感觉情绪低落、压力大时，你的大脑就会将你的喜好无限放大，这时逛街就成了一种很美好的诱惑，能够缓解你压力与低落情绪的诱惑，这种诱惑会让我们失去理性，被本能支配，从而采取一些不起作用的应对策略来缓解自身压力，起到相反的效果，因此想要提升自身抵制外界诱惑的意志力就必须学会缓解自身压力。
我认为缓解自身压力可以从以下四个方面入手：
一是要学会丢包袱。生活中繁杂的事务会将我们宝贵的时间和精力支解，使我们没有充足的时间和精力去执行最重要的事情。这时，你会感觉到很大的压力。有效的办法是先分析一下什么对你是最重要的，哪些事情是次要的，重要的事情先做，次要的少做或不做，这样就可以为自己赢得宝贵的时间。
二是要善待自己，放低标准。不要对自己太苛刻了，至善至美只是一个遥远的梦，摆脱完美主义的束缚!不要妄想把所有的事情都干得完美无缺。适当放低一下标准，放松一下自己的心情，或许在客观上也减轻了别人的压力。
三是要给自己留一点思考的时间。压力的产生也可能是因为对事情本身的理解造成的。过分夸大了事情的重要性和后果，导致心理负担加重。不少人往往因为急于求成，而忘记了对事情本身的思考。留一点儿时间思考能让你更清楚地看到事情本来的面目，同时也给了自己一下解剖情绪、分解压力的机会。
四是不要忘了休息。过重的劳动会导致人生理疲劳，效率低下，从而导致过分的焦急与紧张。适当的休息不但会缓解大脑疲劳，而且可以放松一下紧张的心情，减轻心中的压力。
压力既是动力、又是阻力，只有从根本上了解压力、认识压力，掌握正确的解压方法，才能进一步提升自身抵制外界诱惑的意志力和自控力，在能力和事业上得到进一步升华。
缓解压力的英语作文 篇1
It is true that people in modern times experience great stress in their lives. However, as to the ways to cope with the stress, different people have different opinions. Some insist on traveling, while others argue for listening to the music or even playing computer games. In my opinion, an effective solution to relieve pressure is to do physical exercise.
My suggestion lies in the following reasons. First of all, exercise not only helps to release peoples emotional breakdowns but also improves their mental state. By concentrating on their body movement, men forget about their annoyances and escape from the busy day. Whats more, physical exercise moulds peoples character and promotes a more optimistic attitude towards life. Besides, physical exercise conduces to sound health, with which people can face up to the stress and difficulties in life more readily and easily.
In a word, physical exercise plays a positive role in killing stress. I believe that my own experience is also applicable to others. Therefore, I suggest that people should go jogging or do other forms of sport when they feel pressed.
带翻译：
的确,在现代经验的人在他们的生活中产生巨大的压力。然而,随着方法来应对压力,不同的人有不同的观点。一些坚持旅行,而另一些人认为听音乐或者玩电脑游戏。在我看来,一个有效的解决方案是做体育锻炼来缓解压力。
我的建议是以下原因。首先,运动不仅有助于释放人的情绪崩溃,但也提高了他们的精神状态。通过专注于他们的身体运动,男人忘记烦恼和逃离忙碌的一天。更重要的是,体育锻炼塑造人的性格和促进一个更乐观的生活态度。此外,体育锻炼有助于健康,人们可以在生活中面对压力和困难更容易和轻松。
总之,体育锻炼造成压力发挥了积极作用。我相信我自己的经验也适用于其他人。因此,我建议人们应该去跑步或者做其他形式的运动时,他们感到压力。
缓解压力的英语作文 篇2
With the development of society, the competition of the entire society is more and more intense, causing increasing pressure to people. Stress of study, work and life are ubiquitous, but how can we deal with it? Here are some tips that I hope can be useful.
Firstly, keep good health. A healthy body is the premise to face presure. It’s the least capacity to cope with stress when a person is sick. Secondly, to accept the pressure. The reason why many people can not cope with stress is that they resist and escape it. Actually, there always is trouble and problems once we chose a path to go, because almost everything worth doing is not so easy. Thirdly, solve the problem, rather than complain about it. Many people complain about the surroundings and don’t think about the solutions when faced with problems. We all know that complaint can do nothing but only let you down. As long as the problem not solved, the pressure is always there. Fourthly, tell others your pressure and get help from them. Lots of pressure can’t be solved by our own and the rational way is talking the pressure to workmates or friends to get help from them. But the premise to do so is that we don’t intend to put pressure to others but to seek help and support to solve problems.
Of course, there also are some other ways to cope with stress, such as readjusting goal and expectation, playing games to relax, even shopping or eating. But no matter how, solving the problem that causes stress is the best way.
缓解压力的英语作文 篇3
Stress is an inevitable part in our normal life. many kinds of things, such as natural disasters, war and death can cause too much stress in our life. but according to a psychologist, on a day-to-day basis, stress may result from the small things: taking an exam, waiting in line, and having too many things to do in a limited time.
we all need stress to add flavor, challenge, and opportunity to life, but too much stress can seriously affect our physical and mental well-being, it reduces the body`s immunity and harms the brain, if the stress lasts a long time, it may cause physical illness, insomnia, headaches, backaches, ulcers, high blood pressure-even heart disease.
when stress does occur, it`s important to recognize and deal with it. there ore some methods we can try. a large number of physical activities can reduce onxiety. shoring our stress with others can be enormously helpful. making time for fun such os listening to music may be good medicine. sometimes even crying is on efficient way to releose stress.
缓解压力的英语作文 篇4
Hello, boys and girls!
Pressure is a serious problem in todays world. Students in our class are under too much pressure. Some students cant get on well with their classmates, while others may worry about their exams.
Im always under pressure, too. My parents want me to be the top student in class. So they send me to all kinds of after-classes at weekends. Last Monday evening, I had a talk with my mother. I told her I was not lazy. I really felt tired. I needed time to relax. My mother agreed with me at last. So I think a conversation with parents is necessary to solve the problem.
Thats all. Thank you!
缓解压力的英语作文 篇5
A well known benefit of developing high Emotional Intelligence， especially for managers， is the greater ability to engage and motivate the people they work with。
Another less well known benefit of having great EQ is it can help in effective stress management， or in other words， to bring our stress to a comfortable level。 This is the goal of many managers who feel that they are facing too much stress at work。But how can Emotional Intelligence help in stress management？There are three ways。
1、 Our emotions are good indicators of our stress level。 If we are aware of our own emotions， we can identify the signs of unusually high stress earlier。 Then we can take steps to relax or to control our emotions， and avoid further stress。
For example， getting angry ten times in one single day at our team members， peers， or other people we interact with is most likely not a sign that they have suddenly become more annoying or incapable。 It is more likely to be a sign that our level of stress has increased， and that our tolerance for anything that doesn’t go our way has decreased。
2、 Self—management， the second dimension of Emotional Intelligence， also helps decrease our stress。 Self—management is our ability to prevent the waves of our negative emotions from rising too high。 An example of self—management is keeping our sadness or anger from reaching an intensity when we can not function and work normally， and when it can even be painful。
Such high emotional waves further escalates stress in two ways。
First， stress is amplified by the feeling that we are “losing control”。 And then it can be accompanied by guilt…and even more stress。
Secondly， decisions we make during these emotional waves are usually not well—thought and usually bring us more trouble and more stress。 For example， decisions we make during an episode of anger are can be expected to result to extra work to repair “collateral damages”。
3、 Social awareness， the third dimension of Emotional Intelligence decreases stress by lessening interpersonal conflicts in the workplace。 One serious conflict with one of our team members or peers can eat up a tremendous amount of our energy and result to a lot of stress。
How exactly does better social awareness lead to less conflicts？ Social awareness is the ability to recognize emotions in other people， and to handle them resourcefully。 In situations when conflicts can easily arise， this skill is particularly useful。 By identifying the emotions in our counterpart and then acknowledging these emotions， we can prevent a disagreement from turning into an open personal conflict。
As a conclusion， if you are feeling that you are too stressed， I encourage you to look at how you could develop your Emotional Intelligence further。
There are several other ways to bring your level of stress down， like working on your time management or the way you delegate， or using effective relaxation techniques。 But improving your Emotional Intelligence is a way you can count on。
中文对照：
众所周知，开发高情商的好处就是能够提升你鼓励员工更好的工作的能力。另外一个拥有高情商的好处就是能够帮助你控制压力。换句话说就是能将你的压力控制在一个人可以承受的范围里。这是众多面对工作压力的管理者想要达到的共同目标。
但情商是怎样缓解压力的呢？有三个方法：
1．我们的感情是我们现阶段所承受压力的一个标志。如果我们能够及早获悉我们自己的感情，就可以早点获知我们现在是否处在高压之中。这样就可以采取措施控制我们的感情，避免遭受到更大的压力。比如说，对我们的同事，伙伴和其他的人一天发十次的脾气并不意味着我们变的烦躁或无法控制自己的感情。它标示着我们正在遭受到越来越大的压力，我们对事情的容忍能力在下降。
2．自我控制。这是情商控制的第二个方面，也是帮助我们减少压力的一个重要的途径。自我控制是避免是我们的消极感情上升的一个有效途径。自我控制最好的一个例子就是当我们无法正常工作，甚至是感到很痛苦的时候，它能够帮助我们将压力限制在我们可以控制的范围之内。这种情绪的波动常常会在两个方面加深我们的压力。首先压力常常因为我们自身感到无法控制而变的更加严重了。随之而来的是有罪恶感和更大的压力。其次，我们在情绪波动情况下所作出的决定通常都没有经过深思熟虑，它只会给我们带来更多的麻烦和更大的压力。例如，我们在生气时候做出来的决定需要更多的额外工作来弥补。
3．社会意识。这是情商有效缓解压力的第三个方面。它能够缓解我们在工作时与别人产生冲突。与团队里的同事或伙伴发生冲突通常会耗费我们许多的精力导致更大压力的产生。为什么说良好的社会意识会帮助我们减少人与人之间的冲突呢？首先，社会意识能帮助我们更好的认识他人的感情，更好的处理自身与他人之间的感情。在某种情况下人与人的冲突可能会激化，但我们可以通过提高我们的社会意识来避免冲突的产生。
总而言之，如果你觉得你正在承受着巨大的压力，我建议你应该想想如何使你的情商得到开发。还有其他的方法能够帮你缓解压力，如协调好你的工作时间，你处事的方法等其他有效的缓解压力的方法。用你认为可靠的'方法来使你情商得到发展吧。
缓解压力的英语作文 篇6
In the present society, with the exploration of human needs, pursuit and desire, human beings have pushed the life together. But most people can not follow the evolution of the joint, will feel the pressure of life, to the life of the roll!
Dont always want to finish much more work than you can do, because one day, you will feel depressed because of less work done than planned. Only to increase your own pressure. You should try to improve this situation now. Relying on your own ability to complete the workload, so that you will not be disappointed by the completion of the work that is less than the plan. People should hold this kind of mentality: do one thing no matter what, because of difficult to achieve perfection, in the work, to show their talent, to play their own potential, not because of the existence of self humble causal work.
In the final analysis, in the final analysis is to survive, in order to meet the needs of life! That is to meet the desires of the individual!
I think all the origin is a place of "common human heart"! It can dilute the evolution and sublimation of all of you! What do you think of it, what is it! Oh, can make you a lifetime of pain, also can let the happy life! As long as we do it, how to live through share it, how to drive it, only you can clear direction, you need to test your life infiltration surrounding environment to identify and travel!
If you have to accept the truth, what has happened cant be changed. No matter what you do wrong, you turn it into a small thing, hehe, relative to life is just a small thing. Let it be the story of the past, it can also be a lesson to remember! But you must remember that the unfortunate story must not be allowed to play again. Do not weigh anything to life, everything is a thing of life, life is not brought, death does not go. Its not worth doing that, only you know the best. For things to take it up and put it down, can take temporary setbacks. Looking for a best balance point to carry to scratch your heart, with the "lost" to do the balance! You will lose, lose win, gain and loss, loss is too lazy to human survival interlocking protocol is! You can never keep off the saturation state, is a new idea, the pursuit of!
You cant be too greedy, everything is just a passing traveller. A flower world, you have to take its process, use it to dilute your life for a period of time, it can not be two days in the world is the same. You have to know that everything will have the precious and unreflux time of your life, and dont have too much demand, and you cant overdo yourself too much. All things have a moderate, more than moderate you will be troubled by the outside world, natural will become a load! To learn "know Stop" "contentment". How to release pressure, relieve pressure, and more importantly, how to relieve pressure, alleviate the need for a certain process, everything is how you do it, so as to ease the pressure in your heart. Other people are only the role of guidance, so you do what you like, what you should do!
缓解压力的英语作文 篇7
As our students, we also have to face with much pressure, such as the study pressure, exam pressure,relationship pressure and so on. But how can we cope with pressure? This is the most important.
Firstly, we should face the pressure appropriately. Pressure is inevitable in our daily life, so we cant be afraid of them and try our best to cope with them. Secondly, tell our pressure to others. Talking is a very effective way to ease pressure, and during the talking, we may get some suggestions and solutions. Finally, trust ourselves. We should believe ourselves that we can deal with any troubles by ourselves or by others help.
翻译：
由于世界的高度发展，压力已经成为现今一个严重的问题。作为学生，我们也必须面对压力，比如学习压力，考试压力，关系压力等等。但是，怎样缓解压力呢？这是最重要的。
首先，我们应该正对面对压力。压力是我们日常生活中不可避免的，所以我们不能害怕她，要尽力去解决它们。其次，向别人倾诉压力。聊天是缓解压力的有效方式，在聊天过程中，我们可能会得到一些建议和解决方法。最后，要相信自己。我们应该相信自己我们可以通过自己或他人的帮助处理任何麻烦。
缓解压力的英语作文 篇8
Now, the students learning pressure is great, and after class life is a good medicine to relieve the pressure of learning. I have a very interesting extracurricular life.
The biggest pleasure in my spare time is to collect rubber. Those strange and eccentric, imitate characters, animal images and daily necessities like rubber to collect a small jar, every time I look up will be an endless enjoyment. Those lively and lovely animals, such as rubber, lifelike daily necessities, erasers, and some funny and funny rubber, can relieve the pressure and annoyance of my learning and life. Whenever I collect the eraser, their lovely and genuine smile intoxicated me, as if I felt that I was one of them. I could play with them freely.
Im the only child at home. My mom and dad are busy, and I dont have time to play with me, so my best partner is the rubber. There are no secrets and lies between us. We take care and comfort each other. We are the best friends.
缓解压力的英语作文 篇9
How to Reduce Stress
如何减少压力
As the pace of modern life continues to quicken,many people are in the habit of rushing through life.Some admit that stress seems to be on the increase all the time.A certain degree of stress is beneficial to us,but too much stress is certainly harmful,and sometimes may even harmful to our health and physique.So it is necessary to know how to reduce stress.
随着现代生活的节奏不断加快,许多人的一生都活在匆忙的习惯中.一些人承认压力似乎一直在增加.一定程度的压力对我们是有利的,但是过多的压力肯定是有害的,有时甚至可能损害我们的身体健康和体质.因此有必要知道如何减轻压力
There are many ways that can help us solve this problem,but the following may be the most effective.First,learn to come to terms with yourselves.Dont set a goal that is too high because there are many things in this world that are beyond your reach.Learn to be content to go as far as you can.Second,learn to come to terms with the world around you.Dont try to change other people or other things.There are people and things in this world that you can do nothing about.So learn to accept them.Third,dont be too interested in material things and dont try to "keep up with the Joneses."Dont harbor any jealousy,vanity or resentment to others.Be satisfied with what you have.Finally,keep in touch with your friends.Talk with them,share with them your happiness and misery.This will help to make you feel better.
有很多方法可以帮助我们解决这个问题,但下面的可能是最有效的.第一,学习接受自己.不要设定太高的目标,因为在这个世界上有很多事情是超出你的能力范围的.学会尽量满足自己.第二,学习适应你周围的世界.不要试途去改变其他人或其他东西.这个世界上的有些人和有些事是你无法改变的.所以要学会接受他们.第三,不要过于关注物质的东西,不要试图攀比.“不要怀有任何嫉妒,虚荣,或者怨恨之心.满足于你所拥有的.最后,和你的朋友保持联系.与他们谈话,与他们分享你的快乐和痛苦.这将有助于使你感觉更好.
These are not necessarily the only ways to solve the problem,and it is my hope that everyone can reduce the too much stress in his work and study and live a relaxed happy life.
这些不一定是唯一解决问题的途径,我希望每个人都可以在他的工作和学习上减轻过多的压力,活得更轻松.
缓解压力的英语作文 篇10
In the face of life and work at present, whether you feel it was going crazy, from work, familypressure makes you feel that Yudu is out of breath, and sometimes feel overwhelmed. So in this state, prior to your physical and mental health in the pressure so much, you have to think of a way.So here are eighteen ways to rescue you from your pressure!
A: slow down
May every day of your table is full to see the file, your right hand in hand still needs to answer the phone, read data. You have to deal with all kinds of people, said a variety of words. You must remember, try to keep optimistic attitude, slow down your speed.
Two: dont be so serious
And friends may wish to say a little joke, everyone laughed, the atmosphere is active, you will also be relaxed. In fact, laughter can not only reduce tension, and enhance the bodys immune function.
Three: dont let the negative voice around himself, and his mad
The boss might say that you do not, in fact you have many advantages, but the boss did not find it.
Four: only about one thing at a time
Womens anxiety often than men. Researchers at the Harvard University studied 6 weeks of 166 married couples, found problems because women are more loving aspects, so women more often than men feel the pressure. She will consider their work, weight, and each member of the familyhealth etc..
The five day: concentrate on a few minutes
For example, the current work is to lay the report, all other things behind, not to think. In the work space, you can spend 20 minutes to relax, just focus on everything around you, like what you see,hear, feel, smell and so on, regardless of your work.
Six: say or write out your worries
Keep a diary, or talk with friends together, at least you will not feel lonely and helpless. Americanmedical experts have grouped for some people with rheumatoid arthritis or asthma, a group of people with a perfunctory way of recording the things that they did every day. Another group was asked to write diary every day carefully, including their fear and pain. The researchers found thatafter a group of very few people because they are worried about the disease and anxiety.
Seven: no matter how busy you are, you must take exercise
The researchers found that after stepping on the treadmill for 30 minutes after the test level of the pressure drop of 25%. Go to the gym, brisk walking for 30 minutes, or when to get up will do some stretching exercises.
Eight: enjoy the fun
Not only the traditional body massage, including foot massage, manicure or beauty, which can let you feel relaxed.
Nine: relax yourself for a whole day
Read a novel, sing, drink a cup of tea, or simply doing nothing, sitting in the window in a daze. By this time the key is your inner body, a kind of quiet, a kind of relaxation.
Ten: remember what happened today at least one of the first things
No matter how tough you are today, not happy, back home, should be a good thing today to share with their families.
The methods of
Eleven: Reading
Interested in reading books, reading makes pleasant reading books, pay no heed to browsing. Buttake a good book, then put it down, then, all the troubles on earth will be behind you.
Twelve: listen to music
Music is good enough human language. Listen to the song, listen to relaxing music can make people feel fresh, immersed in a happy and forget their troubles. She sings is a kind of bearing, achic, a relief, a call on longevity.
Thirteen: seek relaxation
Yaqu including chess and cards, painting, fishing etc.. Do you like activities, the natural psychological imbalance gradually balance. "No matter what kind of currently facing the troublesand threats in the future, once the screen begins to unfold, the brain will not screen their foothold.They retired to the shadow of darkness, all their attention to the above work." Elizabeth is cured by painting depression.
Fourteen: talk
Emotionally available to talk with the balance of external stimuli, to avoid disease disaster. When faced with misfortune, annoyed and frustrated, not depressing, deep heart mind, and should takethe trouble to you trust. Calm, understanding person talk, also speak also for automatic speaking,on the side of the animal.
Fifteen: Travel
Psychological imbalance when a person has trouble, he should go to nature. There are morecoastal mountains or around the air anion. Anion is one necessary material and animal survival.More anions in the air, the bodys organs and tissues are more adequate oxygen metabolism, thenSheng, neurohumoral regulation function enhancement, promote the healthy body. Health, psychology is more easy to calm.
Sixteen: doing good
Do good, be happy, balanced psychology. Good things, comfort the heart, feel at ease; others respond to their encouragement, happy mood. People start from their own, so that there will be a friend. When others are in need of help, put out your hand, a concern to people. Kindness is one of the best quality, you cant love everyone, but as long as you can get along with everyone.
缓解压力的英语作文 篇11
Stress is an inevitable part in our normal life. many kinds of things, such as natural disasters, war and death can cause too much stress in our life. but according to a psychologist, on a day-to-day basis, stress may result from the small things: taking an exam, waiting in line, and having too many things to do in a limited time.
we all need stress to add flavor, challenge, and opportunity to life, but too much stress can seriously affect our physical and mental well-being, it reduces the body`s immunity and harms the brain, if the stress lasts a long time, it may cause physical illness, insomnia, headaches, backaches, ulcers, high blood pressure-even heart disease.
when stress does occur, it`s important to recognize and deal with it. there ore some methods we can try. a large number of physical activities can reduce onxiety. shoring our stress with others can be enormously helpful. making time for fun such os listening to music may be good medicine. sometimes even crying is on efficient way to releose stress.
